Minnie Naiem Bi tie up ........ - Page 7

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

The most obvious scenario will be HS realizing what he's said, he releases her hand, she's hurt and runs away. And he's hell guilty.

We've discussed so many possibilities I'm sure kuch alag hi hoga 🤣

Haan alag hi hoga. CVs hamara popat banayenge, jaise HS ne Minnie ka banaya tha. I'm sure that what HS will continue telling Minnie about would be wonderful. Hope that conversation is not left unfinished.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

It might have something to do with their convo, which was very purposely left in the middle and edited in that fashion for suspense.

🤔

So we wouldn't be able to guess till Monday cause all the segments of this scene are also out. Smart CVs.

Yes, they do this on purpose to drive us nuts (and the TRP up).

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Episode was good. I am damn confused by the precap 🤔.

The weird thing I felt was the inconsistency. Mini is surprised that NB knows that Hanita “love” each other... didn’t she just hear a conversation between NB and B yesterday where NB clearly mentions B’s love for HS, so why was Mini surprised to know this? I didn’t get this part 🙄. Babita pretty much confessed to NB in yesterday’s episode that she has feelings for HS, so why was she surprised when NB brought up about confessing to HS as if she’s taken aback that NB knows about them. These 2 scenarios didn’t make sense 😐.

Coming to the precap, what was that? I get the intensity and all but why is HS acting like this? Pulling babita so harshly and out of the blue and what did he mean by what he said?!?! 🙄. What would make him react that way? What could have Babita said.. did she bring up Imarti? Going by what NB says about “ab Imarti nahin use rokne ke liye”.. my guess is CVS are trying to explore this and this is where the story is headed. I am not gonna jump to conclusion but I hope they don’t butcher HS’s character like they did with Ashok’s.

Also, how much can they delay the confession. They both love each other so what will stop them from confessing? 😕

Yes, it was strange to hear Minnie seem surprised that NB knew. I think it was because she hadn't been aware that NB had known about HS' side of the story too and that she had thought of Babita and HS coming together long before Minnie had even had an inkling.

Babita most likely did bring Imarti up. That has been a no-go zone that he doesn't really let anyone enter. Do you remember when they were having the party at home and Lala was remembering HS' wedding? HS had asked him not to speak of it because he still felt pain in his heart over those memories.

The confession can wait, these two have a lot of things to sort out before then.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Yeah I guess we have to wait to find out. I also wonder what that havan is for? There’s gonna be a havan after all this drama. Hmm let’s see.

Maybe some new venture of Babita's?

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I'm feeling afraid of this now. I never knew it'll all come down to something so dark and vulnerable. Passion, I've no idea. It exists but the limits - we don't know. More so, cause they're been suppressing it so badly. About being intense, that might be a cause. This sure has something to do with their convo that CVs left midway. So that we can keep guessing the reason.

But HS has to be docile. Imarti was who she was. Babita is NOT Imarti. And HS is currently subconsciously waiting for her to fill Imarti's shoes. I think this may lead to a big dispute later cause he's not known fully to anyone yet. I think NB and HS had this convo once about Babita and Imarti being different.

In no way he'll stop loving Imarti. Its just that he needs to start loving Babita, in a different new and unique way.

What I meant was, he was afraid that someday the Mother daughter would capture his Haveli. He's somewhere afraid of completely surrendering himself to the love. Cause he knows they sometimes take undue advantage of him and he can't refuse cause they're too dear to him. He's just as afraid of the commitment right now as Babita. Not cause log kya kahenge. Cause one, he cannot lose out again, in ANY ANY way. He wouldn't be able to survive it. Two, cause still some trust is lacking from his side that these two haven't been able to instill in him. That has to happen.

It is dark, especially because he has not found a proper outlet all these years (apart from drinking). I also don't know if HS realizes that Babita might seem gentle but she has it in her to match his passion. Give her time.

Yes, they are different and I think he understands that now. Initially he thought she reminded him or Imarti but maybe he's trying to reset his expectations or is worried about having any expectations from Babita in the first place.

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Maybe that's what it is. More than the undue advantage it's his of losing them again. As for the trust factor, I think it's also because they just don't know him anywhere as well as he does. They have been very focused on themselves but have never bothered to find out what makes him tick. Minnie's recent spiel when she found out about his feelings also told him that she hadn't learned to trust 100% yet. He might say he's forgotten that episode but he was very very hurt by it. He just didn't want to bring it up because he wanted his VB to be happy.

I also think that on some level he had gotten so used to being a loner that he cannot really think along the lines that these two could one day support him as a family in his time of need the way he has been there for them. I think their tendency to take him for granted has a lot to do with trust issues if any.

More than that I think he is commitment-phobic. He was genuine when he said to Minnie he had tried to control his feelings for her mother but lost the battle to his heart. When it comes to the practical side of things he has remained silent. If you remember how and why Babita returned his money, I think that may have an impact.

You see how well the story is written that we can speculate from so many angles and they could all potentially be right. 😆

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I get passion and all but what does it mean in this context? They haven’t even explored passion as of now so obviously Babita is unaware of HS’ passion. But what does he mean by “mere ander ki aag mat jagao”.. like in what context lol? What did Babita do by telling him to not drink that uske ander ki aag jag gayi? Can’t wrap my head around it 😂.

Perhaps she mentioned something to do with aag and then it was a play of words in HS style. We'll have to wait till Monday. Pata chale khoda pahar aur nikla chuha.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

It's very carefully been thrown to us so that we keep guessing. Even the convo was cut.

Just wait and watch :P

They've been doing a great job with pre-caps of late. Pehle 24 ghante intezaar nahin hota ab 72 ghante kya karenge hum?

Originally posted by: inlieu

It is dark, especially because he has not found a proper outlet all these years (apart from drinking). I also don't know if HS realizes that Babita might seem gentle but she has it in her to match his passion. Give her time.

Yes, they are different and I think he understands that now. Initially he thought she reminded him or Imarti but maybe he's trying to reset his expectations or is worried about having any expectations from Babita in the first place.

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Maybe that's what it is. More than the undue advantage it's his of losing them again. As for the trust factor, I think it's also because they just don't know him anywhere as well as he does. They have been very focused on themselves but have never bothered to find out what makes him tick. Minnie's recent spiel when she found out about his feelings also told him that she hadn't learned to trust 100% yet. He might say he's forgotten that episode but he was very very hurt by it. He just didn't want to bring it up because he wanted his VB to be happy.

I also think that on some level he had gotten so used to being a loner that he cannot really think along the lines that these two could one day support him as a family in his time of need the way he has been there for them. I think their tendency to take him for granted has a lot to do with trust issues if any.

More than that I think he is commitment-phobic. He was genuine when he said to Minnie he had tried to control his feelings for her mother but lost the battle to his heart. When it comes to the practical side of things he has remained silent. If you remember how and why Babita returned his money, I think that may have an impact.

You see how well the story is written that we can speculate from so many angles and they could all potentially be right. 😆

What I can think is... things are quite superficial. Not the feelings, but the relationships. HS may know Babes a little more than she knows him but both dont have a grip on each other yet. I mean, both know their feelings but how invested are they into this? Certainly not in the stage that they can't back out may what happen. Both are being commitment phobic due to their own reasons. It's not the usual pehle aap situation. They're afraid.

That level of trust has to be built up first. From both the sides. I just realised, they may not confess at all. Actions are enough to justify a mere verbal confession. I don't think they'll ever say ILU even after they're married. Where's the need to do that hahaha.

HS leaving drinking forever on her command is his confession of his love for her. Not sure about her confession act though. Maybe changing Mini's surname to Singh in school?

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

What I can think is... things are quite superficial. Not the feelings, but the relationships. HS may know Babes a little more than she knows him but both dont have a grip on each other yet. I mean, both know their feelings but how invested are they into this? Certainly not in the stage that they can't back out may what happen. Both are being commitment phobic due to their own reasons. It's not the usual pehle aap situation. They're afraid.

That level of trust has to be built up first. From both the sides. I just realised, they may not confess at all. Actions are enough to justify a mere verbal confession. I don't think they'll ever say ILU even after they're married. Where's the need to do that hahaha.

HS leaving drinking forever on her command is his confession of his love for her. Not sure about her confession act though. Maybe changing Mini's surname to Singh in school?

I actually like the idea that they don't need to confess or say I love you to each other. It is not necessary as their relationship transcends that. They can convey such emotions in other ways. Yes, perhaps him leaving drinking not on her command but to please her is his surrender to her of his emotions, and his commitment. On her part, I'm not sure if there's anything she can do that is major enough. It was Minnie's decision to change her surname so if one day she changes it to Singh that could be her way of accepting HS officially as her father.

I do think that it would be a bad idea for them to get married until all the known issues have been resolved and until they are ready to commit to a lifelong relationship.

What they have right now are the beginnings of a love story but there is some way to go before it becomes epic.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I actually like the idea that they don't need to confess or say I love you to each other. It is not necessary as their relationship transcends that. They can convey such emotions in other ways. Yes, perhaps him leaving drinking not on her command but to please her is his surrender to her of his emotions, and his commitment. On her part, I'm not sure if there's anything she can do that is major enough. It was Minnie's decision to change her surname so if one day she changes it to Singh that could be her way of accepting HS officially as her father.

I do think that it would be a bad idea for them to get married until all the known issues have been resolved and until they are ready to commit to a lifelong relationship.

What they have right now are the beginnings of a love story but there is some way to go before it becomes epic.

Yep that would be Mini's call. As of now, I can't see Babita doing something significant to give her consent to this.

Marriage is far fetched as of now. A lot has to happen before it. Trust, past life, acceptance in the truest manner, all is left.

There's a long way to go now. They've just entered the gateway :)

Confession to one's own self about feelings ain't the end but the beginning