Originally posted by: mpks1
My thoughts on why Raavi expected Shiva to wish her for birthday.
All of you know what kind of a person Raavi is, she has no malice or hatred towards anybody, even towards Shiva. She says it verbally but doesn’t mean it. After Mukteshwar Kaand, she also knew that he would never leave her. She has build that trust and she knows that he has bedn her savior and protector time and again, This time again her anger is stemming only because he disrespected her in front of the family and brought her into the bargain only after Mami refused to give the kangans back and taunted him saying only Raavi will go back with him. Raavi also knows that getting the kangan from Mami is his utmost priority more than anything else at this time. At the same time she is not asking Mami to give the kangans back because she doesn’t want to get in between Mami and Shiva.
Raavi is only angry and did not misunderstand him. In real life, when you are angry with your spouse which ended in a fight, you still expect them to talk to you, pacify or wish you on special occasions or atleast I did, in the initial days of my marriage😆 and is very normal. She also knows that once he gets the kangans back, he will surely take her back but we don’t know if she will go or not.
Even at the Temple scene, she only mentioned that “kaun aise baat karta hai parivar ke saamne, apne biwi ke baare me”. She is not losing any self respect by expecting him to wish. She is still firm on the thought that she will not go back until this is all resolved, though it is not said in clear words, she definitely expects him to get her back, not Dhara or other family members.
You can actually derive few things from the Temple conversation/- both Shiva and Raavi addressed themselves husband and wife which they hesitated to say even the previous night, This is definitely a progression that didn’t happen overnight but it is the right time to acknowledge because of the situation they are in. He expected her come with them to the haveli, if not for him atleast when the family called but he understood why she didn’t after we listened to his monologue.
After watching the promo, he is going all the way to get the kangans, his zidd is clouding his thinking process and is not letting him understand the repercussions of his actions. Is he going to fall down in Raavi’s eyes, yes definitely. Once he gets the kangans back the next thing he should work on is to get Raavi back, this is where we should see his redemption. Him being angry or being hateful towards her won’t work anymore period.