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arshi8927

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Posted: 6 years ago

If anyone is fault then it you and your good for nothing Ashok in this whole situation. Hadd hai bhai. How shameless can a man be?

Is it not his fault that he cheated his wife all these years? is it not Meeta's fault she got into relationship with a married man.

Yes, people fall in and out of love. I really don't know if I can call it love if you fell out of love so easily.

Yes he admitted never loved Babitha only married for his family. But when he did fell for Meeta he should have left Babitha, divorced her.

But no, bhai sahib was busy living his life with his girlfriend leaving Babitha to wait for him serving his family all these years.

Today he has no shame in saying it is not their fault and it has had to happened one day. He has no shame that he cheated his wife while his wife loyally madly kept waiting for him.

Why that one day he did not make it happen early. After all these 17 years he wants to move in with his girlfriend to his house.

Sigh...I got really angry seeing their mushy talks.

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divyadaya13

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: playfulkissdoll

If anyone is fault then it you and your good for nothing Ashok in this whole situation. Hadd hai bhai. How shameless can a man be?

Is it not his fault that he cheated his wife all these years? is it not Meeta's fault she got into relationship with a married man.

Yes, people fall in and out of love. I really don't know if I can call it love if you fell out of love so easily.

Yes he admitted never loved Babitha only married for his family. But when he did fell for Meeta he should have left Babitha, divorced her.

But no, bhai sahib was busy living his life with his girlfriend leaving Babitha to wait for him serving his family all these years.

Today he has no shame in saying it is not their fault and it has had to happened one day. He has no shame that he cheated his wife while his wife loyally madly kept waiting for him.

Why that one day he did not make it happen early. After all these 17 years he wants to move in with his girlfriend to his house.

Sigh...I got really angry seeing their mushy talks.

besharam aadmi aur kya karega. He had no responsibility towards his parents as he knew how good a person his wife was. So he thought he is doing meharbani by sending money to his family.. good that this man wants to get out of babitas life. I want babita to serve him divorce notice. Hope babita has proper education so that she dosent have to depend on that mans alimony. And why should she take care of his parents, when she has come to know her in laws mentality. Ok, the old man of the house might be good but is him being good enough for babita as a woman. But as you know our indian society s useless when it comes to the rights of a woman and that too married.

Edited by divyadaya13 - 6 years ago

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Bea

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Posted: 6 years ago

At least Mita is thinking what if she was in Babes place.. although she does not get a pass either. It is too late for her😡. but this cruel man does not seems to understand the gravity of his actions... 😡 Probably he is thinking Babes will accept Mita as second wife and she will continue being "the house help" for his family🥱

I love the story to very interesting ... Am sure the tables will turn soon on that household; everyone of them will get their due... if they don't remember Babes and cry they will remember and wish her back including the Ashok too.

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Mahi

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Posted: 6 years ago

The whole irony in the situation is when she's scared of being left behind by Ashok, inspite of being with him for the last 15 years and he even loves her, what about Babita who is legally and rightfully entitled to his support and love?

She completely panicked when he didn't call her his wife and what of that lady whose world revolves only around him and his family?

Still, what makes her believable is the fact that even if she says so, she does somewhere feel at the bottom of her heart that she's wrong. Hence all the insecurity and uncertainty.

This makes the situation realistic.

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divyadaya13

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi
The whole irony in the situation is when she's scared of being left behind by Ashok, inspite of being with him for the last 15 years and he even loves her, what about Babita who is legally and rightfully entitled to his support and love?
She completely panicked when he didn't call her his wife and what of that lady whose world revolves only around him and his family?

Still, what makes her believable is the fact that even if she says so, she does somewhere feel at the bottom of her heart that she's wrong. Hence all the insecurity and uncertainty.

This makes the situation realistic.

many woman in india suffer this. Cant even imagine to be in their place. Parents should invest in thier daughters education rather than their grand weddings and make them so strong (not headstrong) that in dire situations they are not helpless. Women too before commiting to a married man knowingly should use some brains. Somehow i feel certain woman get a thrill to know that they can make a married man fall for them (i might be wrong). And here the wife is an angel so how can anyone be happy by destroying such a persons life. But here the wife is much much better as a person so she is better off without this coward in her life. Now she might feel hellpless but one day she will thank her stars to know that she has created a niche for herself inspte of everything. Waise bhi she is presently a doormat for her husband.

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Mahi

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: divyadaya13
many woman in india suffer this. Cant even imagine to be in their place. Parents should invest in thier daughters education rather than their grand weddings and make them so strong (not headstrong) that in dire situations they are not helpless. Women too before commiting to a married man knowingly should use some brains. Somehow i feel certain woman get a thrill to know that they can make a married man fall for them (i might be wrong). And here the wife is an angel so how can anyone be happy by destroying such a persons life. But here the wife is much much better as a person so she is better off without this coward in her life. Now she might feel hellpless but one day she will thank her stars to know that she has created a niche for herself inspte of everything. Waise bhi she is presently a doormat for her husband.

Yeah the good part is, she will start living for herself and on her own terms instead of being reduced to a servant to her in-laws.

True that, women should be made to be self sufficient, like Minnie is.

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Rashmi Singh

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

besharam aadmi aur kya karega. He had no responsibility towards his parents as he knew how good a person his wife was. So he thought he is doing meharbani by sending money to his family.. good that this man wants to get out of babitas life. I want babita to serve him divorce notice. Hope babita has proper education so that she dosent have to depend on that mans alimony. And why should she take care of his parents, when she has come to know her in laws mentality. Ok, the old man of the house might be good but is him being good enough for babita as a woman. But as you know our indian society s useless when it comes to the rights of a woman and that too married.

well said Divya di 👏

there are many law made for them but

the way it's work is of no use because People don't encourage to

work according to law and Emotions of People

and what a irony who really suffers don't get justice soon and those

who faked to be a victim get what they want 😲

while watching the yesterday episode make me feel

disgusted at the so called useless ladies of Khurana

house 😡

but more then that the recap make me afraid I just hope

that Babita family don't turn up like a typical family who

can welcome their daughter with open arm if they come

with husband after marrying😭

or else Both mother Duo will be left with nothing at the end 😭

about Meeta well not much of it shown of her side yet apart from

how clingy and Irritating she get as soon that Coward leave her side😡

I mean like seriously the population of men is no less that you got to fell

in love with a guy who is married and have daughter for god sake when

he can't stay loyal to the girl who bore his kid then how can the men like

him deserve to get place in your heart fine he don't love Babita then how

come mini come don't tell me he had sex with her as he was her husband

and it was his responsibility huh😡

the way he back at episode say just imagine I Was never their I feel like just

sue him at very moment for such a words 😡

so for me both are equally at Fault 😡

anyway it's not about being strong it's about having Support as well

Baibta have her daughter support but what about financial support till

now she was Shown as housewife even she is well educated I can bet

on this for sure but getting job suddenly it's not an easy task either

what if Babita family denied to help her as well afraid what Society will say

and all

sorry if my post become bit offensive 😊

Edited by Rashmisingh9151 - 6 years ago

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Devi Low

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: playfulkissdoll

If anyone is fault then it you and your good for nothing Ashok in this whole situation. Hadd hai bhai. How shameless can a man be?

Is it not his fault that he cheated his wife all these years? is it not Meeta's fault she got into relationship with a married man.

Yes, people fall in and out of love. I really don't know if I can call it love if you fell out of love so easily.

Yes he admitted never loved Babitha only married for his family. But when he did fell for Meeta he should have left Babitha, divorced her.

But no, bhai sahib was busy living his life with his girlfriend leaving Babitha to wait for him serving his family all these years.

Today he has no shame in saying it is not their fault and it has had to happened one day. He has no shame that he cheated his wife while his wife loyally madly kept waiting for him.

Why that one day he did not make it happen early. After all these 17 years he wants to move in with his girlfriend to his house.

Sigh...I got really angry seeing their mushy talks.

Very true, I felt like giving the meeta and Ashok a kick at their useless bums😡

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divyadaya13

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Rashmisingh9151
besharam aadmi aur kya karega. He had no responsibility towards his parents as he knew how good a person his wife was. So he thought he is doing meharbani by sending money to his family.. good that this man wants to get out of babitas life. I want babita to serve him divorce notice. Hope babita has proper education so that she dosent have to depend on that mans alimony. And why should she take care of his parents, when she has come to know her in laws mentality. Ok, the old man of the house might be good but is him being good enough for babita as a woman. But as you know our indian society s useless when it comes to the rights of a woman and that too married.