I have often thought about the issue. We did see SINAL dealing with Anand issue well enough.
Now if Anand comes back, it would be too complicated.
Siddhi sure would be uncomfortable but she knows Kunal is her true love.
Anand eventually may be able to accept it.
Kunal would have really hard time as we already saw, but he would overcome it as Siddhi is his true love and he really is incomplete with out her.
I have problem with Anand coming back as it would create a whole lot of issues. When Siddhi decides to stay with Kunal, people will think it's because she married him and they are having kid together, not because Kunal is her soul mate or true love.
Anand would accept it, but again people may see it as sacrifice on his part due to his niceness. But would he be able to accept it as SINAL has true love or because he's nice person? that is major concern and I really don't like it when people are saying Siddhi lost her love before Kunal.
According to everyone, Siddhi-Anand were in love. I did address this issue in my post.
@norzar - you are right that Anand does have a place in Siddhi's heart. but it is not the love as actual love. Siddhi-Anand relation started with mutual attraction and even though they had good rapport, it wasn't deep enough to be called love. Even after SINAL marriage, Kunal was the one who remembered Anand more often than Siddhi. If Siddhi had married someone else, she could still have been able to move on alright. But Kunal being her true love - soul mate; amount of happiness she has with Kunal, that could have never been achieved with Anand or anyone else.
One may say Siddhi lived longer with Kunal. Well that's the point. You need to spend appropriate time for love. We say in psychology, "it's a process". If you see all of the interaction between Siddhi-Anand, they did not have deepness we see in SINAL. And I believe they would not have achieved anything more than what they already had. They got some comfort and trust, some understanding, playfulness in their relationship. They called it love and fine with it as nothing more was to explore but more kisses and hugs reaching one level and that's it.
With SINAL we saw gradual process in achieving all factors of relationship and eventually becoming one, inseparable, not just willing to die for each-other but willing to fight with others and each other so they can always stay together. We saw relationship starting from a tissue to right now at hugs and kisses. and Hey it's still not over yet, we will still see more. Just shows deepness of their relationship, which just wasn't there with anyone else.
Again I am not saying this because I love SINAL & KUNAL most, but I am saying what I see. Even when Anand was alive, I saw more honest interaction that showed true connection between SINAL, this is when they were fighting.
If Anand was alive and SINAL ended up coming together, it would be little like "Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam" one of my favorite movie. But now if Anand comes back, it raised questions for SINAL as it seems that only reason they came together is Anand's death.
Sorry for long psot and if I offended anyone, but ..
Edited by jay_bpm - 13 years ago