I’m mad at Raavi today - Page 2

Originally posted by: cannedweirdness

You know, everyone is making Raavi out to be the bad guy here and Dhara some mahaan. Let's be real - because of her idea to get Shiva and Raavi marry her which made her Mausa do the emotional drama and got ill. So Raavi had to marry Shiva, the person who hates her no matter how nice she was to him, and watch her love with someone else. Just think about - now she has to watch them every day!

Also Raavi trusted Dhara, wanted to be her. She is hurt by the betrayal. And she has every right to be.

Rishita is abominable and selfish but Raavi doesn't expect anything from her but that. But she blindly trusted Dhara and the Pandya family and they did that to her so.. Though it's not very nice to see, what she is doing is normal human behavior.

I understand that Dhara is the ideal selfless TV protagonist but she made the mistake and the family despite knowing the truth, brought it all upon themselves.

Unknowing accepting rishita raavi has done a major plus to the entire wedding situation they were put in I feel

Raavi ek insaan hai... Jab insaan mein gussa ya frustation baara hota hai toh woh aisha kuch kar detaa hai ya phir bol the tha jo woh normal waqt mein nahi karata.. ..

Raavi ko jab realise hojaayega woh sorry bol dege...

While I truly respect your views, I would like everyone in the Pandya family to cut Raavi some slack. The girl was obsessed with one man for 10 years. She dreamt, lived, breathed that she would marry into the family and Dev.

She’s literally been through hell and back. Isn’t this the same Raavi who drank Dev’s photographs ashes when her Mami burnt it?

She literally committed suicide and came back. The lack of empathy from even Dhara is boggling. Dudette, this girl is trying to smile and nowhere I see her insulting anyone. Nothing has changed between her and Shiva in her head. Both of them are bickering and lashing at each other like they always did! It’s totally childlike.

The one thing she has probably not registered is that Shiva has become sensitive post their marriage. They haven’t even had a proper conversation between each other about what this marriage could mean to them.
They are just mad at each other right now. Misdirected angst to the turmoil in their life.

The sheer fact that she isn’t pining for Dev and holds no grudges against Rishita shows her lack of attachment to any of them.

She is latching on to the most powerful emotion that can give her a sense of empowerment, her sense of entitlement over Shiva. I think the makers have done a fantastic job in portraying her focus on Shiva.

He is the centre of her universe right now as she was Shiva’s pre-marriage. Both have a lot to resolve and it wouldn’t happen overnight or by Dhara making them hold hands and hugging each other.

They aren’t kids anymore whose fight they can resolve.
Raavi and Shiva are both dealing with a lot of complexity. No one can resolve this unless they spend all their pent up emotions.

today raavi was shown very weird. The dev shiva fiasco should make her little mellow down for shiva. Their fight was in serius topic nd she behaved so childish. I know now shiva raavi are husband and wife but there should be some serious conversation on that wedding fiasco between shiva raaavi , dev raavi and shiva - dev. we got nothing even yesterday. Instead of gaura telling them to sort it oit the only solution is hug nd song. It doesn't work this way.

i was expecting like shiva dev going inside bus sitting alone away from all and speaking up nd then hug maybe. The whole shiva anger venting out didn't add anything to the story.It became a popat scene for audience.

Only sensible thing raavi did was supporting rishita on sandwich matter. Even here rishita's thoughts are changing nd she really acknowledged someone in the family with positivity. Inly such things can leaaen her insecurities.

I thing only raavi and krish maybe will be only 2 who rishita can mix a little for time being.

Dhara should stop emotionally crying and make shiva understand anything also forcing shiva raavi to hug was very uncomfortable.

Both gaura are seeing a relationship matching their story. They should not be worried about raavi shiva fighting atall.

Originally posted by: tinapiku

today raavi was shown very weird. The dev shiva fiasco should make her little mellow down for shiva. Their fight was in serius topic nd she behaved so childish. I know now shiva raavi are husband and wife but there should be some serious conversation on that wedding fiasco between shiva raaavi , dev raavi and shiva - dev. we got nothing even yesterday. Instead of gaura telling them to sort it oit the only solution is hug nd song. It doesn't work this way.

i was expecting like shiva dev going inside bus sitting alone away from all and speaking up nd then hug maybe. The whole shiva anger venting out didn't add anything to the story.It became a popat scene for audience.

Only sensible thing raavi did was supporting rishita on sandwich matter. Even here rishita's thoughts are changing nd she really acknowledged someone in the family with positivity. Inly such things can leaaen her insecurities.

I thing only raavi and krish maybe will be only 2 who rishita can mix a little for time being.

Dhara should stop emotionally crying and make shiva understand anything also forcing shiva raavi to hug was very uncomfortable.

Both gaura are seeing a relationship matching their story. They should not be worried about raavi shiva fighting atall.

Agreed. Shiva and Raavi’s relationship is based on their fights. So their romance will also be with takraar. Dhara and Gombi should give them space. They don’t understand Shivi relationship nor do they understand that Shiva is not Gombi, and Raavi isn’t Dhara.

I agree with the sandwich part too. Dhara saying that to Rishita just made her feel bad. It’s not like she’s a great cook, she just tried something new. Glad Raavi supported her there.

But since Raavi refused to divorce Shiva, I just feel she should not have insulted him, even if she’s mad at him. They should sort out their differences among themselves. The Dev-Shiva fight added nothing to the story. It just showed Shiva’s insecurity about being called ‘stupid’. He wouldn’t have reacted that badly if Raavi hadn’t laughed at Dev calling him stupid. It’s obvious that Raavi affects him.

I felt the same. I like the bubly girl whose mantra was to be happy in any situation. Even though she is angry with Shiva, behaviour with Dhara was entirely wrong.. I hope this gets sorted out soon.

Also one thing shiva siad to.dev to tell raavi about rsihita i don't remember that did he say that? shiva nd gaumbi both wanted dev raavi marriage after revelation.

krish was more sensible and mature than raavi today.

Her not getting affected by Dev atleast ounce is undigestable.

Her more focus on Shiva getting hurt anyway is stupid.

No one feels the importance of matter to be discussed nd commuicated.

Gaura 'solution of binding the family should not be limited to forced hugs and songs.

All r sympathising with Shiva but here he should not behave like dhara's puppet nd in some times lern to disagree her not indisrespectfull manner though.

forget about manhandling shiva has no right to question raavi even if she is intentionally hurting dhara.

the problem is no one is giving each other some space

i don't know why there is no conversation between dev raavi maybe writers main focus now is rishita raavi bond thatswhy to somewhat gang up against dhara.

I haven't watched the episode yet, it will eventually happen that she will be close again. However, what I don't want is for her to insitigate against Dhara. I just don't want Dhara to be the victim-I was hoping Raavi will be Dhara's strenght. more or less like Shiva is for Gaumbi.

To be honest Shivi's nok jhok will be there even after they both fall in love. I was a huge YHM fan and there the leads also teased each other and Shivi remind me of the same. Gautam and Dhara are the same way they were before after their marriage, but Shivi are soo different from each other and I strongly believe they will keep teasing each other even after they are getting closer.

Originally posted by: Transference

Nothing to do with the thread..Sorry TM..

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Originally posted by: ananya269

Shiva was really affected by that. That’s why I feel bad. Raavi used to tease him but today her taunts didn’t feel childish.

True.

He was allready pissed with Raavi for siding with Rishita & putting Dhara down. Plus her laugh was the final nail in the situation .