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Pooja

@poshah

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: annie_mckinnen
Thanks for your comment on my posts Pooja! Hope to read more from you. I was just thinking and realized that Siddhi is such a believer in actions rather than words, she would never be able to say all this too Kunal. That's why your letter idea was brilliant. That's the only way she can say what she wants to say. That's why she writes shayari too I guess! Thats why she keeps telling seema "I can't see Kunal like this" and has to do something to help him whether he likes it or not. In some sense Kunal is right when he says "Tum ko har cheez mein tang adana acha lagta hai kya?" Yes thats what she loves. She loves to fix things quietly😆

hey Annie..this article was for few ppl who are so hell bent on why siddhi is quite..so just wanted to portray/convey her side as to why she is quite.
And for her taang adana..it is her love..arent all the women the same..they want to help the ppl they love...

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Simi.

@Simi.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

aww Pooja, Amrish, Tanya, Annie, Shilpa thanks so much I think we really need someone who supports Sidhi bcz there r many Kunal supporters...I am so embarrassed to reread what I wrote now...😆...I know it is not very good but thanks everyone for the encouragement

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Pooja

@poshah

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Simi.
aww Pooja, Amrish, Tanya, Annie, Shilpa thanks so much I think we really need someone who supports Sidhi bcz there r many Kunal supporters...I am so embarrassed to reread what I wrote now...😆...I know it is not very good but thanks everyone for the encouragement

Simi I am there to support her when required..😉 everyone can just read this post !! As for being embarassed..its ok..in the beg you may feel that..but its a nice one ...

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pinkeye

@pinkeye

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

@ Poshah, firstly a big applause for this beautiful post. You are really blessed with a creative writing skill.👏 👏 👏 👏

Now regarding members of forum calling names and miffed with Siddhi, i just want to give some of my thoughts. I am one of them who is not very fond of her silence , but not because i dislike her, I actually like her character a lot. But in my thinking, her silence is only making her situation worse. It is only complicating the equations she has with Kunal which is not so simple from day one. Her lack of communication with her partner is not helping anybody. Kunal is a difficult man to handle and their relationship was never a easy one like bed of roses. But still she put lot of effort to make her relationship work. She respected her marriage with him despite of being in love with Anand. Then gradually she fell in love and wants to spend her life with Kunal happily. She might have tried to convey her feelings and was unable to, that understandable. She is may be intimidated by Kunal's strong personality and preferred to keep mum. Nowdays Kunal is not able to understand her unspoken expresions i guess thanks to cvs. His mind is already preoccupied with lot of things. So Siddhi needs to spell it for him to make him understand her situation. It will only go in favour of their relationship.

Right now it is such a situation when everything is almost on verge of ending and her silence only inflicting pain to her and Kunal. So for the sake of her own good, her unconditional love for Kunal she has to gather courage and pour her heart out to the partner. it may not be the outcome ( Kunal's confession) we all want but atleast may become helpful to clear some of Kunal's misconceptions about the relationship.

My only wish that Siddhi should atleast try once to have heart to heart conversation with the man she is in love with. I don't want to see her regretful later when time runs out of her hand.

So just wanna wish both the partner best of luck because marital relationship is nothing but 50 -50 partnership and both has to contribute equally to make it last. love Sinal.😊

Edited by pinkeye - 13 years ago

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norzar

@norzar

Trailblazer

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: poshah
This is Siddhi's answer to all questions around her silence
A lot of people have been after Siddhi, why is she quite etc etc (and named her names)..these are my views-

Siddhi, kal jo hua woh galat hua, saari galati meri hai.

Aapne kitni aasani se keh diya ki saari galati meri hai, jo hua woh galat hua
Magar aapke is ek wakya ne mere saare sapne tod diye, woh sapne jo maine bus abhi dekhe bhar the, jo abhi tak saakar bhi nahi hue the.
Abhi kal hi aapne kahan tha ki aap ko meri kami mehsoos hogi
aur aap ki zindagi mere bina adhoori hai
Aur aaj aap nazarein jhuka kar keh rahe hai ki mujhse alag ho jao
Agar mera dil todna hi tha to mujhse nazre milakar yahi baat kehte, main dekhna chahti thi us waqt aapki aankhon mein khushi thi ya dard
Kitni aasani se aapne keh diya ki alag ho jao

aapka yahi wakya mere man mein haazar baar ghoom raha tha

Magar kya kehne bhar se rishta toot jata hai
Sirf ek talak le lene se hamara rishta khatam?
Shayad aapke liye hoga, kyonki aapne to ise sirf ek samjhota samjha tha
Magar mere liye yeh ek samjhota nahi tha
Badi mushkil se mere dil ne fir se kisi ke liye dhadakna shuru kiya tha
aur aapne aaj fir isse tod diya
Aap to jaante hai na apne pyaar ko khone ka dard?
Anand ke jane ke baad to main jaise sirf naam ke liye jee rahe thi
Kabhi socha nahi tha ki yeh dil fir kisi ke liye dhadak payega
fir in aankhon mein kuch khwab honge
kisi pati patni ko muskurate dekhti to sochti, shayad yeh khushiyan ab mere naseeb mein nahi hai
kabhi khud ko kosti to kabhi bhagwan ko apni is badnaseebi ke liye
bhagwan par se to jaise vishwas hi uth gaya tha
beman se aapse shaadi ki
magar fir dheere dheere na jane kab in aankhon mein fir kuch naye sapne ubharne lage the
agar mera saath yu hi chod dena tha
to kyon mere aanson poche, inhe behne dete
kyon mujhe girne se bachaya
kyon meri takleefon mein mera saath diya
kyon mujhe fir se muskurane ki wajah di

Aapne yeh to dekha ki anand mera pyaar tha,
magar yeh nahi dekha ki har jagah meri aankhein sirf aapko hi talashti thi
aapki muskurahat meri aankhon mein jhalakti thi
aur aapka dard meri aankhon mein
main anand ko aapke andar nahi talash rahi thi
main apne us sapnon ke raajkumar ko aap mein talash rahi thi
aap mere har sapne se alag the, magar fir bhi aap mujhe ache lagne lage the

kaash aap meri aankhon ko pad pate, mere aanso dekh pate. Jab aap meri khaamoshi ya mera dard hi nahi samjh paye to in bematlab ke shabdon ka kya mol.
Jo insaan yeh nahi samjh sakta ki meri khushi uske saath mein hai
aur usse duri mere dard ki wajah
usse main shabdon mein apne man ki baat kaise kehti
jab aapne yeh maan hi liya hai main anand se pyar karti hoon, to fir aur kuch kehne ke liye baki hi kya hai
main chahti thi ki aap meri unkahi baaton ko samjhe

(i have put a brake on my thoughts for now..thanks for reading my blabbering, I know still people would say why she is quite etc..but I think for me they both have to find the way out)

And no updates on my OS courtsey this post..sorry !

beautifully put, enjoyed reading it

i have been thinking about this for a long time now, and figuring out why siddhi hasnt told kunal directly that she loves him and trusts him, why is her confession still pending when we know that could change alot inside kunal. The only reason i can think of that cvs have to clarify in future is that she knows kunal has read the poem of hers and kunal knows what she feels for him, yet he rejected her love on valentine's day. thats probably the way she is looking at it right now. she knows she confessed in her way and he indirectly said no by bringing up anand's name, hence when she went home and cried in bathroom she ended u saying he doesnt love me. as per siddhi's pov she has already confessed and he said NO.

when raj asked kunal reg div, he just says siddhi isnt happy, wished he had said siddhi loves anand still, that could atleast made raj aware of the main issue.

yes we know she needs to say ilu to him and then only he will understand but siddhi isnt thinking that way. she thinks she has already confessed. hope i make sense.

the problem with sinal is that they dont look from each other pov's and yes they dont understand each other that well too. understanding each other is crucial in a marriage and sinal lack that right now

norzar

Edited by norzar - 13 years ago

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Pooja

@poshah

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: pinkeye
@ Poshah, firstly a big applause for this beautiful post. You are really blessed with a creative writing skill.👏 👏 👏 👏

Now regarding members of forum calling names and miffed with Siddhi, i just want to give some of my thoughts. I am one of them who is not very fond of her silence , but not because i dislike her, I actually like her character a lot. But in my thinking, her silence is only making her situation worse. It is only complicating the equations she has with Kunal which is not so simple from day one. Her lack of communication with her partner is not helping anybody. Kunal is a difficult man to handle and their relationship was never a easy one like bed of roses. But still she put lot of effort to make her relationship work. She respected her marriage with him despite of being in love with Anand. Then gradually she fell in love and wants to spend her life with Kunal happily. She might have tried to convey her feelings and was unable to, that understandable. She is may be intimidated by Kunal's strong personality and preferred to keep mum. Nowdays Kunal is not able to understand her unspoken expresions i guess thanks to cvs. His mind is already preoccupied with lot of things. So Siddhi needs to spell it for him to make him understand her situation. It will only go in favour of their relationship.

Right now it is such a situation when everything is almost on verge of ending and her silence only inflicting pain to her and Kunal. So for the sake of her own good, her unconditional love for Kunal she has to gather courage and pour her heart out to the partner. it may not be the outcome ( Kunal's confession) we all want but atleast may become helpful to clear some of Kunal's misconceptions about the relationship.

My only wish that Siddhi should atleast try once to have heart to heart conversation with the man she is in love with. I don't want to see her regretful later when time runs out of her hand.

So just wanna wish both the partner best of luck because marital relationship is nothing but 50 -50 partnership and both has to contribute equally to make it last. love Sinal.😊

hey Pinky, thanks for the comments, glad you liked it..honestly this is my one post which I am truly attached to, it shows what it means to move on and start all over again in life.

And I agree, both have to contribute..I dont really wanna get into debates (I believe they are fictional s no point in debating a lot and also i like them both equally so dont want to blame any of them)...your whole para you have explained how kunal is a complicated person so siddhi should try. How abt Kunal also trying some...Arre let Kunal atleast ask her once..do you want the divorce..or anything which lets her tell her mind...😉

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Pooja

@poshah

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: norzar
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i have been thinking about this for a long time now, and figuring out why siddhi hasnt told kunal directly that she loves him and trusts him, why is her confession still pending when we know that could change alot inside kunal. The only reason i can think of that cvs have to clarify in future is that she knows kunal has read the poem of hers and kunal knows what she feels for him, yet he rejected her love on valentine's day. thats probably the way she is looking at it right now. she knows she confessed in her way and he indirectly said no by bringing up anand's name, hence when she went home and cried in bathroom she ended u saying he doesnt love me. as per siddhi's pov she has already confessed and he said NO.

when raj asked kunal reg div, he just says siddhi isnt happy, wished he had said siddhi loves anand still, that could atleast made raj aware of the main issue.

yes we know she needs to say ilu to him and then only he will understand but siddhi isnt thinking that way. she thinks she has already confessed. hope i make sense.

the problem with sinal is that they dont look from each other pov's and yes they dont understand each other that well too. understanding each other is crucial in a marriage and sinal lack that right now

norzar

thanks Norzar, Just put yourself in her place.

day 1-- siddhi main tumhare aage jhukta hoon, yeh ghar tumhare bina nahi chalega

day 2-- siddhi kal jo hua galat tha..hume alag ho jana chahiye

so what do you believe, day 1 or day 2 ?

And agree on the point of teh card..she cant even think that Kunal would imagein that the card was for a dead man? so she thinks he didnt accept her love. A

As for understanding..i think they are trying too hard to understand each other with their brains instead of accepting what their hearts are saying. They have to stop using logic 😃

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pinkeye

@pinkeye

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: poshah

hey Pinky, thanks for the comments, glad you liked it..honestly this is my one post which I am truly attached to, it shows what it means to move on and start all over again in life.

And I agree, both have to contribute..I dont really wanna get into debates (I believe they are fictional s no point in debating a lot and also i like them both equally so dont want to blame any of them)...your whole para you have explained how kunal is a complicated person so siddhi should try. How abt Kunal also trying some...Arre let Kunal atleast ask her once..do you want the divorce..or anything which lets her tell her mind...😉

Yes no debate please, I am fond of both characters. I also agree that Kunal also must try and already said that both the partners need to contribute. In this particular relationship Kunal seems to be the dominating one and why because Siddhi indulged into that.

I really hope in coming days, both become sensible again and save their beautiful relationship. Kunal's character specifically his one way mind also irritates me a lot nowdays. God knows what happened to his thought process after consummation.

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norzar

@norzar

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+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: poshah

thanks Norzar, Just put yourself in her place.

day 1-- siddhi main tumhare aage jhukta hoon, yeh ghar tumhare bina nahi chalega

day 2-- siddhi kal jo hua galat tha..hume alag ho jana chahiye

so what do you believe, day 1 or day 2 ?

And agree on the point of teh card..she cant even think that Kunal would imagein that the card was for a dead man? so she thinks he didnt accept her love. A

As for understanding..i think they are trying too hard to understand each other with their brains instead of accepting what their hearts are saying. They have to stop using logic 😃

exactly siddhi must have felt so cheap and low when he would have spoken reg div the next day after they consummation. i would have been shattered if i was in her place.

plus sinal have never spoken reg the consummation except in the div scene, after that siddhi decided to use the reverse approach with kunal and we saw glimpses of success with that from the first day itself, however the case thing started, kunal got arrested and after that they has been no real follow up to anything else.

even on valentine day siddhi made pasta for him and got happy when he told her to go and get ready for dinner. she knew he read the card, even seema did, yet he brought up anand's name, not even thinking how she would feel. i know his intentions are not bad but it was lame that he thought she would write the poem for anand and leave it there in the room for him to read.

siddhi too has gone through alot, loosing her parents at a young age, loosing the man she loved to death and now her marriage too is on verge on ending. she completely surrended herself to kunal even though she diidnt know the truth reg the ilu in the hotel., that showed how much she trusts kunal, yet she got heartbroken the following day. anyone will loose they power of thinking and understanding. she hasnt even told seema reg the consummation, maybe bec she herself doesnt know what to say.

i hope kunal brings up anand's name again infront of siddhi, so she atleast know he thinks she stills love anand

i think right now siddhi is thinking that kunal doesnt love her, hence rejected her love on valentine's day, but she loves him hence will do anything for him

norzar

Edited by norzar - 13 years ago

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Pooja

@poshah

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#20

there you go my friend Norzar 👏👏👏

absolutely..that is Siddhi's mind state..she is confused and anyone would be..Kunal/Siddhi both are dilly dallying because their mind/heart is saying yes to love but they are convinced by their brain to not.

Siddhi- his actions prove he loves me (all except asking for divorce) but he still wants to divorce me

Kunal- I want her to be happy so its better she leaves me. (Why do I want her to be happy - because I love her, why is she not happy to hear about divorce-because you are wrong you mor**)

They both have their reasons..so they will have to cover the distance themselves !!! Lets not bash Kunal either..else I will have to write a post justying his actions 😉

Can you imagine how Siddhi would be feeling, when every time Kunal tells that I want you to be happy, and you cant be happy with me and that is why we should get divorced.. Only if he knew that her happiness is with you and not in divorce. It pains to hear someone say that you cant be happy with me where actually your happiness lies with that person.

Edited by poshah - 13 years ago

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