why does siddhi loves kunal so much

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Mages
we all know why kunal loves siddhi so much...he have given his reasons too...though it was with witcha thinking her as siddhi...

he loves her so much because

she takes care of him n his family

she always supports him in his bad n good times

he knows whenever he breaks down...siddhi is there for him

she is good at heart

she always thinks of others before herself

she has a sacrificing nature

her intellingent mind in tackling problems

she trust him...obey his orders...listens to him

but the qns is why siddhi is so much in love with kunal even more than she loved anand...that she surrender herself to him when he had no control of his feelings

he always hated her(before marriage)

he always humilliate her(before marriage)

he is always arrogant towards her

he always quarrel with her

he always argue with her

at times he doesn't listen to her

he always run behind his scary past(witcha)

at times when its abt witcha...he never cares for her

sometimes he is harsh on her

he shouts at her

he throws his frustrations on her

its very difficult to understand n study him

he always distance himself from her

kunal had done so much of rude things to her...especially his arrogant behaviour...but still siddhi loves him madly...deeply...what quality made siddhi love him so much ?...she too always hated him n his attitute...what made her so madly in love that she given her heart...body n soul to him...her first loved(anand) failed in terms of fate...she did moved on in life...maybe in life we meet such a person that we consider as love...but they are not known as soulmates...but then for kunal if she seperate from him...she can never move on...that extend she loves him...what made siddhi love this arrogant...angry...complex...man

note: guys i have only took out kunu's bad qualities...now the good qualities you have to figure it out...why she loves him so much...as i believe care...concern...trust is not only enough to make a women fall in love with such a complex n difficult man...there is more to it...which i can't figure out...maybe you guys can help me out...

before and after marriage...i have seen all SiNal...n more soft towards siddhi...i only see kunal was more arrogant and harsh on her...especially before marriage...what made this women fall in love with this complex man so deeply that she gave herself to him...not once even remembered the man she was once upon time in love with...such deep and divine love for kunal that she can't live without him...which was not the case in anand...she did moved on...if this man still adamant in giving divorce...i swear both of them can never move on...as this is true love and SiNal have went through all aspects in love which was never in their past so called love

lovely post Mages..i think lot of ppl have those questions, why you love xyz, what is the reason, but dont think anyone is able to list out all the reasons for that, we can still try nevertheless.

I think the question is more on why does anyone love someone they love. You have pointed out the reasons why Kunal loves Siddhi, those exact same qualities can be in someone else as well, but it is not necessary that he will love that person as well. I think there is always something mystical about why we love someone, you cant give all the reasons..its more like, bus acha lagta hai, kyon I dont know. If we could all list the qualities one likes then it would be very easy to fall out of love, if someone breaks your trust you are saddened, but you dont move on to another rela fast, you keep going back..whereas if you had fallen in love with someone because someone was trust worthy, one should auto stop loving once the trust is broken..but that doesnt happen.

So I think listing out reasons on why we love someone doesnt really work...the whole is always more than the sum of its parts..