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Posted: 13 years ago
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Okay, before everyone rises up in arms and thinks I'm going to support Raveena, please read through my post.

Also, another disclaimer I want to add is that I saw the show only from last week, and am hooked fullto. 😆

So here goes my two cents:

In a situation where a girl has just come out of a relationship (whether forced to come out or through circumstances), fact remains that she is emotionally battered, and needs time to recover and become normal again.

In this kind of atmosphere, if this girl is forced to marry, definitely it is tough. I really have sympathy for Raveena. After confessing her love for Rohit, still the whole family is mad with her and just forces her to marry Vikram. And to top it all, they are surprised / shocked when she tries to commit suicide.

How do you expect this girl, who is still in love with someone else to have sex with another person? Not that I'm excusing her suicide attempt, surely there are better ways to explain to her new husband. She could have said she needs time, etc., but that's another story.

Many Indian families push their daughters into marriage even when they are not ready, and then either the girls are unhappy, or just exist in the relationship.

My point is only that a girl should never be forced to do anything just 'cos she's a girl. That is so lame and today, we girls need to fight for our rights, instead of just as usual being brainwashed and thinking about family's izzat. 😡

Your comments?

Oh, and if I'm wrong and you want to update me on the show also, I'm ever ready to hear your pov. 😉

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Posted: 13 years ago
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what u said about forced marriage is true... but in raveenas case she is solely responsible for her fate...
in fact she was such a confused dumbo, she said she loves vikram just to escape from her brothers scolding initially... then she decided to give chance to vikram and marry him, then again she is confused when she comes to know rohit was not guilty..

This girl doesnt have brains to be brainwahsed...

If she would have told all the truth to vikram before itself (siddhi had told her) yeh naubat hi nahi aati...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I love this show so please don't kill me for what I am about to say...

but i think its wrong the way they were justifying raveena's marriage.
whether it was for her good or not - the bottom line is it was forced.
I understand why they did it and I know they did it with the best of intentions but i dont think they should be advocating forced marriage.
this is just my POV

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