Iâm posting this here from AU DT.
We all know Shiva has problems and he needs to deal with them but how can he deal with his insecurities on his own when itâs people Raavi and her people that make him feel like he doesnât deserve her. How many times have we heard how sheâs so unlucky she is to have gotten married to him?? She has never once said that she doesnât feel unlucky that means she also thinks what everyone around her is saying about her relationship. What does talking to him private do if heâs getting humiliated in public only because heâs her husband?? Non of those so call friends or her maasi wouldâve commented on Shivaa if it wasnât for Raavi. She always stands there listening others speak for her about how sheâs suffering because she married him. If she sacrificed so did he, he hated her yet agreed to get married. Also Raavi does take her frustration and anger on Shivaa as well, remember the scene where sheâs crying due to Rishita but tells him itâs due to him sheâs crying because she married to him. She comments on how his way of dressing and his job embarrasses her time and again. He did nothing but try and help so she doesnât kill herself, thank you toh durr ki baat hai she says he ruined her life by marrying her. She all happy and smiling with Dev who had done her so wrong but always shows her anger on Shivaa, why?? Raavi thinks she lost something precious (Dev) and got the worst possible husband and donât shy away from commenting on it herself and let others speak for her as well. I donât support him mistreating her regardless of how frustrated he gets but letâs be honest whatever insecurities Shivaa has were never there before she came into his life. Sheâs responsible for him to feel so shitty about himself. She thinks EVERYONE is better than him and thatâs the root of Shivaa problems.
Iâm saying Raavi deserves what Shivaa has done or may do tonight. Absolutely not, nothing excuses that kind of behavior NOTHING.
All Iâm saying is that Raavi doesnât just feed his insecurities but sheâs the root of it. I havenât seen that man questioning his worth before the whole âhe doesnât deserve someone like Raaviâ happen. The idea of him not being worthy of her didnât planet itself, it was indeed put into his mind by others and that includes his wife and now heâs acting like others said he is and thatâs just sad. How I wish he proved everyone wrong. đ
Edited by Beautyful_Mess - 4 years ago