Originally posted by: Transference
Practically grew up together from teen years. From when I was 17. Studied together, got married because had nothing else to do more finally after ages of angst, drama, and just too many fights 😆
Tried dating other people but bounced back madly towards each other every single day.
Always been a very tod phod couple 😆
Hmm... okay, I may get this one entirely wrong 😅 but this what I envision for you!
You grew up becoming very interested in social justice, understanding humans and their interactions, and immersing yourself in being curious and inquisitive! As such, instead of being introverted and ignoring problems, you openly challenged them, and this is how you met your man! You and him had conflicting opinions, and that is how you both entered into each other's eyes. As frustrating as the other person was, they seemed almost right, and this compelled you to come up with stronger arguments since you loved nothing more than to wipe the smirk off his face when he thought he was winning an argument.
Eventually, you both became more and more invested in each other's life. And all of this happened very unknowingly. Just one day, you realized that you knew a lot about him, and he knew a lot about you. Just as tumultuous was the confession. Actually, it wasn't so much of a confession, it was just him saying that you both should get together, and this made you angry. You felt the same for him, but you were hoping for more! The first few dates, you tried your best to not like him, completely trying to sabotage whatever it is that you had. He caught on, was angry, and you two had a fight, with him telling you that you couldn't find someone as good as him! You repeated his words back to him, and both of you parted ways.
However, with each date, you realized with disdain that you didn't like the guys as much. They did match your ambition and drive. You and him would come back together only to push each other away when it became too much. Eventually, as you both grew older, you were getting tired. The push and pull game was fun when you were younger, but now you both wanted passion. You both marry with the sole promise of never forcing each other to change their core personality.
The fights continue, but this time, you both know when enough is enough. In ways, sometimes you rile each other, because it isn't the fights that cause you the thrill. It's what comes afterwards that is much more thrilling! Both of you have now found your own happy medium, where you can jump off each other's ideals and wishes and grow.
