Originally posted by: DeepShadow
I honestly felt terrible for Siddhi too when she said that and I cannot help but sympathize with her, specially in the light of the recent events. We definitely have to ignore the fact that it was her stupidity 9 years ago that has led to all of this, but then again, one can justify it by saying that what she did back then was completely out of her blind love for Kunal, the only thing she could see back then was Kunal and the fact that he could be in jail, that she could lose him for something he had nothing to do with, so she put her head on the chopping block. Can be deemed as stupidity or just plain love that made her sacrifice her family, her children and most importantly Kunal. No wonder Ekta's characters are so larger than life, which woman in the real world would do such a thing?...but it still breaks your heart to think that Siddhi spent NINE very long, very painful and very lonely years without her own family. She lost out on being the daughter that she was for Veena and Raj, she lost out on being the sister that she was to Kapil, Shilpa and Seema, she lost out on being Kunal's love/wife/his life, she lost out on being a mother to her children, she missed every single moment of happiness that a mother has when she has a child. Even after the babies were born, all she wanted to do was send them to Kunal, I've seen a family friend lose their baby due to prematurity and it took the mother months to get over the fact that she had lost her little one, I cannot even imagine a mother's plight for having to separate her healthy, living, little bub from herself and that too for 9 long years. And also 9 years with no one to even care enough to go and visit her in jail. Forget the Chopras, I was hoping Raveena and Vikram would at least try and maintain some contact with Siddhi knowing the truth but seriously, these people are just selfish. And even now 9 years later Siddhi has nothing and no one. Neither Kunal, nor the kids, nor the family, NO ONE is on her side, apart from Sulekha and Abhay maybe, but they are still strangers, they are NOT her family. Siddhi genuinely smiled when she thought she could be with Kunal again, but once again that tower of hope came crumbling down with Kunal's lie of being married and Siddhi now has to bear the brunt of her mistake 9 years ago by watching Kunal play this silly game of "i am married to Richa and I will flaunt it in your face". Nine years later and Siddhi does not have a single reason to smile or laugh or be happy about, apart from maybe Anand Jr. who she loves being with despite his attitude. I can only hope that the creatives show some positivity and love in her life. If not from Kunal, then definitely from the kids. She may have been wrong back then, but I guess 9 years of loneliness is enough to compensate for that. Kunal at least had his kid, his family with him to keep him afloat, pray tell me, what did Siddhi have? And now with Kunal acting like such a jerk, you just want to smack him across the face. I really hope after Kunal finds out what Siddhi has been through, it regrets the hell out of him and everything he is doing right now haunts him like a nightmare.