Pandya Store | Episode Discussion #197 - Page 49

Originally posted by: Pritha_31

I've seen my mother suffering due to my dadi and bua, she is same like Raavi koi bhi suna dega unko and she'll be all smile the next moment, she gets hurt par kbhi dikhati nhi thi, accepted everything in the name of family initially my father was unaware of a lot of things because most of the things said to my mother was in his absence, but when I started telling him, he made sure to give it back to my dadi and bua and now they don't even dare to say anything, because they know if they do my mom has three people standing with her to fight for her. Over the years we've actually taught her to not forgive everyone and give it back to people when it's required and now she's doesn't take shit, she doesn't say things directly like my father or me but she gives sarcastic replies to shut them up.

It is very clear to me that unless your husband speaks for you, takes stand for you against his family, the family is never gonna be nice to you

@Bold: Damn bro

This is exactly the same story of my life.

My dadi died when my father was young but ya I have 3 bua and 2 have been sharp with tongue.

They didn't said mean things but it was like beech beech mein kuch na kuch bolna hain bcoz u know aapki iske samne chal jaegi. Non of these 2 can say a word against their bahu bcoz they know they will reply them back. My father is the youngest amongst his 8 sinblings and few of my cousins are even same as the age of my mother. So inn kuch cousins too thought they have free license to say anything to their Mami and this happened with my all the Badi mummy.

We live in Delhi so there is a lot guesting but sabse choti wali badi mummy is like main kisko nahi bulaungi ghar wese bhi she stays in Benars so waha log itna jaate nahi hain. So if she even knows someone is visiting woh koyi na koyi bahana banakar kisko ghar nahi bulati hain 😆

My mother is sweet (except when it comes to me and my brother 😆) so they knew isse kuch bhi bolo jawab nahi milega and same my mother didn't used to tell this to my father and no one used to do anything in front of him. My mother from last few yrs started telling us how whenever anyone used to come from Bua side no one helped and jese pata chalta tha papa came back home they used to be in kitchen.

As we kids started growing up we thought yeh kya ho raha hain and I used to tell everything to my dad and then he answered them back. & Finally it stopped.

Now whenever mumma is hurt by someone and she replies back we all just cheer for her, we are like aaj mumma deserves a party 😆

Unfortunately I never replied back bhale kitna bhi man ho bcoz I know at the end mumma ko sunaya jaega ki kesi parvarish ki hain iski so my father answers them back.

True

That is fact whether u are living together or seperately if your husband doesn't supports, the women can't get the respect.

Originally posted by: mpks1

I agree with this fully! Suman is scared of Rishita, Motiben and Janu, at the same time she has loads of money, hence this differential treatment.

I mentioned Mukteshwar because was comparing how quick each one got accepted as her DIL. Once they came back from the haveli, she saw how Rishita's family came with presents for everyone at the reception/oli track, during Diwali and the recent holi. Suman is clearly after money which Raavi will enevr bring because Mami won't give her anything. Dhara still gets goodies from Hardik Bhai but not as much as Rishita though.

My grandmother was this exact same way 40-50 years ago, But then to see people like her exist in this day and age is appalling😕

Isse I remember

Savaan pooja mein Shiva pushed Raavi in front of everyone and Anita saved her from falling.

Suman ulta Raavi ko suna rahi thi, tab tak iss budhiya ka hathiyaar ki isne mere bete ko chota mehsus karwaya wala scene bhi nahi hua tha, still she was talking about how Raavi didn't kept the respect.

She said she will talk with Shiva about his behaviour but kuch nahi hua, Raavi kept getting treated to the worst.

Raavi doesn't have backing and makers ko pata nahi kya satisfaction milti hain by insulting her.

Raavi ke liye agar Mama ko sirf 1 ya 2 episode mein bhi bular Suman and Shiva ko jhadwa dete toh yeh sab nahi hota but writers ne soch liya hain ki kuch likhne ka man na kare toh make Suman spit shit against Raavi and make all the other people mum. Uske baad blaim her for everything.

Originally posted by: Pixierocks

Zabaan teekhi hai par mann mai koi mail nahi hai? Lol

Wese toh kabhi hoga nahi but mere haseen sapne ki

Raavi sunaye her Kaandya ko aur phir bol de ki mera man maila thodi hain bura kyu maan rahe ho.

&

Jab Raavi ka man maila nahi tha toh Rishita ko sorry bolne kyu bola ?

Bhai hypocrite hote hain, yeh log toh dusre he episode mein itna contradicting ho jaate hain.

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

Can we hope something better from this new writer ?

NEW WRITER?? KAUN? I hope this is real 😭😭😭

What if the new writer is also a chamkeeli bhakt? More bhabhiii and aaaaa

Caught up with last few episodes ke shivi scenes on insta ..

What's with the bad editing man ? Kaunsa train pakadna hai unko ? Whatever beauty is in those is due to the acting prowess of Kanwar and Alice and our understanding and reading in between the lines of Shiva and raavi character arc currently . For a new viewer , there is no head or tail of what's being shown.

So SR done , dhara vs rishita is chaalu still and we have caustic tongued suman make a comeback today after the competition winning episode.

I understand Shiva and raavi and their reactions today . I don't blame Shiva for not going ballistic at suman today , nor do I think that raavi doesn't have self respect when she again joins the Pooja and participates in the household whole heartedly . These 2 are dheets in standing with the family and taking tons of nonsense for the family

Apna nahi sochenge ye log . Agar sochte , their marriage would not happen and if by destiny it were bound to happen - it would not have taken the course of action it had for the past year . Things would have been different , happy , peaceful.

It will take a lot and lot and lot of suman's vishesh tippaniya , truck loads of Partiality from dhara and Gautam for even a single line of sadness to cross their face and hit their hearts.. for them to understand the situation they are in , in true sense.

I just hope they don't backtrack on whatever minimal progress they have made in Shiva raavi relationship in their thirst for drama and kaands.

For me Some stories need happy endings and lived happily and together ever Afters ..Shiva raavi's is one such ..bahut hue misunderstanding.. it's time to grow together now .

No comments on dhara ka mahaanta .it's so damn fake that I don't even understand what to say. Agar rishita Behan jaisi hai toh raavi Kya hai ? I hope she has one more set of her maa ready to give to raavi when she gets pregnant 😃

Originally posted by: mkc12345

Since when?

New writer : Kiran Kulkarni

Since yesterday’s episode.
means this new store burning & pooja track onwards.

May be that’s why store construction & opening was rushed through.

let’s see if this turns out to be good or bad!!

Originally posted by: Palak2812

@Bold: Damn bro

This is exactly the same story of my life.

My dadi died when my father was young but ya I have 3 bua and 2 have been sharp with tongue.

They didn't said mean things but it was like beech beech mein kuch na kuch bolna hain bcoz u know aapki iske samne chal jaegi. Non of these 2 can say a word against their bahu bcoz they know they will reply them back. My father is the youngest amongst his 8 sinblings and few of my cousins are even same as the age of my mother. So inn kuch cousins too thought they have free license to say anything to their Mami and this happened with my all the Badi mummy.

We live in Delhi so there is a lot guesting but sabse choti wali badi mummy is like main kisko nahi bulaungi ghar wese bhi she stays in Benars so waha log itna jaate nahi hain. So if she even knows someone is visiting woh koyi na koyi bahana banakar kisko ghar nahi bulati hain 😆

My mother is sweet (except when it comes to me and my brother 😆) so they knew isse kuch bhi bolo jawab nahi milega and same my mother didn't used to tell this to my father and no one used to do anything in front of him. My mother from last few yrs started telling us how whenever anyone used to come from Bua side no one helped and jese pata chalta tha papa came back home they used to be in kitchen.

As we kids started growing up we thought yeh kya ho raha hain and I used to tell everything to my dad and then he answered them back. & Finally it stopped.

Now whenever mumma is hurt by someone and she replies back we all just cheer for her, we are like aaj mumma deserves a party 😆

Unfortunately I never replied back bhale kitna bhi man ho bcoz I know at the end mumma ko sunaya jaega ki kesi parvarish ki hain iski so my father answers them back.

True

That is fact whether u are living together or seperately if your husband doesn't supports, the women can't get the respect.

Palak 🤗 much love and respect to your mumma

All I will say is that experiences in life and their actions makes a person strong and act upon to fight for him/her self.

P.S this is not gyaan but my experience so pardon my language. 😭

Originally posted by: spdp

New writer : Kiran Kulkarni

Since yesterday’s episode.
means this new store burning & pooja track onwards.

let’s see if this turns out to be good or bad!!

I wonder why the writer change.

Thanks for this information 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Seja1

I wonder why the writer change.

Thanks for this information 👍🏼