Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#72|Rishita Bani Hero (RED ALERT) - Page 52

Originally posted by: deeps07

From what I feel now..the word compromise is a big No for a married couple in television..a couple who has begun to love each other is shown to be alike in daily soaps..loving everything abt each other..there is no mention of compromise in the television world when the married couple is in love..but reality is very different..no matter how much we love each other..we compromise on a hell lot of things on a daily basis..love is the base in which they stand..but compromising with each others flaws and situations are the running wheels in a relationship..

Since this is a show..raavi mentioned the word compromise..so as mentioned in the prev post this just fuelled shivas insecurity that raavi can never love him back..but raavis actions say a bit differently though..there was more to her compromising now than before..the previous raavi would never tolerate and make this much efforts to deal with shivas tantrums...yet he justifies his own misunderstandings, thinking those actions are her helplessness that she was his wife..she was stuck with him and since he knows that she is such a good women she cares for him as a person..as far as he husband concerned it can nothing be about love..and this bites him..Inferiority Complex is the worst kind of thing to happen in a relationship(whether they r in love or not).. and shiva is having that...and shoving her as a result of his own sufferings just paves way for separation..in real life I would say, they would separate mentally first..its like a slap on the good memories when one attacks physically as a result of one's own misconception...

I feel like,the show is moving on to Raavi's realisation of shivas love more than shivas redemption..because I have no other explanation on why they r not showing raavi thinking why she is ready to compromise when he is being such an asshole to her..she keeps telling they have to move on..but why..what is she expecting from him..Will they live like two souls one either end of the bed sacrificing their own life for the love and respect of family and relations?..shiva has always been sacrificingsince childhood.. he didn't even give it a second thought before what it could do it to him if he does that for the family..like stopping his studies...doing the mazdoori work in the store..because otherwise it meant his brothers have to bear those pain...during wedding ceremonies, there was a mini monologueof shiva thinking about himself "yeh mein kya kar raha hoon...nahiin...mujhe kuch sochna nahiin chaahiyein.."...thats shiva..he restricts himself from thinking before sacrificing himself...and now shiva is not ready for raavi to do that sacrifice anymore...especially now that he loves her, raavi forgetting her dreams living with him means selfishness on his side for shiva..and he can't accept it..its like a wound left untreated... .its stinging him..and showing symptoms of the worsening condition..his taunts and tantrums,shoving her..embarrassing her..all are the result of his inability to voice out his pain..nevertheless its like a disease..unless the wound is treated it is only going to get worse.

So unless shiva shows out his true feelings to her,I dnt think we r going to move forward with each other's realisation and understanding... and until then we r stuck on thera mera thel masala kandh...

Bold: Thank you, that is exactly what I wanted to say, he doesn't want her to sacrifice anything. But couldn't the writer/director portray this on screen without the violence 😔.

Shiva isn’t in the wrong but he shouldn’t use any force no matter how angry/upset he is. It’s like saying mera feelings feelings hai aur tera feelings bhar meh jaye.

I understand he’s ego has been hurt, it’s not raavis fault she doesn’t feel that way, she did offer friendship which he rejected, so how’s she gonna love a guy that’s hated her or been rude to her all his life without understanding him or being friends with him.

Shiva thinking about the same thing again and being insecure isn’t going to do anything and if you’re actually having so much problems file a divorce but how can you keep on being rude to a person that’s doing so much for ur family, she even helped during making the bedroom and surprise.

Now I think they should separate, shiva needs to realise he’s in the wrong, he’s feelings are hurting but that’s not raavis fault that’s circumstances bare in mind raavi has apologised on behalf of sneha and it’s not like she hasn’t been trying whether that’s talking to him or giving him a gift now har bhar if he misunderstands it to be sympathy or majboori then what can raavi do?

In the future episodes I hope there’s a confrontation between the two and raavi actually speaks up and says something and they don’t show her as a bechari. Also I hope shiva apologises but I don’t think he will so at least talk properly to her after realising what you did is wrong.

Originally posted by: Mahidev

Bold: Thank you, that is exactly what I wanted to say, he doesn't want her to sacrifice anything. But couldn't the writer/director portray this on screen without the violence 😔.

I guess violence is for trp audience..😵..they love it the hero is all angry and physically rough..and the heroine being all distressed helpless girl..😵..its like zeher ki boond for us..🤪..I am trying to filter out such scenes from my head.

https://www.latestgossipwu.com/gossip-56442-a

I know this site isn’t reliable but I do hope it’s true, I want them to divorce, meet after a couple of months and start afresh because their relationship has become so toxic full of misunderstandings.

Starting afresh and falling in love properly? Yes please

Originally posted by: deeps07

I guess violence is for trp audience..😵..they love it the hero is all angry and physically rough..and the heroine being all distressed helpless girl..😵..its like zeher ki boond for us..🤪..I am trying to filter out such scenes from my head.

This is so true.. in order to cater to the trp audience they're ruining Shiva 🤢

I hope they do damage control in the upcoming episodes!

Originally posted by: ShivaandRaavi

https://www.latestgossipwu.com/gossip-56442-a

I know this site isn’t reliable but I do hope it’s true, I want them to divorce, meet after a couple of months and start afresh because their relationship has become so toxic full of misunderstandings.

Starting afresh and falling in love properly? Yes please

This will not happen. Such a long separation will not be shown unless there's a leap, which is not happening at this point. The main track is dhara's pregnancy and that's what the focus is on right now

judging by bts - I guess shivi separation isn't happening yet (if it's going to happen)

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Originally posted by: SlytherInMe.

judging by bts - I guess shivi separation isn't happening yet (if it's going to happen)

After everything that happened at the party, I figured we would be one step closer to a separation... but I think the CVs are actually building up to resolving the ShiVi conflict. Wherever it is that they are going, I think that's where we will see a resolution scene. I equate today's scene as the scene to the scene where Shiva said he would exchange the kangans for Raavi.

I believe whatever kaand comes next will resolve their disputes (whether Raavi unleashes her anger on a watermelon or not)

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

After everything that happened at the party, I figured we would be one step closer to a separation... but I think the CVs are actually building up to resolving the ShiVi conflict. Wherever it is that they are going, I think that's where we will see a resolution scene. I equate today's scene as the scene to the scene where Shiva said he would exchange the kangans for Raavi.

I believe whatever kaand comes next will resolve their disputes (whether Raavi unleashes her anger on a watermelon or not)

Is it bad that I want a resolution scene but I don't? I don't know what's much left to their story if they air it all out now. Obviously I want an apology, a pretty damn good apology but I want a hint of misunderstanding to remain.

I want them to play out those scenes that you mentioned.