Ep 169 - 19-JUL-2019 - Main le jaaongi apni Babes ko yahan se - aapse

I want to hear HS' soliloquies in the coming episodes once things settle down. Will his general demeanor be sad or numb? Will he spend more time outside the house just to avoid mother-daughter? As far as he's concerned, Babita doesn't love him so the decision to break off friendly ties with those two would seem like shutting down a part of his heart, a key part of his life.

This will be a test of his patience indeed and also his strength of character. Thank goodness Naeem Bi and Lala are there to support him, otherwise he would have a really tough time. We know he's sensitive yet can be emotionally resilient when necessary, but why should any man have to suffer so much? Wasn't it enough that he lost his mother at a young age, never really had a father, no longer has his grandfather around, and worst of all, lost his great love Imarti at such a young age? The wise and wonderful woman who made him the man he is today is no longer around, but following her teachings led him to loving these two women who are his family now.

HS thought he would not be able to bear it if Ashok took Babita away, but how does he handle the fact that his Veer Balika wants to take Babita away, from him? The way she said "aapse door" ... broke his heart right there. He can fight against the whole world for his love but not against his own daughter. What a quagmire!

He had told Lala the night before releasing Ashok that he was strong enough to withstand anything and that his emotions would not prevent him from facing reality. What of this new reality? That he has to choose between the two people he loves the most in the world? That whatever decision he makes, he is the who will lose out? How will he cope?

I think he is going lose big time with his feelings but will not abandon his Veer Balka no matter what happens. She is his child now.

He will stay away from Babita and will be strict with her and now we will see his and there space.

Back to cooking for himself and Lally. No more helping them.

But I think that Nayeem Be will ask him what happened and maybe Babita will overhear them.

I hope. I really don't want to see HS going back to drink to his love.

I don't think Babita will hear them just yet but Beeji's words of encouragement will make her want to spend more time with HS, to do things for him, to literally take a closer look at him. The more she tries to do this, the more HS will struggle to maintain his distance and will end up being cold to her in an effort to keep his promise to Minnie. I don't think he could ever abandon Minnie but I don't think he will exercise any rights over her as a parent, or even as her Hanuman Uncle.

We are going to hear tenant-landlord references from him often, and then Babita will lose her cool and have tiffs with him. From her perspective, they are friends, and now even closer after seeing what he did for them when Minnie fell ill. She will not be able to understand the reason for his aloofness, and him doing it because of his fight with Minnie (or so she thinks) will seem illogical to her. She will keep telling Minnie to apologize or sort things out, who in turn will just be annoyed further and want to leave the house again.

The question is, how long would they have lived with him if no romantic feelings had developed on either side? They actually have no reason to live in HS' house as tenants now, other than the fact that they feel safe and comfortable, and have made it their home. He gave them a place to live when they had nowhere to go, but now that Babita's business is successful she can afford to rent another apartment. She's famous so she will not have trouble finding another place. The decision not to move is then because of feelings of some sort: friendship, family, etc.

I think it's time for him to go to training camp again. He needs a break from these two. (This time he will know how to cook daal or to rescue it if it's burnt). I too don't want him to resort to drinking. I actually don't think he will, with both ladies in the house, and I do not see him arriving home drunk every night. It's unfair that he has to behave like an outsider in his own house and has to tip-toe around the overly-sensitive mother and daughter but this man has already given his heart away to them. It's too late now.

HS is the kind of man who feels and cherishes every emotion. For him it's all or nothing. With Babita it has always been a bit formal so distancing himself won't be that hard, but accepting that he can never marry her or even propose is going to take time. Since he clearly loves Minnie far more though, he will suffer every single day being away from her and not being able to care for her or be part of her everyday life. Having said that, just seeing his Veer Balika safe and sound under his roof, even if they are not on talking terms, will be good enough for him to pay the price of shutting the door on Babita. 💔 I am sure Minnie will miss him more and more and will think of all he has done for her, and then have another break down. We've been promised lots of twists and turns so let's see.

Sigh... I have so much admiration for this man, who is a reel character but feels more real than people I've met before. Aniruddh really scored with this role, as did the PH.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't think Babita will hear them just yet but Beeji's words of encouragement will make her want to spend more time with HS, to do things for him, to literally take a closer look at him. The more she tries to do this, the more HS will struggle to maintain his distance and will end up being cold to her in an effort to keep his promise to Minnie. I don't think he could ever abandon Minnie but I don't think he will exercise any rights over her as a parent, or even as her Hanuman Uncle.

We are going to hear tenant-landlord references from him often, and then Babita will lose her cool and have tiffs with him. From her perspective, they are friends, and now even closer after seeing what he did for them when Minnie fell ill. She will not be able to understand the reason for his aloofness, and him doing it because of his fight with Minnie (or so she thinks) will seem illogical to. She will keep telling Minnie to apologize or sort things out, who in turn will just be annoyed further and want to leave the house again.

The question is, how long would they have lived with him if no romantic feelings had developed on either side? They actually have no reason to live in HS' house as tenants now, other than the fact that they feel safe and comfortable, and have made it their home. He gave them a place to live when they had nowhere to go, but now that Babita's business is successful she can afford to rent another apartment. She's famous so she will not have trouble finding another place. The decision not to move is then because of feelings of some sort: friendship, family, etc.

I think it's time for him to go to training camp again. He needs a break from these two. (This time he will know how to cook daal or to rescue it if it's burnt). I too don't want him to resort to drinking. I actually don't think he will, with both ladies in the house, and I do not see him arriving home drunk every night. It's unfair that he has to behave like an outsider in his own house and has to tip-toe around the overly-sensitive mother and daughter but this man has already given his heart away to them. It's too late now.

HS is the kind of man who feels and cherishes every emotion. For him it's all or nothing. With Babita it has always been a bit formal so distancing himself won't be that hard, but accepting that he can never marry her or even propose is going to take time. Because he clearly loves Minnie far more though, he will suffer every single day being away from her and not be able to care for her or be part of her everyday life. Having said that, just seeing his Veer Balika safe and sound under his roof, even if they are not on talking terms, will be good enough for him to pay the price of shutting the door on Babita. 💔I am sure Minnie will miss him more and more and will think of all he has done for her, and then have another break down. We've been promised lots of twists and turns so let's see.

Sigh... I have so much admiration for this man, who is a reel character but feels more real than people I've met before. Aniruddh really scored with this role, as did the PH.

I have a question... This promise is an assumption, a prediction or do we know for certain that Minnie will make him promise...???

Btw I simply love your posts... Keep them coming :)

He is indeed a beautiful character written and he need not be anti or dark like some shows had characters are in shows often shown to overcome their past.. Beauty of his character lies in his innocence and purity of his love.. whether it's for babita or for Minnie. These two have provided him a home in his own haveli ..yes he will choose Minnie over Babita and thus would distance from Babita , I guess his conversation with Minnie in hospital is gonna make us cry.. I would want him to have heart to heart with Babita too after she is troubled with his distancing .. I want him to tell her that how this time he doesn't want to fall in Minnie's eyes ..reason Babita had given for returning his money..

Nice thoughts you write well , would love to read your analysis dear.

Originally posted by: annx

I have a question... This promise is an assumption, a prediction or do we know for certain that Minnie will make him promise...???

Btw I simply love your posts... Keep them coming :)

It's more of a prediction based on the on location videos. I don't think Minnie's going to make him promise anything. I think he will do it himself.

Even if he doesn't formally call it a promise it's a commitment he will make and we know how he his a man of his word.

Thanks for reading my posts. The material I have to work with is so awesome that there are endless topics to write about. I hope to read some of yours too. 😃

Originally posted by: riti4u

He is indeed a beautiful character written and he need not be anti or dark like some shows had characters are in shows often shown to overcome their past.. Beauty of his character lies in his innocence and purity of his love.. whether it's for babita or for Minnie. These two have provided him a home in his own haveli ..yes he will choose Minnie over Babita and thus would distance from Babita , I guess his conversation with Minnie in hospital is gonna make us cry.. I would want him to have heart to heart with Babita too after she is troubled with his distancing .. I want him to tell her that how this time he doesn't want to fall in Minnie's eyes ..reason Babita had given for returning his money..

Nice thoughts you write well , would love to read your analysis dear.

@bold

I love this line - they turned his house into a home. He wants and needs them as much as they need him and I think this is what Babita will try to remind him of in the coming days as he tries to distance himself.

@green

This would be quite interesting if it were to happen. Babita will understand how he felt when she returned the money and talked about ehsaan, especially considering that he feels even more strongly for her than before.

What would you like me to analyze?

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold

I love this line - they turned his house into a home. He wants and needs them as much as they need him and I think this is what Babita will try to remind him of in the coming days as he tries to distance himself.

@green

This would be quite interesting if it were to happen. Babita will understand how he felt when she returned the money and talked about ehsaan, especially considering that he feels even more strongly for her than before.

What would you like me to analyze?

I meant episode analysis as separate thread :)

Love your post and analysis. Yes one should start a separate analysis post. You post your views and then we would chip in 👏🏼👍🏼

Would love to. Will start analysis threads from this evening.