Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #92|Happy 200th Episode - Page 42

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Haan palak...

Thats what I am saying.

Suman has her moments

Maami do not...

Maami is only good for Raavi and that too sometimes she shows selfishness in.

But Suman have been good to Raavi up until now.

She has chastised Shiva too for his faults in the matter. But Raavi has also slapped her son bhare bazaar. N that has stuck in her mind. U will argue that Shiva questioned Raavis character too. I agree. He did. N suman should chastise him too. But whatever it is, he is her son n he is being chastised by the whole fam. Suman is standing by him in the absence of any support as a mother. Raavi has had the support all the Pandyas Except till the lehenga burning.

Suman will have her own moments of frustration and that will not make her on par with Maami

Because have done far worst

I honestly didn't liked the way she is making Raavi is only at fault but it's ok as she is supporting Shiva.

But today for the shit Dev did uske liye bhi blaiming Raavi.

How can it be justified now ?

Lehenga burning is such a nonsense thing to talk about. No one is gonna talk about how they threw away her clothes ? Most probably not otherwise how can they continue taunting and insulting Raavi.

Originally posted by: akki27

😳Creepy shiva that's all I remember now from today's episode.... How cute he was looking

And what a sudden improvement in song selection... "Thodi jagah de de muje" Perfect for shiva's situation... Whole song seq was soo dreamy...

I just ignored rest royally 😃

I swear I am watching 2 shows and they put the best song for that situation and seeing Shivi getting horrible songs just spoil my mood knowing that their chemistry needs best song as their bgm.

Originally posted by: Palak2812

I honestly didn't liked the way she is making Raavi is only at fault but it's ok as she is supporting Shiva.

But today for the shit Dev did uske liye bhi blaiming Raavi.

How can it be justified now ?

Lehenga burning is such a nonsense thing to talk about. No one is gonna talk about how they threw away her clothes ? Most probably not otherwise how can they continue taunting and insulting Raavi.

If u feel I am taunting and insulting Raavi I bow out from this discussion Palak...

I am not justifying Sumans words. They were wrong. I am describing her frustration and comparing it with Maami.

Raavi ko blame nahin kiya hai.

Originally posted by: ZaaraBB

Hes spineless. He cannot take a stand for what he wants. Does not have the confidence to open his mouth and respectfully tell the woman how he feels. He decides to be an idiot and then watches her from afar. Seriously, enough of being a boy and man up to what you want. Raavi deserves to know the truth. Shiva is beating arnd the bush!

Personally speaking, I wouldn't call Shiva spineless. He knows what he wants... it's Raavi's happiness. However, his thinking and reasoning is flawed in the sense that he believes a divorce will allow her to achieve the so called happiness.

Furthermore, though ITV does not delve into the topic, mental health is a very, very big issue in today's society. Shiva is someone who never thought about material possessions or the importance of a degree. Because to him, family was the most important thing in life. He is powered by his family's happiness. However, just when he was starting a relationship with Raavi... her diary revealed a major roadblock. She did not like him. For a person who looks to others' happiness to be happy himself... it was hard to digest.

His anger, frustration at the thought of her "adjusting" for him caused him to do things that are unforgiveable (until he properly apologizes); however, I would like to argue that now he is in the reflection stage. He knows he did her wrong. But at the same time, he doesn't want to see her "compromising" her happiness for him as that to him is not love at all.

Coming to his silence... I assume he doesn't want to confront Raavi because he feels scared of hearing what she has to say. That was evident enough in yesterday's conversation where she very point blankly told him that she wasn't there for him but for Dhara. To confess his feelings and open his heart after receiving such harsh words... I don't blame him for silently watching her from afar because in his mind, that's the only way he can love her...

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Neither

It is just happening that way😂

Hows lav? And ua other daughter??🖤🤍

Karte hain match🌸

Lav is good but super busy with exams 🥺 I don’t see her much and miss her.

Shibu is good and around 💙 but we haven’t talk much so I missed her too. 🥺😭

Haan karna toh hoga I gotta stalk you to know when you’re around 🤣

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Suman had always been shown her sons ardent fan. She does scold Shiva Gautam n Krish though. She even pointed out to shiva ki what he did was wrong when they came from pooja. She even chastised krish gaumbi and Shiva for their mess in haveli. Suman has been a character who have spoken right many time and just because she is speaking non sense now doesn’t mean she is evil. Her karma is clean even if her words r bitter. N also even at her worsh Suman has never wished death upon others unlike maami who hoped for Raavi to become vidhwa so there is no comparison between two.

At one point Suman has ardently supported RaavI. In Haveli u see her loving Raavi. During wedding after wedding also when Raavi shouts on Shiva for kidnapping MU, suman still say Raavi will be respected here.

But this is not just Suman, this is Suman a mother, who is watching Shiva suffer too. There is pent up frustration in the woman due to the things happening and also many stuff she have heard from Raavi and Prafulla. Raavi returning will not erase it just like that. Deeds n words leave a mark.

Raavi is very sweet because she returned. But from Sumans POV raavi have done a lot these past days. Her words her maamis words and that slap is not easily forgotten. Suman would be out of character if she didn’t do what she did.

Only Raavi n shiva are not prone to frustrated mistakes Suman is too.

We need to give leeway to each one at their time

I agree with everything u said .I used to love suman and her sassyness..until janmashtami..I didn't even hate her much after the mandir kaandh when she blamed ravi for slapping him..becz she was angry with shiva when at first she heard abt what he did..she treated ravi the same as she did with shiva there..a little harsh..but that's her character. I accept.

But after that..she totally tore ravi out of her life...if that was not enough the janmashtami kaandh happened.. .I dnt understand her after that..she started the fight plainly becz she didn't want prafulla to sit on a particular seat.. thats what bullies do.. I find there character butchered here..I would have justified her if prafulla had started the fight with her usuals and in reaction suman got irritated and didn't want prafulla on that seat. But prafulla never said anything. That made suman bad for me...not grey. .the rest of the fight between them, both were equal contributors.

@bold..i understand this..I did notice sumans unhappy look when shiva didn't have enough food last night. The mother in her is being protective about her son..I can see that..I am not expecting her to support ravi..or go against shiva.. that would be out of her character too..but she could atleast be less hurtful to ravi...the girl really came back just for the sake of her family eating her pride..doing maid work..getting nothing in return..she can give her the minimum respect for that if not anything.

as per suman..ravi had made thamaasha abt her family by first slapping shiva. And then the dhol festival..and the latest burning legenga..

But for all three of these cases, her own son shiva was equally responsible for the thamaasha .

Slap shiva started.

Dhol ravi started.

Lehenga burning shiva started. Infact suman started but it was shivas announcement that Brough ravi to retaliate..

And today she just crossed the line, blaming ravi for not having some telepathy in knowing dev was having an affair with another women and would probably ditch her at the altar while gombi dhara and dev hid the truth from her..

I cannot justify that kind of mothers love..she is selfish and negative ..mothers love doesn't justify that.

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

If u feel I am taunting and insulting Raavi I bow out from this discussion Palak...

I am not justify Sumans words. They were wrong. I am describing her frustration and comparing it with Maami.

Raavi ko blame nahin kiya hai.

I was talking about Suman not u

I was saying what Suman did with Raavi even in Dev's fault for me is too much to handle.

&

I called Mami Better bcoz she gets called out for her wrong she is the villan of the show but Suman even after saying the shittest things and doing abuse as we have seen what she has done with Dhara too is respected and called as a better person bcoz she is a Pandya.

I feel suman today justed ranted out her frustration on raavi.

Like woman you can't understand that the guy you loved didn't love you back, and the guy who held your hand when you were abandoned and steadied you, you can't understand him either.

I feel suman felt for both shiva and raavi when they fought otherwise she wouldn't have thrown shiva out of the house but the whole family beating him, sidelining him, prafulla taunting him made her feel for shiva more.she is his mother after all.

Of course her way of talking and tone was very wrong.and raising the stick 🤦🤦

I hope they don't actually show suman beating one of the DIl one day.baat baat pe yahaan log maarne par utar ate hai 🤕🤕

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

Personally speaking, I wouldn't call Shiva spineless. He knows what he wants... it's Raavi's happiness. However, his thinking and reasoning is flawed in the sense that he believes a divorce will allow her to achieve the so called happiness.

Furthermore, though ITV does not delve into the topic, mental health is a very, very big issue in today's society. Shiva is someone who never thought about material possessions or the importance of a degree. Because to him, family was the most important thing in life. He is powered by his family's happiness. However, just when he was starting a relationship with Raavi... her diary revealed a major roadblock. She did not like him. For a person who looks to others' happiness to be happy himself... it was hard to digest.

His anger, frustration at the thought of her "adjusting" for him caused him to do things that are unforgiveable (until he properly apologizes); however, I would like to argue that now he is in the reflection stage. He knows he did her wrong. But at the same time, he doesn't want to see her "compromising" her happiness for him as that to him is not love at all.

Coming to his silence... I assume he doesn't want to confront Raavi because he feels scared of hearing what she has to say. That was evident enough in yesterday's conversation where she very point blankly told him that she wasn't there for him but for Dhara. To confess his feelings and open his heart after receiving such harsh words... I don't blame him for silently watching her from afar because in his mind, that's the only way he can love her...

This!!!

Can I tell u how much I loved to read this??

I read an article on insecurity and I think everyone should do it before commenting on Shiva.

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

I feel suman today justed ranted out her frustration on raavi.

Like woman you can't understand that the guy you loved didn't love you back, and the guy who held your hand when you were abandoned and steadied you, you can't understand him either.

I feel suman felt for both shiva and raavi when they fought otherwise she wouldn't have thrown shiva out of the house but the whole family beating him, sidelining him, prafulla taunting him made her feel for shiva more.

Of course her way of talking and tone was very wrong.and raising the stick 🤦🤦

I hope they don't actually show suman beating one of the DIl one day.baat baat pe yahaan log maarne par utar ate hai 🤕🤕

What I have been trying to say

Thank u Riya🖤