why does siddhi loves kunal so much

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Posted: 13 years ago
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we all know why kunal loves siddhi so much...he have given his reasons too...though it was with witcha thinking her as siddhi...
he loves her so much because
she takes care of him n his family
she always supports him in his bad n good times
he knows whenever he breaks down...siddhi is there for him
she is good at heart
she always thinks of others before herself
she has a sacrificing nature
her intellingent mind in tackling problems
she trust him...obey his orders...listens to him
but the qns is why siddhi is so much in love with kunal even more than she loved anand...that she surrender herself to him when he had no control of his feelings
he always hated her(before marriage)
he always humilliate her(before marriage)
he is always arrogant towards her
he always quarrel with her
he always argue with her
at times he doesn't listen to her
he always run behind his scary past(witcha)
at times when its abt witcha...he never cares for her
sometimes he is harsh on her
he shouts at her
he throws his frustrations on her
its very difficult to understand n study him
he always distance himself from her
kunal had done so much of rude things to her...especially his arrogant behaviour...but still siddhi loves him madly...deeply...what quality made siddhi love him so much ?...she too always hated him n his attitute...what made her so madly in love that she given her heart...body n soul to him...her first loved(anand) failed in terms of fate...she did moved on in life...maybe in life we meet such a person that we consider as love...but they are not known as soulmates...but then for kunal if she seperate from him...she can never move on...that extend she loves him...what made siddhi love this arrogant...angry...complex...man
note: guys i have only took out kunu's bad qualities...now the good qualities you have to figure it out...why she loves him so much...as i believe care...concern...trust is not only enough to make a women fall in love with such a complex n difficult man...there is more to it...which i can't figure out...maybe you guys can help me out...
before and after marriage...i have seen all SiNal...n more soft towards siddhi...i only see kunal was more arrogant and harsh on her...especially before marriage...what made this women fall in love with this complex man so deeply that she gave herself to him...not once even remembered the man she was once upon time in love with...such deep and divine love for kunal that she can't live without him...which was not the case in anand...she did moved on...if this man still adamant in giving divorce...i swear both of them can never move on...as this is true love and SiNal have went through all aspects in love which was never in their past so called love

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i liked ur post soo much ...and i do feel its kunal's kind heart and his way of doing things differently is what siddhi fell for. Kunal has good intentions and does good to especially his family but his way of doing it might be harsh sometimes n different. kunal does care a lot about siddhi... he shows it in his style. yehi ada pe siddhi fida hogayi...totally drooling over her kunu darling...❤️😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think sidhi accepted kunu as her husband the day she married him( of course she wasn't love with him), she convinced her self telling she would live her entire life with this man, so just after the marriage she started to respect him, wanted him to have a job( even scarified her job for him and started to work for Thakral which was very difficult) .

In short sidhi is modern, educated , a advocate, but she is a Typical Bharatiya Naari in her mind.

1)when she saw wicha, kunus past with him she got irritated, got jalousie. that was the first step to fall in love with her husband.

2)sidhi knew kunu was a man of his words and he would never tolerate some one giving bashan to him, remember, shilpas to be mother in law, she kept on insulting kunu, but he never said any word just for shilpas sake. that was the first time sidhi started to get attached to him. remember sidhi smiling all the time and the song sequence.

3) kunus flirting

4) kunu indirectly made her fall in love with him with his words. he always said to sidhi that they would spent all their life together, inspire all their differences and fights. and also when he has to mention sidhis name, he always kept on telling Meri Biwi. so he always made clear that sidhi was his wife. he always behaved like a typical husband( of course not intermesh of romance)


all these thing made sidhi to fall in love him. and the fact that kunal was her husband was enough to surrender her body and soul to him, and i don't think sidhi knew kunu wasn't completely in sense, becoz he was the one who initiated all those things that night.
In short sidhi is a young wife who is hopelessly in love with her sarpira husband, despite all his faults. she loves him to death and can even leave him for his happiness.



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks for starting this excellent thread and also to members so far for their POV.

I agree with roshani on her take on why Siddhi loves Kunal so much.

Would like to add couple more points on why Siddhi may have fallen for Kunal.

5] Kunal's unselfish nature. Values his family, others more than himself. Siddhi is same type so was Anand.


She decided to marry Kunal to save Veena [ she claimed to have made connection to Chopra house first through Veena].
Though it was a compromise marraige and they both hated each other initially, Siddhi due to her unselfish nature thought about family and Kunal first before her. Roshani already raised some of those points.

If we remember [ i have not watched all episodes yet ] but in the first few episodes when she first fell for Anand, she indicated to her brother and Shilpa that she looks for these unselfish qualities in a guy who thinks about his family and others above himself. [ BG was Anand fighting with police when they were beating Kunal].

Kunal has those qualities where he thinks and loves his family more than himself. Though his principles and truthfulness comes in between and he sounds rude and harsh , that unselfish nature is there to be seen.

Though viewers have not been shown why Kunal did all those things for Siddhi [ including the FB and realization Siddhi had during Raveena's marraige vows] , part of it could be due to marraige vows he himself remembers taking and though he hated Siddhi , sacrificed that hatred to atleast be a capable husband.

In one episode, we were also shown where one old client of Kunal came to pay his fees of Rs 35000 [ same day Kunal was beaten when he was caught gambling to buy a coat for Anand's graduation]. Everyone in family disrespected Kunal for that but this client said nomatter what the world says about Kunal, he will always respect Kunal

6] Kunal's truthfulness and straightforwardness. In this era of Kali yug, very difficult to get humans who value or preach truth and respect it.
Or are principled to follow them.

7] Also as Seema pointed to Siddhi more than once, that Kunal never boasts for what good he has done for others.

One example is how Kunal remembered to order necklace for Siddhi he promised during Diwali after returning the one to gaurav's FIL. Seema reminds Siddhi during Siddhi's birthday party.


NOTE : What is Love? Has many definitions.
Also means : Love is a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection; and "the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another".Love may also be described as actions towards others (or oneself) based on compassion, or as actions towards others based on affection.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Who wouldn't adore Kunal!!! 😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi Friends,

Though I am new to write here, Have been following Forum for last couple of days. The current topic attracted me much made me to write a reply. All the replies were curious.
Here i would like to point one thing is that. Love can happen anytime, even in times when you least expect it. Siddhi, after all Kunal's Wife, does she require any other reason to love him? Siddhi is very hopeful about future. Even at the time of anand's death she did not get collapsed and was thinking to save Veena's (anand's mother) life. She is an optimistic. The moment she got married to kunal, she accepted him as husband and decided to live with him forever. Yes, one point is there that, they were not having any feelings at earlier days of marriage. It happens between every couple who gets arranged marriage. It takes some time to understand each other and develop feelings for each other. The same happened here. They have developed a nice understanding and support to each other.

Coming to KUnal, He means a lot to her. When everyone points her and shows her wrong, only the kunal stands beside her and supports her. This have been proved many times. Love is nothing but the trust, care, affection and admiration. Already these qualities avialable in both of them.
There is a wall between them, that is ANAND. Siddhi already broke down it. Now the ball in in kunal's court. It is his time to break wall and reach Siddhi.
Waiting to watch the scene. Kunal realizes his love and reach to siddhi.

If any wrong calculation in my analysis, please write back...

Thanks
Gayathri
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very interesting thread..Good question to pond over..I am also relatively new to the forum, joined couple of weeks back and i am completely addicted to the serial obv for SINAL esp for the Mr kunal chopra.

Actually i began watching the show from the last day of the court case still catching up with the old episodes when ever i get time so as per my observations i think these might be the reasons:

The point is if Sidhi loved anand deeply so did Kunal , Infact Kunal's love for Richa was more deeper , passionate and as per the episodes more romantic and longer (he has waited for her for 5 years) than Sidhi's love for Anand but still after marrying Sidhi he does not for once think about leaving her even when Richa comes with the proposal or betraying her or her trust even when Richa is trying to woo him in every possible way.

Though to begin with he does not trust her which is understandable considering their past encounters, blames her for reading his diary, steeling the evidences, giving news to press etc but later he starts trusting her completely. Biggest eg is when he says that "raveena ki shaadi ho jati main phir bhi tum par bharosa karata.."

Though most of the time he is the reason for sidhi being upset he is the one who come to wipe her tears,as Sidhi rightly says to Richa "Mere ankhoin mein ansoon aayein issase phele wo tissue lekar khade hotein hain". In-fact I guess the core reason behind the C-day was Sidhi crying , he tries to console her in every possible way but when eventually nothing works out, she keeping on crying he goes forward and kisses her and rest is all history.

He supports her, protects her, care for her family, thinks about her family as his and does care for her , after all when she was upset with him , he prepares Tea for her..

I guess these reasons are good enough to fall in love with such a handsome dude with die for looks.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wow what a post Mages to ponder upon...
Y siddhi loves kunal...coz he can never tolerate tears in her eyes... it was the same trick she used to postponed the divorce for 6 months...

A shoulder to cry...
A hand to support at all odd times
A heart that is full of love and care...
The authority of husband...
The lion becomes a cat only for his wife...
A person full of attitude only listens to her...
He need her at every walk of life...
He has kept all the wedding vows even without knowing...
He says sorry to her...
He can never see her in pain...
He is even ready to forget about his mother's condition as he feel siddhi will be happy after divorce...
He goes to parties for her sake...
He cares for her family the way she cares for his family...
He protected her...
He thrashes people who make her suffer (takral)...
He trusts her despite all evidences...
He can tolerate even if she hates him but he cannot see her in pain...
He understands her more than anyone in the world...
He can sacrifice anything for the sake of Siddhi... even his self respect also...
He also put down his ego in front of him...
Kunal chopra sirf siddhi ke aage jhukta...
He is a man of principles which every woman looks for in a man...

And the best thing is he takes her for granted which proves that he treats her as his own... This way ek apnapan jatata hei... which has made our little siddhi go fida on him...


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Posted: 13 years ago
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hi

great post, loved reading everyones take i have added some of my points below.

i agree with roshani, from day 1 of the marriage siddhi convinced herself that kunal is her pati, she did many things for him even though she diidnt love him but out of duyy and respect, however his small gestures here and there made her fall love with him,

he protecting her in the bus when the other guy came close, giving her the gift on kc, missing the bus for her, the necklace, attending her bday part even though she never expected him to do so and man more things he did for her. she realized that she had misunderstood kunal and deep down he was a nice guy

i still wouldnt compare sidhi's love with anand with her love for kunal, bec i feel sidhi loved anand alot too in her own way even though he was with her for a much shorter period. i dont think love can be compared with duration. for me siddhi anand love will always be greater and true compared to witcha-kunal. siddhi on anand's barsi hugged and cried with anand's pic, because she knew where ever he will be, he will want her happiness and he wil be happy for her that she has moved on . she was sharing her happiness with him, though she knew it was the same day she lost anand forever.

the fact that she sacrificed her life by marrying kunal ( a man whom she hated and a man whom hated her) was because of her love for anand. she got convinced to married kunal after she heard the mobile audio of anand which kunal made her hear when he came to propose to her. she made such a sacrifice bec she loved anand dearly.

but after falling in love with kunal, she moved on in life and is happy and content with her present which is kunal. the c night completed sinal's marriage and made them one, even though kunal is in denial we know how much he loves siddhi too , his drunken confession told the audience how much he craves for siddhi,

sinal are soulmates

norzar
Edited by norzar - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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excellent post mages ...sinal got married coz of circumstanses ..it was nothing but compromise to save veena ..but for me siddhi never saw her marriage as compromise ..since day one she accepted kunal as her husband ..did soo much for him and his family more as her duty than as a compulsion ...nd wat made siddhi actually fall in love with her hubby is his goodness , his selfess character , his devotion and love for his family and most importantly his care concern for her ..though kunal never shows it but every time wenever siddhi needed him he has always been there for her , as her support as her strenght ..thru his own small gestures he has shown his care for his dear wife and a man of such high principles and values who never said sorry sorry to any one and who never bowed down before any one actually did say sorry and bowed down to his wife siddhi ...he can never ever see her crying ..seeing her cry he just melts ...no doubt sinal are true soul mates ..the consummation night completed their relationship ..made them one in all aspects ...and by surrendering themselves to each other fully they have become bounded for life ... no divorce , no sepraration can deny this ..neither they themselves can .. just waiting for the moment of their confession to come fast..

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