Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #122|Dhakka - The Saviour - Page 65

Originally posted by: Transference

Thanks Nami for saying this. I have been saying the same thing over and over again.

The ideal relationships don’t exist in the real world. It’s a lie we tell ourselves. Relationships, people are far more complicated than black and white.

Shiva did hit a rock-bottom spiral of self-pity and angst, and any form or validation in this vulnerable state makes him simply human. So, is Raavi. She doesn’t know what she wants or do!

Such complexity happens when you have different expectations from a relationship. It’s not Shiva CA Raavi for me. Both have hit a wrong chord now and can’t mend their relationship unless they want to.

I am eagerly waiting for their divorce to happen!!!
That shall bring a lot of Tadka to their stagnant, time-loop stuck relationship.

Also, adultery is a serious word that implies:

voluntary sexual activity (as sexual intercourse) between a married man and someone other than his wife or between a married woman and someone other than her husband also

So, technically they are married on papers which makes Shisha fall into the lap of emotional infidelity which is again a very tricky area for an already divorcing couple. People who go through divorce can tell better.




Emotional infidelity is an extremely grey area. Do I support infidelity-No

But, it does happen in real life and this narrative has a very delicate hint towards it. High levels of platonic emotional infidelity happens with a huge urban chunk of the population. Work spouses are becoming a reality.

In short, matters of the heart are sometimes complex than the laws of the land.

From strictly a narrative stand point, I like the storytelling not because I endorse the moral ambiguity but the moral ambiguity makes it an interesting piece of fiction.

I’d take the intricate journey of characters any day over monotonous husband-wife talks or countless eyelocks.

I like the conflict of Shivi a lot!
They both have a parallel imaginary relationship with each other which is far from reality.

Their conflict isn’t confined to typical love-hate. It’s beyond and better. If this conflict ceases to exist, there won’t be any tale left to tell.

Their relationship reminds me of Pip-Estella from Great Expectations, Hades-Persephone or even Noor-Firdaus from Fitoor.
There’s a certain sense of poetic expression in their relationship. Despite being married, they can’t be labelled.

Shiva doesn’t want that while Raavi wants To playhouse!!!
They wanted different things from each other. This conflict makes their story interesting including Disha.
Disha is just a plot point to drive home the point of contention between Shivi.
It’s unpopular but another viewpoint. Morally ambiguous tales in fiction are interesting to watch!

Agreed!! They need to sort it out. It's like they are puppet in their own lives. Being jealous isn't going to prevent the divorce even if Raavi doesn't want it.

Being touchy feely with another woman is pathetic and I'm very upset that the maker's have done this to Shiva.

Cheating is cheating, emotional ho, sirf physical nahi hota.

I don't understand Raavi. She says a million things to Dhara but doesn't talk to Shiva. How do they think their life will progress if they let other's into their relationship. They need to learn this and I agree, divorce might force them to see the truth of their relationship.

There is no room for ego, superiority in a relationship. This is the lesson both need to learn.

Originally posted by: hapakalanoodles

I will probably write a Drabble on that

It will most be of me making shiva scream at her 🤣

Have you guys read the OS Dil Chahta Hai by @Sillysatchel ??

Exact same thing!!!

LEGIT! EXCELLENT PIECE>

SUKOON 101

Originally posted by: manny136

raavi is willing to end this marriage she has given up but coz she is attached to this godforsaken family she stays there for dhara lol so just cos she is there they think she should be the one calling off the divorce and professing her love when all this started coz shivas little ego was bruised by ppl commenting on his own lifestyle choices.

I am surprised insta and twitter ShiVi fan are not in uproar about this BS! If this was me, me and Shiva would be divorced on the same day! Bye bish! Bye bhabhi...apna khana khud banao! 🤣

Abt learning to bike too..if ravi is following dishus step as suggested by rishitha, being chipkoo and all..I am not sure how I feel for it..I will be happy to have positive scenes with Shiva.. but disappointed to see ravi stooping further low.🤪..why cant they show the same kind of efforts from shiva🤔

Originally posted by: deeps07

True..I really dnt get the point why is she even trying to win the competition or be his mandvi..she is just humiliating herself and allowing suman to take a jab on her..an educated person like ravi is very unrelatable considering the kind of things she does for that family and tolerates from them..

I have never been able to connect to her. I didn't get her aspirations to be a Pandya Bahu. It was ridiculous and it's only gotten more silly.

Originally posted by: deeps07

Abt learning to bike too..if ravi is following dishus step as suggested by rishitha, being chipkoo and all..I am not sure how I feel for it..I will be happy to have positive scenes with Shiva.. but disappointed to see ravi stooping further low.🤪..why cant they show the same kind of efforts from shiva🤔

I thought their emotional connection was stronger...a bond made with emotions is harder to break than a physical one! Lekin dishoom kya aa gayi, yahan par toh harem khul gaya! 🤣

Originally posted by: Namita-M

Agreed!! They need to sort it out. It's like they are puppet in their own lives. Being jealous isn't going to prevent the divorce even if Raavi doesn't want it.

Being touchy feely with another woman is pathetic and I'm very upset that the maker's have done this to Shiva.

Cheating is cheating, emotional ho, sirf physical nahi hota.

I don't understand Raavi. She says a million things to Dhara but doesn't talk to Shiva. How do they think their life will progress if they let other's into their relationship. They need to learn this and I agree, divorce might force them to see the truth of their relationship.

There is no room for ego, superiority in a relationship. This is the lesson both need to learn.

I agree with the cheating part, doesn't matter if it is fiction or not.

I also don't subscribe to the notion that all relationships in real life are complicated. I try to keep it simple my life with my husband and he is the same way. There are some complicated relationships, I agree but that doesn't mean there is no way out and whatever they are showing now is the only way, It's simply BS.

I am all for divorce and infact moving on. If Shiva had done whatever he is doing with Disha now after the divorce I wouldn't have minded it, but not now when he is married to her on paper.

They have indeed brought down Shiva's character several notches down in this track.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Thank you, please do so and I will be there to read and comment on it😆

On public demand quickly wrote a Drabble on our Chipku Disha

Go have a look at it 😂😂

Originally posted by: Palak2812

I watch it

I love them.

It is rare ki on ITV ki parents have nice relationship.

But that girl knows how to fight her battles and I won't say she is getting abused.

That is true, but the blame game is always on her! Loving the jodi, they have excellent banter! 😆

But his parents are so darn adorable, I rewatched all their scenes too! 🤣

Originally posted by: Priyal_10

Yes please

Onscreen kuch nhi milne vala🤪

Likh diya

Jaake padho ab 😂😂