Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #163 - Page 29

Originally posted by: deeps07

Have they reduced showing segments from the upcoming track..last thing I saw is, I think the gang talking abt kirkir🤪..I mean..ho kya raha hein..kuch tho dedo relevant.

Sbs/SBB ko smjh aagya hoga nobody is watching this online drama or vaise bhi pichle bar unhe teen mahan star ka iv lena pad gya tha usi dar se nhi ja rhe honge😆

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

I doubt if Raavi and Rishitas emotions would ever be acknowledged on the show. Which family sends the young DIL to a room that may have a snake When four men of the house are smiling and cracking jokes?

But When shiva was about to go near the snake, rishita held his hand. She was genuinely concerned about him.

These two women have always stood by the family, stood by their husbands despite being insulted, despite their capabilities and intentions questioned.

But sadly their fear, their hurt, their frustration is always comedy.

I have never seen anybody as enigmatic as these writers..

They write the scripts and dialogues in such a way that we genuinely sees the goodness in ravi and rishitha.

Then they themselves write the script showcasing other members scolding and advising these two to grow up and get better so that they can be like dhara..

Then they write scenes like..dhara physically abusing people..dhara accusing gombi of adultery.. dhara accusing gombi for murder. dhara manipulating shiva when ravi went to store alone...dhara kidnapping bacha. ..so many craps. Any normal person starts considering dhara is the one who needs to be questioned..

Then after all this they themselves write the scenes with literally every pandyas praising and idealising dhara...and the two idiots (rishitha and ravi) too does that most of the time with Raavi giving a tough competition to shiva most of the times..🤪..even a nobody like mahaan ji is all praises for dhara. The Bahu...my foot.🤪

What are these people..If I ever meet them in person, I think I will be scared of them..🤔

Originally posted by: mpks1

All said and done, this family will never accept anybody else other than Dhara no matter what. They simply can’t. Even if it had not been Raavi and Rishita, any other girl would have the same problem.

How much ever Gautam and Dhara try to be prove otherwise and try to act inclusive, you cannot fake emotions for a long time. One day your real self shows up which is totally different from what you have been letting out.

Dhara is known to this family from a very young age just like Raavi but Raavi comes with a baggage that she is Mami’s niece but Dhara and Hardik were taken care of by Darshan Pandya, so they can never be wrong or not be accepted.

Yes Prema di, they have set an idol which is Dhara and the whole family only she is handle everything, the whole family is ready to do anything which Dhara say.

If you have three bahus, it's very obvious that someone will be better than other but not in every situation, here Dhara knows how to manage store, how to run household, keeps a track of bank things, manages the brothers and Suman. It would have been much much better if they showed all three of them being good in different areas.

Idk how much difficult it would be for a girl to be a part of the family which doesn't even consider them bahu and only compares them and humiliate them

Bhagoooo Raaviiii Bhagoooo

The writers seem to detest woman in general. The way every woman character is portrayed on this show is abysmal. Suman Kaki, Dhara, Rishita, Raavi, Mami, Anita, Kirti, Motiben, and (what the heck!) Kalyani.

Not woman is shown in a positive hammer that we can relate to (except Raavi because we feel sorry for her). Across my life, I can't think of any one woman who would do or take the kind of shit these women are shown to do / take on the show.

My grandmother brought up her brother-in-law's children along with her own. But the minute all the children hit 18 (including her own), they were pretty much told they had take decisions for themselves. She supported them & guided them accordingly, but made sure they all got an education, knew how to handle finances, and ensured they were well settled in their lives.

I have a cousin who lost her father pretty early in her childhood. Like Raavi, she was determined to marry this guy, and she did when she was 18-and-half. We were all worried about her. But she had two kids, got her master's degree, sorted out her in-laws financial issues & is currently studying for UPSC exams.

My aunt got married to this guy against her parents' wishes (like Rishita), and the family also created problems for the couple post marriage. She completely cut them off. His family was also not majorly fond of my aunt but accepted her anyway. My aunt finished her education on her own, and is currently one of the top executives in a national firm. Despite the initial issues, my uncle doesn't let anyone give her shit, but balances out between his family and her.

These people are live examples in my life with somewhat similar situations who have come out on top through sheer grit & determination.

And look at the disastrous portrayal of women on the show.

Originally posted by: mpks1

All said and done, this family will never accept anybody else other than Dhara no matter what. They simply can’t. Even if it had not been Raavi and Rishita, any other girl would have the same problem.

How much ever Gautam and Dhara try to be prove otherwise and try to act inclusive, you cannot fake emotions for a long time. One day your real self shows up which is totally different from what you have been letting out.

Dhara is known to this family from a very young age just like Raavi but Raavi comes with a baggage that she is Mami’s niece but Dhara and Hardik were taken care of by Darshan Pandya, so they can never be wrong or not be accepted.

In yesterday's episode, when shiva started shouting at ravi and then rishitha..rishitha replied back with the right counter. And I was noticing dharas expression..the way she looked rishitha and then started shouting at rishitha and kept looking at ravi too..shouting at them especially..asking what is the point in accusing anyone.. wasn't it shiva who accused them?..why was dhara looking at rishitha and ravi while scolding..this women and her double standards. I just hate it.

Originally posted by: mpks1

All said and done, this family will never accept anybody else other than Dhara no matter what. They simply can’t. Even if it had not been Raavi and Rishita, any other girl would have the same problem.

How much ever Gautam and Dhara try to be prove otherwise and try to act inclusive, you cannot fake emotions for a long time. One day your real self shows up which is totally different from what you have been letting out.

Dhara is known to this family from a very young age just like Raavi but Raavi comes with a baggage that she is Mami’s niece but Dhara and Hardik were taken care of by Darshan Pandya, so they can never be wrong or not be accepted.

muje toh yehi nahi samaj aata ki sab dhara ki tarah dono DILs ko banne q bolte hai thik hai dhara mahaan hai usse zyada perfect bahu pure itv me koi nahi hai (not even akshara, naira,tulsi, parvarti) woh bhi maan lete hai

Lekin for god sake dhara ko 10saal ka experience hai ghr sambhale ka or rishita or raavi ko 10mahine ka experience nahi hai

Dhara bhi jab aayi thi usse sabkuch nahi aata tha arre koi bhi manual leke nahi aata sasural me plus rishita or raavi ko mauka toh do jab bhi bhi woh kuch aacha karte hai tarif toh hoti nahi hai lekin agr galti se kuch galat ho jaye toh taano ki barsaat strt ho jati hai plus galti karege tabhi toh sikhege hadh hai 😑😑

Originally posted by: deeps07

I have never seen anybody as enigmatic as these writers..

They write the scripts and dialogues in such a way that we genuinely sees the goodness in ravi and rishitha.

Then they themselves write the script showcasing other members scolding and advising these two to grow up and get better so that they can be like dhara..

Then they write scenes like..dhara physically abusing people..dhara accusing gombi of adultery.. dhara accusing gombi for murder. dhara manipulating shiva when ravi went to store alone...dhara kidnapping bacha. ..so many craps. Any normal person starts considering dhara is the one who needs to be questioned..

Then after all this they themselves write the scenes with literally every pandyas praising and idealising dhara...and the two idiots (rishitha and ravi) too does that most of the time with Raavi giving a tough competition to shiva most of the times..🤪..even a nobody like mahaan ji is all praises for dhara. The Bahu...my foot.🤪

What are these people..If I ever meet them in person, I think I will be scared of them..🤔

OMG, I saw that episode and it really pissed me the hell off.🤪 Like, they're showing Rishita and Raavi are not a part of the family. Raavi, sure she's divorced, that too in a very colorful way but Rishita too? The way that they portray that they can't do anything right without bhabhimaa is so annoying.🐷

For me the worst thing is Shiva behaving like a jerk to Rishita and Raavi. Shiva slapped Krish so badly that he fell because Krish disrespected Bhabhi, and now what are you doing? Why are your opinions so different for 2 persons? Have you ever looked at yourself how you behave with your Rishita bhabhi, of Dhara has done so much for family, then Rishita in a very short span has saved them and Shiva specifically multiple times. And the family seems okay with this behaviour, even if Rishita raises her voice against Dhara, Dev is all set to sunao her, but what happens when Shiva disrespects your own wife and as of this stupid Shiva, I don't have any expectation for this gross husband

Originally posted by: VNuts

The writers seem to detest woman in general. The way every woman character is portrayed on this show is abysmal. Suman Kaki, Dhara, Rishita, Raavi, Mami, Anita, Kirti, Motiben, and (what the heck!) Kalyani.

Not woman is shown in a positive hammer that we can relate to (except Raavi because we feel sorry for her). Across my life, I can't think of any one woman who would do or take the kind of shit these women are shown to do / take on the show.

My grandmother brought up her brother-in-law's children along with her own. But the minute all the children hit 18 (including her own), they were pretty much told they had take decisions for themselves. She supported them & guided them accordingly, but made sure they all got an education, knew how to handle finances, and ensured they were well settled in their lives.

I have a cousin who lost her father pretty early in her childhood. Like Raavi, she was determined to marry this guy, and she did when she was 18-and-half. We were all worried about her. But she had two kids, got her master's degree, sorted out her in-laws financial issues & is currently studying for UPSC exams.

My aunt got married to this guy against her parents' wishes (like Rishita), and the family also created problems for the couple post marriage. She completely cut them off. His family was also not majorly fond of my aunt but accepted her anyway. My aunt finished her education on her own, and is currently one of the top executives in a national firm. Despite the initial issues, my uncle doesn't let anyone give her shit, but balances out between his family and her.

These people are live examples in my life with somewhat similar situations who have come out on top through sheer grit & determination.

And look at the disastrous portrayal of women on the show.

Yes I've said this before too... Writers have some kind of inherent hatred for women.. It's visible many times