Kunal hiding things?

Well everyone is pissed off at Siddhi once again withholding information from Kunal. Usually it use to be her own decision, this time she is coming under what others have to say. Not a good idea.

Jay i agree that even Kuanl has hidden few facts from sidhi but the problem I feel is in case of Kunal eventually he is the one who tells her a later stages with exception being regarding Shilpa's wedding.. but in case of sidhi Kuanl always comes to know the truth from the third party be it she being locked in Gaurav's flat. his job at batliwala etc ..and it hurts more when you get to know things not from your wife but from some one else , it makes one feel in secure and not trust worthy..

and as far as yesterday's episode goes..the reason it was disappointing for me was

first sidhi hiding things from kunal is becoming monotonous and she handling things on her own without consulting him is becoming irritating considering the fact that this how is close to reality and in reality no wife takes decision on her own without informing her husband.
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secondly..after the monday's episode, some how it came across to me at least as if Kuanl is reduced only to give romantic touch and some SINAL moments ..to us..
which I didn't like... where as it should have been other way round

Originally posted by: d.padmini

Jay i agree that even Kuanl has hidden few facts from sidhi but the problem I feel is in case of Kunal eventually he is the one who tells her a later stages with exception being regarding Shilpa's wedding.. but in case of sidhi Kuanl always comes to know the truth from the third party be it she being locked in Gaurav's flat. his job at batliwala etc ..and it hurts more when you get to know things not from your wife but from some one else , it makes one feel in secure and not trust worthy..

and as far as yesterday's episode goes..the reason it was disappointing for me was

first sidhi hiding things from kunal is becoming monotonous and she handling things on her own without consulting him is becoming irritating considering the fact that this how is close to reality and in reality no wife takes decision on her own without informing her husband.
.
secondly..after the monday's episode, some how it came across to me at least as if Kuanl is reduced only to give romantic touch and some SINAL moments ..to us..
which I didn't like... where as it should have been other way round

Well said padmini...👏👏👏.

I really liked your points.

Originally posted by: jay_bpm

Well everyone is pissed off at Siddhi once again withholding information from Kunal. Usually it use to be her own decision, this time she is coming under what others have to say. Not a good idea.

But I started thinking what about Kunal? Has he hid anything from Siddhi? Well most recently about losing his job. but he tell Siddhi on his own without making big fuss. He hid fact about CD being broken. But Siddhi also knew it so no big deal. He hid whole Shilpa problem. But he was able to take care of it very-well.(only place where CVs did full justice to Kunal, as he was intelligent and took care of everything on his own) Later Siddhi came to know about it and actually thanked Kunal as he didn't want to trouble Siddhi. But Kunal did hide few things about Richa to Siddhi. What about that part? Was it understandable as it was early in their relationship or because we know Kunal is always right?

Whenever Siddhi hides something, she hides it from Kunal but other people may know about it and usually ir turns out as much bigger deal than anticipated, well we know it will become big. While when Kunal hides something, usually he's the only one aware of facts. But are fine with Kunal hiding things from Siddhi more than Siddhi hiding things from Kunal? Is that so why?

When Siddhi hides things she looks Mahaan, it ends up being an issue in SINAL, and we know Siddhi usually is not able to handle it well. So what exactly is it? one or all?

When Kunal hides things, it's for everyone's good in logical manner, it usually doesn't make issue for SINAL, and he is able to handle it well. Is it valid?

So if Kunal hides things we don't mind as it's his Parichay. But Siddhi hiding things makes her look mahaan, which doesn't fit with overall concept, right? Just out of curiosity what is it?

Hi Jay,

Its not exactly the matter who are hiding and why they are hiding. But fact is that, Serial has to be shown as per the promised. Parichay started as Male centric Show. Atleast once atleast they should show Kunal dealing everything without anybody's interference right.

And coming to Kunal hiding things to siddhi. From the day of their marriage, except very few things, rest of all he shared with siddhi. Going to richa's house, to drop her in drunken state, About vineet's track, everything he tried to share with her. She is the one everytime objecting him to listen those things. Even before leaving to richa's engagement tooo he informed her the purpose of going. Only thing he hide is... what did he say exactly to Richa... Whether he share it or not... nothing will spoil their relation or no earthquake comes in chopra's house. Anyway they are now together.

But the things siddhi is hiding are tooo serious issues... which should nt be hidden.


And one point i liked from your words:
"So if Kunal hides things we don't mind as it's his Parichay. But Siddhi hiding things makes her look mahaan, which doesn't fit with overall concept, right? Just out of curiosity what is it?"

Yes, I dont have problem Kunal hiding things. Because, though he hide also, he solve it without making any messup and uses his brain. AFter all this is a male centric show. So, your post itself feeling me convinced... that the plot is going as per the promises given by the CV's.

All the time, they are trying to show siddhi as mahaan.. But actually she is not able to achieve it. Ultimately Kunal is becoming the hero. Does any other example required to say, Parichay is Kunal ka Parichay only/????? This is my POV... If any feels my assumption is wrong.. Please share your views.

@padmini & ghayatri - I agree with both of you. even I said that even though Kunal has hid things form Siddhi, he eventually does tell her things, unlike Siddhi who ends up looking like she lied than anything else. Kunal sure is much better at communication.

Originally posted by: jay_bpm

@padmini & ghayatri - I agree with both of you. even I said that even though Kunal has hid things form Siddhi, he eventually does tell her things, unlike Siddhi who ends up looking like she lied than anything else. Kunal sure is much better at communication.

Also even though Siddhi tries to handle situation, she can never do it on her own. While if Kunal says he'll take care of something, he actually succeeds.

My point was are we against Siddhi being mahaan because now it's getting abundant or because such acts bring focus on her. But if Kunal is shown hiding something, does that make him look mahaan or seems he is taking his time to deliberate? either one but even if Kunal is hiding something, are we more likely to accept that as it may keep focus on him?

Again I'm not saying anyone of them should hide anything from each-other, and to me it just seems stupid considering the level SINAL relationship stand right now.

AFter reading your post... new thoughts are coming in my mind. Now onwards am not against to siddhi trying to be mahaan. then only the issue will become serious, there the kunal's brain will execute solution. This is what we like to see right???????

For example: instead siddhii, if kunal has gone there... Rohit wouldnt even dare to be near around kunal. By kunal's dhamkee... there are chances to take back the case.

My mind got changed... Siddhi please try to do as much you can do alone. We know Kunal is there to save you. Hope multiple examples may bring you the awareness of the mistake you are making, how much communication is important between wife and husband.😊

AFter reading your post... new thoughts are coming in my mind. Now onwards am not against to siddhi trying to be mahaan. then only the issue will become serious, there the kunal's brain will execute solution. This is what we like to see right???????

For example: instead siddhii, if kunal has gone there... Rohit wouldnt even dare to be near around kunal. By kunal's dhamkee... there are chances to take back the case.

My mind got changed... Siddhi please try to do as much you can do alone. We know Kunal is there to save you. Hope multiple examples may bring you the awareness of the mistake you are making, how much communication is important between wife and husband.😊

Originally posted by: jay_bpm

AFter reading your post... new thoughts are coming in my mind. Now onwards am not against to siddhi trying to be mahaan. then only the issue will become serious, there the kunal's brain will execute solution. This is what we like to see right???????

For example: instead siddhii, if kunal has gone there... Rohit wouldnt even dare to be near around kunal. By kunal's dhamkee... there are chances to take back the case.

My mind got changed... Siddhi please try to do as much you can do alone. We know Kunal is there to save you. Hope multiple examples may bring you the awareness of the mistake you are making, how much communication is important between wife and husband.😊



Well said Jay... And Absolutely true there is an effect of kunl's late entry. I signout... as I have got a conclusion to my thoughts regarding the issue.