Dont like people like Kunal!

Hi guys I am mainly a silent member of this forum. Been following parichay from the beggining. I knoo many of u will hate my post and prolly criticize me for even saying these words but please first hear me out. I am not saying anything against Sammer Soni, he plays his character wonderfully but according to me the character itself is badly flawed. I thought the story was all along about a shattered man who would rise from the ashes and create a identity/ a parichay for himself. But what has kunal done so far?

Isha3, like your post to an extent, yes people like kunal are being a burden on the family and acting like a kid. Yes he wasted his life, he has two hands but still not able to use them nor he is able to utilize his skills. His character is shown very different from Siddhi, Siddhi takes charge in tough situations but Kunal cant.
Probably he is someone who is overly sensitive/ writing diary etc. It is tough for him to come out of his sorrows. Yes it is self pity and probably in these days/times, its not a good example, he cannot be a role model, but I would still not say I can't sympathize. It is easy to judge a person, but probably difficult to live through their problems in life. I feel sometimes things happen that it makes the strongest of strong lose their motivation and will. I would say that Kunal does realize his responsibilities towards his family/son, but he doesn't have the motivation. I wouldn't think that the tanas the world throws at him don't hurt him, but right now he has no one in his life who understands him, no one he can talk to, so all he does is put that akdu mask on and lives in his own world trying to show as if he isnt bothered.

I feel its easy to pass a judgement on a person but something else to live through their pain. He has just lost the motivation.

I don't imply that I like such people or they are my heroes, but probably just trying to think from their POV. And after all its a serial, they want to show him in the dumps, only then they can show him rise like a star 😃, it is just that wasting 9 years seems a bit too much.

A good post and agree with lot you said.
When show started, many of us were attracted towards Kunal for the complexity of his nature. I don't know if you never liked Kunal or lately you are having hard time.

I personally am not able to see Kunal we knew from last few weeks. It appears so called essence of Kunal is being destroyed o e by one. With the leap, sure things seem too much as how can a Guy go about for 9 years like this, having responsibility of a son & family. But I am still not able to understand why, we still don't have an answer yet. Saying Kunal just can.one day & said that's it; I'm not doing anything better call Gaurav back just doesn't explain it all. I am waiting to see exactly what took place in 9 years & why is Kunal the way he is at moment?
Saying because Siddhi is not there just doesn't make sense, we need more information before we can say something.

Originally posted by: poshah

Isha3, like your post to an extent, yes people like kunal are being a burden on the family and acting like a kid. Yes he wasted his life, he has two hands but still not able to use them nor he is able to utilize his skills. His character is shown very different from Siddhi, Siddhi takes charge in tough situations but Kunal cant.
Probably he is someone who is overly sensitive/ writing diary etc. It is tough for him to come out of his sorrows. Yes it is self pity and probably in these days/times, its not a good example, he cannot be a role model, but I would still not say I can't sympathize. It is easy to judge a person, but probably difficult to live through their problems in life. I feel sometimes things happen that it makes the strongest of strong lose their motivation and will. I would say that Kunal does realize his responsibilities towards his family/son, but he doesn't have the motivation. I wouldn't think that the tanas the world throws at him don't hurt him, but right now he has no one in his life who understands him, no one he can talk to, so all he does is put that akdu mask on and lives in his own world trying to show as if he isnt bothered.

I feel its easy to pass a judgement on a person but something else to live through their pain. He has just lost the motivation.

I don't imply that I like such people or they are my heroes, but probably just trying to think from their POV. And after all its a serial, they want to show him in the dumps, only then they can show him rise like a star 😃, it is just that wasting 9 years seems a bit too much.

@pooja di...wanna hug u...
Superb reply...n i completely agree with u...