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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: DeepShadow

@Shehnaz: lol..DewDrop? I guess you meant DeepShadow? ...Just call me Riya :)

I don't think Siddhi really thought through what she was doing back then. She was desperate to save Kunal by hook or by crook and if that meant falling at Richa's feet and making the biggest mistake of her life, she would do it and she did. No wonder Siddhi still lived in the daze that the Chopras would be waiting for her, she really did not think of the long term repercussions of her decision.

👏 Im laughing at myself 4 writing moderator's name. 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shehnaz.K

Yes roshni even that sentence did strike me when i watchd the epi.Nd anand d has always been rude to her,so even i was wndering nd even postd in a thread that she wil b in cloud 9 when anand c wil love,care,understand nd obey her as he is her replica.



@ bold yes I really want kids to swap place ASAP ! the thought of her son loves her, she will be in cloud9 , and will pamper him too !

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Posted: 12 years ago
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aaawww..Rosh, my heart went out to the poor girl when she said that 😭 she's done lot of stupid things but what she said was correct. Except kunal in his own wrapped notions, no one else thinks or cares about her. all the good things she did for everyone is striked out in one go for the lame sacrifice she did 9 yrs ago. None of the chopra or her own brother remembers what a sweet simple girl she was 😡

Even am looking forward for the swap, am sure AC1 with his OTT will bring back siddhi's smile 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: DeepShadow

I honestly felt terrible for Siddhi too when she said that and I cannot help but sympathize with her, specially in the light of the recent events. We definitely have to ignore the fact that it was her stupidity 9 years ago that has led to all of this, but then again, one can justify it by saying that what she did back then was completely out of her blind love for Kunal, the only thing she could see back then was Kunal and the fact that he could be in jail, that she could lose him for something he had nothing to do with, so she put her head on the chopping block. Can be deemed as stupidity or just plain love that made her sacrifice her family, her children and most importantly Kunal. No wonder Ekta's characters are so larger than life, which woman in the real world would do such a thing?...but it still breaks your heart to think that Siddhi spent NINE very long, very painful and very lonely years without her own family. She lost out on being the daughter that she was for Veena and Raj, she lost out on being the sister that she was to Kapil, Shilpa and Seema, she lost out on being Kunal's love/wife/his life, she lost out on being a mother to her children, she missed every single moment of happiness that a mother has when she has a child. Even after the babies were born, all she wanted to do was send them to Kunal, I've seen a family friend lose their baby due to prematurity and it took the mother months to get over the fact that she had lost her little one, I cannot even imagine a mother's plight for having to separate her healthy, living, little bub from herself and that too for 9 long years. And also 9 years with no one to even care enough to go and visit her in jail. Forget the Chopras, I was hoping Raveena and Vikram would at least try and maintain some contact with Siddhi knowing the truth but seriously, these people are just selfish. And even now 9 years later Siddhi has nothing and no one. Neither Kunal, nor the kids, nor the family, NO ONE is on her side, apart from Sulekha and Abhay maybe, but they are still strangers, they are NOT her family. Siddhi genuinely smiled when she thought she could be with Kunal again, but once again that tower of hope came crumbling down with Kunal's lie of being married and Siddhi now has to bear the brunt of her mistake 9 years ago by watching Kunal play this silly game of "i am married to Richa and I will flaunt it in your face". Nine years later and Siddhi does not have a single reason to smile or laugh or be happy about, apart from maybe Anand Jr. who she loves being with despite his attitude. I can only hope that the creatives show some positivity and love in her life. If not from Kunal, then definitely from the kids. She may have been wrong back then, but I guess 9 years of loneliness is enough to compensate for that. Kunal at least had his kid, his family with him to keep him afloat, pray tell me, what did Siddhi have? And now with Kunal acting like such a jerk, you just want to smack him across the face. I really hope after Kunal finds out what Siddhi has been through, it regrets the hell out of him and everything he is doing right now haunts him like a nightmare.


@blue yes that sacrifice was not a wise decision ! but she fought till the end , she gave up once she had no choice as she didn't have the power that Richa had !i don't appreciate sidhi's sacrifices for Chopras , these things never happen in lfe , but all she did for Kunal , that was her blind love for Kunal, Sidhi always had blind trust on Kunal (bremeber that rape case ) and her love for Kunal is unconditional ! She couldn't see Kunal in jail eventhought that murder case was a pre planed one by kunal's Ex.

@ green more than anything , she couldn't see her kids growing up !U know being separated from your newborn baby is a horrible thing. It affects a lot ,the person should go through so much of pain , mentally , physically ! in addition to this the loneliness !

@ red well Kunal will find out the truth and will repent, hopefully promise himself to love and support her forever ! . But honestly that regret won't erase all the pain sidhi has gone through naa?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Couldn't agree more. Even by soap opera standards of hindi television, she has had a really wretched life. I sometimes feel if I was Sidhi in the current position, I'd just want to go away somewhere far and start a new life. Afresh. Like go to another country with her son, if her son does want to come with her, and live there, away from the people who dont want her or care for her. Frankly they can all go to hell, she doesn't need to prove anything to them, including her love. She's got nothing but pain in the current scenario from everything and everyone she's ever wanted. I want her to think of herself - Sidhi Malik - the individual who existed before meeting Anand, her own dreams, her own life, just live life on her conditions without being hurt and humiliated by everyone.
In her place, I'd be so freakingly depressed, this would be the only way to survive. Go physically far away where you dont stumble onto your past and things that remind you of it and live for yourself for a change (does not mean marry the next Abhay-type dude who wants to marry you)

I'd probably write a detailed letter/email to each individual explaining the whole truth from my point of view at some point and leave it upto them to believe it or not. No justification or explanation, just plain and COMPLETE truth as it was, including telling them what jackasses they are to have never understood and NEVER trusted her. Most of them would trash it and forget it, it's fine.

Who wants to relive ALL that pain again?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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hey good post👏
even i felt the same when she said tht.siddhi didnt cared for her babies, her family...all she cared abt was kunal. i still feel no one in the world love kunal and siddhi except them.kunal was the only one who loved her to the core and cared abt her.and vice versa. kunal still had anand.but siddhi spent 9 years in jail without anyone.
i wish kunal after knowing the truth should live seperatly with siddhi and his kids.this is possible..after knowing truth kunal should confront veena for everythng she said to siddhi...and should blame her for the mess created by her in their lives.coz of her siddhi couldn't even enjoy her pregnancy, motherhood.
i really feel wht kind of mother she is...i can understand her whn she said all those words to siddhi...but keeping tht part secret from kunal and not telling him is the worst thing.which made him believe siddhi's words..


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rainbowgirl

aaawww..Rosh, my heart went out to the poor girl when she said that 😭 she's done lot of stupid things but what she said was correct. Except kunal in his own wrapped notions, no one else thinks or cares about her. all the good things she did for everyone is striked out in one go for the lame sacrifice she did 9 yrs ago. None of the chopra or her own brother remembers what a sweet simple girl she was 😡


Even am looking forward for the swap, am sure AC1 with his OTT will bring back siddhi's smile 😉


@they remember her words before going to jail, but never remember what she did for their family , specially for veena maata and Raveena 😡

@ green , so u also find it OTT ?😉i thought it was a normal thing as he has been raised by chopras , u know sanskar, family values etc etc !😆i really hope he bring back sid's smile
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: teekay

Couldn't agree more. Even by soap opera standards of hindi television, she has had a really wretched life. I sometimes feel if I was Sidhi in the current position, I'd just want to go away somewhere far and start a new life. Afresh. Like go to another country with her son, if her son does want to come with her, and live there, away from the people who dont want her or care for her. Frankly they can all go to hell, she doesn't need to prove anything to them, including her love. She's got nothing but pain in the current scenario from everything and everyone she's ever wanted. I want her to think of herself - Sidhi Malik - the individual who existed before meeting Anand, her own dreams, her own life, just live life on her conditions without being hurt and humiliated by everyone.

In her place, I'd be so freakingly depressed, this would be the only way to survive. Go physically far away where you dont stumble onto your past and things that remind you of it and live for yourself for a change (does not mean marry the next Abhay-type dude who wants to marry you)

I'd probably write a detailed letter/email to each individual explaining the whole truth from my point of view at some point and leave it upto them to believe it or not. No justification or explanation, just plain and COMPLETE truth as it was, including telling them what jackasses they are to have never understood and NEVER trusted her. Most of them would trash it and forget it, it's fine.

Who wants to relive ALL that pain again?



Exactly one should think about moving on, she can't spend all the time doing kc jaap and crying. She has her son . Sidhi's life was beautiful before the chopras came in her life .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: eshi.nl

hey good post👏
even i felt the same when she said tht.siddhi didnt cared for her babies, her family...all she cared abt was kunal. i still feel no one in the world love kunal and siddhi except them.kunal was the only one who loved her to the core and cared abt her.and vice versa. kunal still had anand.but siddhi spent 9 years in jail without anyone.
i wish kunal after knowing the truth should live seperatly with siddhi and his kids.this is possible..after knowing truth kunal should confront veena for everythng she said to siddhi...and should blame her for the mess created by her in their lives.coz of her siddhi couldn't even enjoy her pregnancy, motherhood.
i really feel wht kind of mother she is...i can understand her whn she said all those words to siddhi...but keeping tht part secret from kunal and not telling him is the worst thing.which made him believe siddhi's words..




Sidhi couldn't enjoy motherhood, and she is alone , no one cares for her , poor girl her only fault is her unconditional love !
I agree kunal should confront veena , but I doubt this will happen ! About sinal living separately , I want them to live separately but again I don't think it will happen , Cvs wont let this happen .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I keep saying this... the choice she had 9 years ago.. She made the right call. No doubt she lost to Richa but the pain of Kunal in Jail and Torture in Chopra house would be worse. So she choose to sacrifice herself. Kunal had Anand with him but Siddhi was alone whole 9 years...

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