Re: Why not Love 2nd time

I don't get it why people want Babita to fall in love with someone else, when She is already in Love with HS. This is not a Exta serial where you fall in and out of Love at the drop of a hat.

HS has been a widower for a quite a number of years, why do some want him still to mourn for his dead Wife. He is in love with Babita and not once has he mentioned his dead wife.

I think what will people say will come into play with Khatri making trouble but will not succeed as I think that everyone will support HS and Babita.

I think you misunderstood what some people have stated. I won't speak on their behalf as I am newcomer to the forum, but I will for myself. Personally, I would love it if she chooses to be with HS but the point remains that whoever she chooses to be with it must be that - HER CHOICE. That's what we're all advocating for - the freedom to choose whatever companion she wants, if any.

As for HS, I don't know if you've skipped some scenes or what, but HS has always mentioned Imarti. And it's not in passing either. He has always spoken about her with deep affection, and an intense love. Yes, it's been years since she passed but that doesn't mean that he'll forget her. She was not only his first love, but was also the woman who gave him a purpose in life by changing his perspective on the relations between men and women. He may not mention her in every line but she's there with him in his soul, in his actions and statements.

The only resistance as you said is from the colony but their words will hold little weight as all the people who matter are in full support of Hanita's relationship.

Khatri represents those men who did not get a chance to take advantage of vulnerable women and resort to cheap tricks like character assasination to get back.

Imarti will always be a part of hs life but once hs had mentioned to naeem bi that he loves babita for who she is and not because she reminds him of imarti. Hope hs makes this point clear to babita too before proposing.

I too have been been watching from the beginning but since he has fallen in love he has not once mentioned His late wife at all, so I he his in love Babita.

I get what you are saying about falling in love with her choice but the way she is behaving points to love as she has never experienced it but just presumed to be in love with Ashok, hence her confusion and not understanding it yet.

But I dont want it to go falling in and out if love and various marriages like the usual way in other serials, and I don't them to butcher the Characters if they are thinking of going that way.

HS and Babita deserve love this time around. If a Men can marry without taunts than why can't a Lady do it is my point.

Originally posted by: guddi01

I too have been been watching from the beginning but since he has fallen in love he has not once mentioned His late wife at all, so I he his in love Babita.

I get what you are saying about falling in love with her choice but the way she is behaving points to love as she has never experienced it but just presumed to be in love with Ashok, hence her confusion and not understanding it yet.

But I dont want it to go falling in and out if love and various marriages like the usual way in other serials, and I don't them to butcher the Characters if they are thinking of going that way.

HS and Babita deserve love this time around. If a Men can marry without taunts than why can't a Lady do it is my point.

I totally agree with you. Yes HS is very much in love with Babita and only Babita. He has worked out Imarti's place in his life and Babita's as two completely different individuals. There is no confusion in his mind as he is a very mature man. Initially it was difficult for him but he has worked on it and it's all crystal clear to him.

And I am sure the PH and the makers will not take the Ekta path ever. I sure hope I am right. We certainly don't need a third angle. And yes they do deserve each other, they deserve love, they deserve passion and they deserve to be together as one welded happy family..

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

I totally agree with you. Yes HS is very much in love with Babita and only Babita. He has worked out Imarti's place in his life and Babita's as two completely different individuals. There is no confusion in his mind as he is a very mature man. Initially it was difficult for him but he has worked on it and it's all crystal clear to him.

And I am sure the PH and the makers will not take the Ekta path ever. I sure hope I am right. We certainly don't need a third angle. And yes they do deserve each other, they deserve love, they deserve passion and they deserve to be together as one welded happy family..