I’m posting this here from AU DT.
We all know Shiva has problems and he needs to deal with them but how can he deal with his insecurities on his own when it’s people Raavi and her people that make him feel like he doesn’t deserve her. How many times have we heard how she’s so unlucky she is to have gotten married to him?? She has never once said that she doesn’t feel unlucky that means she also thinks what everyone around her is saying about her relationship. What does talking to him private do if he’s getting humiliated in public only because he’s her husband?? Non of those so call friends or her maasi would’ve commented on Shivaa if it wasn’t for Raavi. She always stands there listening others speak for her about how she’s suffering because she married him. If she sacrificed so did he, he hated her yet agreed to get married. Also Raavi does take her frustration and anger on Shivaa as well, remember the scene where she’s crying due to Rishita but tells him it’s due to him she’s crying because she married to him. She comments on how his way of dressing and his job embarrasses her time and again. He did nothing but try and help so she doesn’t kill herself, thank you toh durr ki baat hai she says he ruined her life by marrying her. She all happy and smiling with Dev who had done her so wrong but always shows her anger on Shivaa, why?? Raavi thinks she lost something precious (Dev) and got the worst possible husband and don’t shy away from commenting on it herself and let others speak for her as well. I don’t support him mistreating her regardless of how frustrated he gets but let’s be honest whatever insecurities Shivaa has were never there before she came into his life. She’s responsible for him to feel so shitty about himself. She thinks EVERYONE is better than him and that’s the root of Shivaa problems.
I’m saying Raavi deserves what Shivaa has done or may do tonight. Absolutely not, nothing excuses that kind of behavior NOTHING.
All I’m saying is that Raavi doesn’t just feed his insecurities but she’s the root of it. I haven’t seen that man questioning his worth before the whole “he doesn’t deserve someone like Raavi” happen. The idea of him not being worthy of her didn’t planet itself, it was indeed put into his mind by others and that includes his wife and now he’s acting like others said he is and that’s just sad. How I wish he proved everyone wrong. 😭
Edited by Beautyful_Mess - 3 years ago