Kunal lie - Siddhi lie

So 9 years ago Siddhi lied about being money minded and whatnot? Kunal believed her (given she was damn good at it) and welcomed so much criticism on himself. Meaning Siddhi lied ok, buy why did Kunal believed her without his own investigation and whatnot?

Now Kunal lied about being married, he is of course to be blamed for it. But I don't think many have blamed Siddhi for believing that or asked her to dig deeper, I wonder why?

Now one may say you can't compare, things are different. Let me annoy you a bit. 9 years ago Siddhi started behaving badly with family, made them believe she has changed. Last time she went to meet Kunal in jail, very rude to him and didn't allow Kunal to say a word. During this time, Kunal was in jail for quite some time, unaware of what is happening except whatever was told to him, while he wished Siddhi is safe. when his mother and sister came to meet him, they bad mouthed Siddhi and he defended her. On the day of hearing, Siddhi didn't talk to Kunal outside court, rather just ignored him, and called him a murderer in open court room. Even after all this nonsense, Kunal went to Siddhi as he still had faith in her. Here Siddhi decided to honor her deal and did wonderful job in lying.

Now look at Kunal's lie. Siddhi comes out, Sulekha says Kunal is married, she doesn't buy it; goes to Kunal only to see Richa all over him. Later meets Kunal he acts rude with her, some harsh words, etc. But finally after reading document she meets Kunal in park, Kunal lies and she believes him.

Reason Kunal should have dig deeper, given everything they been together and Siddhi's nature; hard to digest how come she changed? So he is at fault and I agree.

But look at Siddhi dear - she comes to know Kunal worked as a bar tender, sold his Gold-medal, said to dadaji judge they have 10 kids together, feels jealous seeing Abhay all over Siddhi, pulls her near and says I have been in pain for 9 years, sees document stating Kunal is single (well he made mistake, sure after being married for 9 years and a kid; he makes such a mistake), Richa was never with Kunal and his son, roams drunk in park at night. Sure they all are sign of happily married man.

So from where I see it, both are more or less on same level; our beloved dumb & dumber.

So we blame Kunal for buying Siddhi's lie, why not same goes for her?😕

Don't get me wrong, I too care more about what Kunal does and says than anyone else. I can look over mistakes made by other and forget them, but remember almost everything Kunal has done. So I do expect more from Kunal and I believe so does most others; but still can't help myself notice a thing or two.

Well I said what I said, now go ahead, throw your tomatoes; going to sleep.😆

well i have been saying this since a loong time ...nd we all know dat both sinal are at fault , nd are to be blamed for their current messy situation ...both have been very irrational ...both have easily believed the lies told by told by each other without thinking logically for once ...so i cannot take sides nd say whose more at fault or whose more dumber ...if siddhi is at fault by signing dat lame deal , den kunal is no less .either..nd its better not to go into details oabt da examples of foolishness they both are setting ...nd ofcourse cvs are to be blamed da most for this mess..nd based on da episodes we keep our support base also keeps shifting ...some times we think its kunal whose more at fault ..and some times we feel its siddhi whose to be blamed more ..but the bottom line is both have equally contributed to their miseries nd are equally at fault ...

so for me its not kunal's lie or siddhi 's lie ,its sinal 's lies which have complicated everything ...

nd not only you even i care da most about kunal's actions ...after all he is da lead of da show now doubt abt dat ,( even though cvs think otherwise) ...nd dats y it annoys us even more wen his character is butchered nd shown in a bad light ...but yes i love sinal equally as well...so both their actions do have affect on me ...i cant deny it ...

"its human to err" isnt considered true for our hero😉

and i completely agree about them being equally at fault /siddhi lied 9 years ago n now kunal.and i belive both had equal chances of finding out the truth..kuanl could have smelled foul play in the sudden change on attitude of siddhi n richa simultaneously and almost miraculously and as far as kunal's lie is concerned i am sure its not rocket science to confirm the maritial status of any person

specially if he's your employee and yo happen to be a lawyer!

also the fact that viewers know the truth about the deal which was a mahan sacrifice just for the sake of kunal leads to the perception that its siddhi just cnt be wrong...and she is the only one who has suffered and given up everything...whereas the two dumbo's have been equally miserable all through the 9 years.

Kunal believes Sid changed for money because she herself told him that and he had no option but to believe her. How can I blame him for it?! I was mad at Kunal for letting Sid rot in jail for 9yrs without committing the crime, not because he believed Sid changed. I could not believe being a lawyer he let an innocent person rot in jail without even trying to get her out. I was mad at him for believing R and the nurse who said Sid tried to kill their baby which he should not have without actually talking to Sid about it.

Same goes for Sid now. She believes he is married because he herself told her that and she had to believe it.. how can I blame her for that?! I like that she stopped crying in every single episode now and giving it back to Kunal because his lie is baseless and out of insecurity for Anand, which I don't buy! Yesterday, Sid only said what she said to Kunal because she wanted to tell him that it is easy to blame someone but harder to take the same blame,, which is true. Of course she knows K did not marry R for money but wanted to let him know that even his situation can be interpreted that way.

I am not a blind fan of either Kunal or Siddhi! I appreciate both and criticize both depending on how I feel about them. Also, I don't think Kunal is always criticized because he is the male lead.. that is just a lame excuse for all the butchering that went on. No matter Kunal or Siddhi, both are equally criticized on the forum and thats nothing wrong.. it only helps make the show better. I don't think I am biased towards anyone of the two and I always put up what I feel is right!

Both Siddhi and Kunal are at fault.Here the matter is not who is to be blamed for..Kunal and Siddhi have been well criticized as well as appreciated for their past and present acts.

The only thing they are good at are loving each other to distraction 😳 and everything else about them needs improvement 😉 to list the faults done by them is time consuming and not worth it now😉

But I shall list few things which they need counselling asap 😉

1)back to basics-they should be put to law school to learn the basics 🤢 to make them learn that a lawyers checks n re-checks the facts to see what,when,how and who were involved in the situation.😉

2)common sense is most un common but being well educated they should attempt to at least act like they have some rather than looking like fools 🤔

3) being a couple in love they should trust each other and if there is any question on that they should talk it out sensibly rather than making assumptions on life changing situations and not end up being a sacrificial lamb for the others happiness BS 🤢

4) keep up with modern technology,to take back up and to have contingency plan to avoid getting blackmailed by anyone 😛 😆

I was thinking, perhaps someone has got to you pretty bad pushing you over the edge or you are suffering from PMS.😆 Since the latter is not possible , I will settle for the first option. For this is not a normal post from you. This much I know about you, my dear friend.!

This is not about settling score and getting even with their individual lies. Its not about who's more right here or who's more wrong here .

Both are equally to be blamed for the situation they are in today. Its due to the lack of

1) communication

2) Trust

3) Intergrity

4) Understanding

They seemed to communicate and believe everyone else except each other. Their love is strong but sadly its not strong enought to withstand the test of time and they were and still are so easily influenced, manipulated by Richa who knows where their weakness is and take great delight in.homing on it to her advantage.

They have too many misunderstandings which they bring it upon themselves without clarifying and verifying it. They just love to jump to conclusions and bear the silly consequences when they could have been happy together.

If only the two of them take time to think , act intelliegently , follow through rather then falling prey to Richa, they would stand to benefit a lot from each other practically, emotionally and financially with great success and nothing and no one can come between them.

They seriously have to talk, not to others but to each other. Its high time they did that.

Not sure about Tomatoes though...