Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #22 - Page 59

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

She was indirectly responsible for their father's death? right? What exactly happened?

Why did shiva say that tune ek Bhai ko behen se alag Kar Diya?🤔

Yeah, his father had taken some money as loan and Prafulla and her husband (Suman’s brotehr) took it and didn’t give it back.

Hence for 10 years, Suman and her brother didn’t speak to each other. Only when they came to ask for Dev’s hand in marriage did they start talking again.

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

Only reason Raavi might speak up now against GauRa is for “treating Shiva like a naukar”.

And she should speak up against her maasi for being so insulting to the guy.

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Yes but Dhara have seen her defend Shiva before Rishita and hence I think she expects her to do it even now.

She’ll be in for a big surprise when her batwara plan finally fails 😂

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

But it doesn’t do anyone good to hold on to a grudge for so long. Forgiveness is both for the giver and the receiver.

You definitely should be aware of the wrong doer, and stay away from them. But not so hell bent on revenge.

Suman has the perfect balance. Shiva is at one extreme, rest of the family is at the other.

Thoughts?

Pandya parivar and balance🤣 they don’t go in the same sentence.

More than Shiva or Suman, I blame Mama for letting this go on forever😕 When he got the bangles, is it not his duty to return it. Also the papers Darshan Pandya signed on behalf of Mama and Mami to get them money by mortgaging his own store😕 That was even bigger problem than the kangans. But looks like Mama doesn’t have has an ounce of guilt about that. Mami is a lost cause in that matter as well😕

We all have to remember one thing at the beginning, it was Mama and Mami who came to ask Suman about Dev and Raavi’s marriage. PS family did not initiate the marriage alliance.

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

And she should speak up against her maasi for being so insulting to the guy.

She would have if Shiva hadn’t taken the sickle to her neck :(

For once I hope GauRa give Raavi some gyan tomorrow, which makes Raavi sympathetic towards Shiva a little

Okay but Raavi did speak up. She was told to shut up by Shiva when she did

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Yes but Dhara have seen her defend Shiva before Rishita and hence I think she expects her to do it even now.

Defend in front of Mami? Raavi tried but failed big time. Shiva stopped her and Mami refused to listen to her. Mami thinks Raavi is in a miserable state in this marriage and only she can get her out of this mess😕 Mami’s only goal at this time is to separate Shiva and Raavi.

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

But it doesn’t do anyone good to hold on to a grudge for so long. Forgiveness is both for the giver and the receiver.

You definitely should be aware of the wrong doer, and stay away from them. But not so hell bent on revenge.

Suman has the perfect balance. Shiva is at one extreme, rest of the family is at the other.

Thoughts?

As much as I agree that forgiveness gives you peace, but no-one can be actually as forgiving as gaura. Forgiving and forgetting is one thing, but treating them with respect, Talking with them properly as if nothing happened is a bit too much.

Sumans response was the most mature.she completely cut them off from their life, making sure that they could never harm her family ever again.there is a saying that the person who wrongs you once can wrong you again.she only gave in because she thought that Dev loved raavi.

Shiva is an extreme character, right from the beginning.he did mellow down a bit after his marriage with raavi, because previously just one look at maami triggered him . Now, he acted only when provoked. I think that's his way of keeping Rishton ki Maryada.😅

Nothing can be one sided...maami insulted him,his family, his mother and he gave it back.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Defend in front of Mami? Raavi tried but failed big time. Shiva stopped her and Mami refused to listen to her. Mami thinks Raavi is in a miserable state in this marriage and only she can get her out of this mess😕 Mami’s only goal at this time is to separate Shiva and Raavi.

Yess, seems like more than creating a rift in the family, she wants to make Raavi see her side and get out of the marriage.

I wonder if we will get to see a night at the haveli where Raavi goes to sleep in Maami’s room.

And maybe ShiVi toss and turn due to the unfamiliarity of it all

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

As much as I agree that forgiveness gives you peace, but no-one can be actually as forgiving as gaura. Forgiving and forgetting is one thing, but treating them with respect, Talking with them properly as if nothing happened is a bit too much.

Sumans response was the most mature.she completely cut them off from their life, making sure that they could never harm her family ever again.there is a saying that the person who wrongs you once can wrong you again.she only gave in because she thought that Dev loved raavi.

Shiva is an extreme character, right from the beginning.he did mellow down a bit after his marriage with raavi, because previously just one look at maami triggered him . Now, he acted only when provoked. I think that's his way of keeping Rishton ki Maryada.😅

Nothing can be one sided...maami insulted him,his family, his mother and he gave it back.

You’ve put it perfectly! ❤️