Parineetii Episode Discussion #1|*DT NOTE P. 23*| - Page 68

N dayan pari! Teri khopdi me ye baat kyu ni ghusti ki jabtak tu yahan hai, neeti wapas nahi aaegi? I think ye baat ghusti hai teri khopdi me isiliye tu abtak yaha hai. U r playing smart, go on get ur sanju, chhod dia abb neeti ne usse tere liye, sahi mayne me divorce deke, teri tarah nai uske ghar uski sewa karke. Chhodna kise kehte Hain neeti se sikh, ohh sorry tu kyu sikhegi tuje toh chhodna hi nai

Originally posted by: KalmaLove92

Agree... Rajiv and Niti (the characters) are the makers' faves, so noone is allowed to outshine them or be free, either, to move on from them. I wish Anchu would leave so I can, too.

Its hilarious how anchal fans wants her to leave because there is no growth in her character she is just a prop around R/N characters since we all know what a strong actress she is. Tanvi fans wants her to leave the show because they can't see her playing a negative character

My advise is off air this entire show its good for everyone as this show is utter crap

I realise Rajeev is closer to Pari's mom than Neeti's mom. He has bonded emotionally with Pari's mom even though PariRaj are not together he respect hier mom alot while with Neeti's mom he is very formal never seen him bond with her.

The two beautiful scene i love of Gurpreet & Rajeev was when during Rakesh fiasco he was giving emotional support to Gurpreet that he is always with Pari & the ganesh chatruti scene when Gurpreet ask him abt his emotional turmoil Rajeev was very honest with her that when he cheat Pari & marry Neeti he knows what he was doing, Gurpreet understand & respect his feelings & left

That scene in jail when Gurpreet slapped Rajeev for cheating Pari was beautiful too. As a mother he let her rant and he told his point and Gurpreet has the heart forgive him after hearing him rather than blaming him. Everytime when she comes home he automatically goes to her and touch her feet for blessing. I love their bond though they did not had much scenes but it just melts the heart seeing Rajeev respecting Pari's mom and still with respect calls her mummyji and they also have cute moments like Rajeev complaining to Gurpreet abt her daughter being stubborn not taking care of herself. Though PariRaj relationship ends but they still maintain the respect & affection for each other as mother-in-law & son-in-law. Even in coma state Rajeev was with her w/o fail and also follow Pari to visit her. That kind of bond i have never seen b/w Rajeev & Sukhwinder they meet so formally he is just there for the sake of it because she is Neeti's mom,his wife mom as they are together as spouses

I just love the bond b/w Gurpreet-Rajeev

Saari duniya ek taraf BeNeeti ki jodi ek tarafbahut pavitra jodi hai kabhi nahin tootegi,duniya ki anth bhi hojaye kabhi nahin tootegi janam janam ka rishta hai,atoot hai. One of the most loyal & faithful relationship in the whole show

Originally posted by: shirin04

Jis kis ko bhi lagta hai neeti is spineless should just watch today’s episode

Sanju practically begged her to not leave him and said they should do a fresh start but she said I can’t trust you , you yourself said pari is your wife i have realized that i was wrong I thought pari was trying to destroy our marriage i realize now it was both of you. Also sanju said he did not mean that pari is his wife, he does not have any such relationship with her and he just said in anger ( poor pariraj fans thinking this manchild can be loyal to pari)

So it is proved that the only reason neeti wanted sanju is because she was under the impression that sanju loved her and actually wanted to make their marriage work. I don’t think she is doing any drama or trying ways to win him back qki ajj jo sanju beg kr rha tha if she wanted she could easily have made him accept any thing at this point.

i feel like this whole pari and sanju marriage is sanju’s plan to make neeti jealous or something warna shadi ka card q bheje ga without informing pari or anyone else.
I feel sorry for pariraj fans who think sanju cares about their bechari fl. The only reason he is rn trying to be with pari is because neeti rejected him. I hope pari does too.

Very nice post. Here is the thing: I hate Pari because of her weakness. Others hate Neeti because she has a connection to Sanju because they ship PariRaj. There is such a difference.

All of the hate heaped upon Neeti is simply because Neeti is still involved in with Rajiv. Now, we know they will say oh but I don't support PariRaj. Then they make posts waxing poetic about PariRaj's weddingYou know, the one where Pari bought herself a man with her property. And they come here to talk about how Rajiv favors Pari.

On the other hand, Neeti's supporters get furious when Neeti goes back to the man who committed bigamy and does not take the chance to escape. Now, I have stated elsewhere, there is no storyline without Neeti. So the writers have to keep her in the mix, which means further humiliating her or making her more of a villain in hopes of improving PariRaj as a couple to root for; they are not. The man has committed bigamy and rape and the woman is his accessory. In addition, she has engaged in an open emotional affair with her best friend's husband. There is ZERO rooting value.

Let's look at the latest events, which is abusive:

Rajiv went to Neeti and asked her to go to his boss's party AS HIS WIFE. When she got there, he humiliated her by stating he has another wife and frankly, spoke in such a way that he may have physically hit her. Then if the spoilers are to be believed, he sent her an invitation to his wedding with his mistress/first wife. The only reason for such action is to be abusive. So let's add abuse to bigamy, fraud and rape. I believe the next step on this show will be physical abuse by Rajiv or his family towards Neeti.

Rajiv has all the signs of being an abuser:

1) He blames the victim for HIS actions. Notice, he says it is because of NEETI'S EGO that the marriage is falling apart, not that HE married her under fraudulent circumstances and have lied to her. He blames HER for his behavior

2) He isolates the victim. Rajiv has driven a wedge between friends. Neeti no longer has that support. He has never supporter her against his family. He has done everything to make her seem as the unreasonable, egotistical one. He even said she didn't keep their dirty deeds WITHIN the family. She exposed them publicly. He wants to abuse privately and keep up the facade of great person in front of others. He didn't own up to his mistakes. He blames the victim.

3) He moved his mistress into the house and has been carrying on in an open affair with her while gaslighting Neeti. One tactic of abusers to make them think they are going crazy.

4) HIs behavior is escalating. He invited Neeti to a party to humiliate her and apparently will be sending her an invitation to his wedding to the mistress. How is this anything other than abuse. If Rajiv wanted to marry Pari, why does Neeti have to know about it since they are getting a divorce. Simple. He wants to inflict maximum damage. Maximum hurt and maximum humiliation.

And this is what PariRaj fans love the most. They enjoy it when Rajiv abuses Neeti.

Originally posted by: Mages

Saari duniya ek taraf BeNeeti ki jodi ek tarafbahut pavitra jodi hai kabhi nahin tootegi,duniya ki anth bhi hojaye kabhi nahin tootegi janam janam ka rishta hai,atoot hai. One of the most loyal & faithful relationship in the whole show

Bruahahah.

Post- divorce Niti should get married to Bebe, the real love of her life.

Originally posted by: Mages

I realise Rajeev is closer to Pari's mom than Neeti's mom. He has bonded emotionally with Pari's mom even though PariRaj are not together he respect hier mom alot while with Neeti's mom he is very formal never seen him bond with her.

The two beautiful scene i love of Gurpreet & Rajeev was when during Rakesh fiasco he was giving emotional support to Gurpreet that he is always with Pari & the ganesh chatruti scene when Gurpreet ask him abt his emotional turmoil Rajeev was very honest with her that when he cheat Pari & marry Neeti he knows what he was doing, Gurpreet understand & respect his feelings & left

That scene in jail when Gurpreet slapped Rajeev for cheating Pari was beautiful too. As a mother he let her rant and he told his point and Gurpreet has the heart forgive him after hearing him rather than blaming him. Everytime when she comes home he automatically goes to her and touch her feet for blessing. I love their bond though they did not had much scenes but it just melts the heart seeing Rajeev respecting Pari's mom and still with respect calls her mummyji and they also have cute moments like Rajeev complaing to Gurpreet abt her daughter being stubborn not taking care of herself. Though PariRaj relationship ends but they still maintain the respect & affection for each other as mother-in-law & son-in-law. Even in coma state Rajeev was with her w/o fail and also follow Pari to visit her. That kind of bond i have never seen b/w Rajeev & Sukhwinder they meet so formally he is just there for the sake of it because she is Neeti's mom,his wife mom as they are together as spouses

I just love the bond b/w Gurpreet-Rajeev

ITA, I also have noticed the difference.

Also, glad the infamous letter thing was brought up by Sanju in front of the whole family and Sukhwinder... she never bothered to enquire abt why he backed out from marrying Niti a day before the fixed date, yet has been blaming Pari nonstop, whose marriage she witnessed I believe.

Now, I hope they either bring a leap of few months till the baby's arrival or write a MC and let Pari move on, with Gurpreet coming out of coma and insisting to take her daughter back to Barnala (or even staying back in CG, away from BH with Pari starting her own journey) and getting her remarried.

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

Very nice post. Here is the thing: I hate Pari because of her weakness. Others hate Neeti because she has a connection to Sanju because they ship PariRaj. There is such a difference.

All of the hate heaped upon Neeti is simply because Neeti is still involved in with Rajiv. Now, we know they will say oh but I don't support PariRaj. Then they make posts waxing poetic about PariRaj's weddingYou know, the one where Pari bought herself a man with her property. And they come here to talk about how Rajiv favors Pari.

On the other hand, Neeti's supporters get furious when Neeti goes back to the man who committed bigamy and does not take the chance to escape. Now, I have stated elsewhere, there is no storyline without Neeti. So the writers have to keep her in the mix, which means further humiliating her or making her more of a villain in hopes of improving PariRaj as a couple to root for; they are not. The man has committed bigamy and rape and the woman is his accessory. In addition, she has engaged in an open emotional affair with her best friend's husband. There is ZERO rooting value.

Let's look at the latest events, which is abusive:

Rajiv went to Neeti and asked her to go to his boss's party AS HIS WIFE. When she got there, he humiliated her by stating he has another wife and frankly, spoke in such a way that he may have physically hit her. Then if the spoilers are to be believed, he sent her an invitation to his wedding with his mistress/first wife. The only reason for such action is to be abusive. So let's add abuse to bigamy, fraud and rape. I believe the next step on this show will be physical abuse by Rajiv or his family towards Neeti.

Rajiv has all the signs of being an abuser:

1) He blames the victim for HIS actions. Notice, he says it is because of NEETI'S EGO that the marriage is falling apart, not that HE married her under fraudulent circumstances and have lied to her. He blames HER for his behavior

2) He isolates the victim. Rajiv has driven a wedge between friends. Neeti no longer has that support. He has never supporter her against his family. He has done everything to make her seem as the unreasonable, egotistical one. He even said she didn't keep their dirty deeds WITHIN the family. She exposed them publicly. He wants to abuse privately and keep up the facade of great person in front of others. He didn't own up to his mistakes. He blames the victim.

3) He moved his mistress into the house and has been carrying on in an open affair with her while gaslighting Neeti. One tactic of abusers to make them think they are going crazy.

4) HIs behavior is escalating. He invited Neeti to a party to humiliate her and apparently will be sending her an invitation to his wedding to the mistress. How is this anything other than abuse. If Rajiv wanted to marry Pari, why does Neeti have to know about it since they are getting a divorce. Simple. He wants to inflict maximum damage. Maximum hurt and maximum humiliation.

And this is what PariRaj fans love the most. They enjoy it when Rajiv abuses Neeti.

Let's look at the latest events, which is abusive:

Rajiv went to Neeti and asked her to go to his boss's party AS HIS WIFE. He then proceeded to dance with pari in front of neeti knowing fully well that she already suspects them of having an affair. When neeti leaves he comes behind her and then the entire family comes and all of them start gaslighting her as if sanju was not just dancing with his so called other wife. Then neeti starts humiliating. Also i love how none of the family actually want to have a civilized discussion at all and yes neeti is also a tad bit at fault here as well but everytime neeti wants to convey something rajeev says she is u reasonable and it is about neeti’s ego, pari says she is hurting herself and taiji says ab kis bare mein koyi bt nh krega mtlb she is shut off and everyone around her reacts like she is crazy wanting her husband to not flirt and be touchy with her beat friend. This is classic abuse and manipulation samne wale ko crazy boldo or past ko uthao taki tumhari present issue dhak jaye. I will say this once and for all even if neeti would not have done the murder attemps ajj bhi situation same hoti with pariraj emotionally cheating on her. What I don’t understand is how people are so blind in love with pariraj that they don’t see how manipulative they have actually been.

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

Then they make posts waxing poetic about PariRaj's weddingYou know, the one where Pari bought herself a man with her property. And they come here to talk about how Rajiv favors Pari.

tbh dimag m mast dialogue arahe h ye poetic sequence dekh kr pariraj k liye

"aeee bolne de bolne de...taklif hua h bechare ko".....vaise bhi

-->i don't want ki tanvi ye show chore...whole show is carried by her...chahe negative ho ya positive

-->negative se to positive hi zyada dikhaya h ki kaise is jaisi ladki himmt to rkhti h sanju ko court m lekr jane ki

-->ni to ....pari jaisi ldki apne pati ka daan krke"apne rajeev" k liye fast rkhti h

the major difference between characters lies over here only

-->kaise pari doormat bnkr threesome krne ko ready h

--->aur ek trf neeti apne pati ko baant ni skti...chahe uske liye usko alag hone pde

aur itne saare plot ke pros and cons m b logo ko neeti ka criminal hi sirf ek reason lgta h

i mean ye sb director k haath m h

lekin uske alaawa i do really think makers are milking this phase more than criminal phase

coz they know pari is wrong

aur uski jitni beizaati hogi trp ayegi...kyunki is time neeti ka har ek dialogue point p h

aur pariraj k fans ko khanjar jaise lg rha h

vaise b i know actors ko board p liya jata h end m positive ya negative dikhane k liye

jaise hi neeti ko sideline kia log to kat lenge is drame se...even on this forum people admit ki show neeti ki wajah se chl rha h

the only difference between pari and anti-pari are

ki pari fans pariraj ko blindly support krte h aur apni convenience k hisab se rajeev ko gaali dete hain

ni to pariraj ki aajtak bhi situations romanticise ho rhi h

aur bs ek hi raag hota hai i neeti criminal h

aur anti pari -->neeti jo criminal h usko criminal bolte h

pari jo doormat aur fraud hai usko doormat+fraud+bigamist bolte h

rajeev jo actually tharki hai usko tharki hi bolte hain

Originally posted by: mysteriousdoll

tbh dimag m mast dialogue arahe h ye poetic sequence dekh kr pariraj k liye

"aeee bolne de bolne de...taklif hua h bechare ko".....vaise bhi

-->i don't want ki tanvi ye show chore...whole show is carried by her...chahe negative ho ya positive

-->negative se to positive hi zyada dikhaya h ki kaise is jaisi ladki himmt to rkhti h sanju ko court m lekr jane ki

-->ni to ....pari jaisi ldki apne pati ka daan krke"apne rajeev" k liye fast rkhti h

the major difference between characters lies over here only

-->kaise pari doormat bnkr threesome krne ko ready h

--->aur ek trf neeti apne pati ko baant ni skti...chahe uske liye usko alag hone pde

aur itne saare plot ke pros and cons m b logo ko neeti ka criminal hi sirf ek reason lgta h

i mean ye sb director k haath m h

lekin uske alaawa i do really think makers are milking this phase more than criminal phase

coz they know pari is wrong

aur uski jitni beizaati hogi trp ayegi...kyunki is time neeti ka har ek dialogue point p h

aur pariraj k fans ko khanjar jaise lg rha h

vaise b i know actors ko board p liya jata h end m positive ya negative dikhane k liye

jaise hi neeti ko sideline kia log to kat lenge is drame se...even on this forum people admit ki show neeti ki wajah se chl rha h

the only difference between pari and anti-pari are

ki pari fans pariraj ko blindly support krte h aur apni convenience k hisab se rajeev ko gaali dete hain

ni to pariraj ki aajtak bhi situations romanticise ho rhi h

aur bs ek hi raag hota hai i neeti criminal h

aur anti pari -->neeti jo criminal h usko criminal bolte h

pari jo doormat aur fraud hai usko doormat+fraud+bigamist bolte h

rajeev jo actually tharki hai usko tharki hi bolte hain