We are seeing bilal’s pain and know his past etc and wahaj portrayal of bilal has made us connect more to him and that’s why we are disliking sadaf .
But let’s see only from sadaf pov. She has been told about Bilal from his father who initially said no to join in his office. Then came Humsha whom she considers as friend completely manipulated her. Obviously she will believe her over Bilal Abdullah right now and bilal also admitted about marasim and dosti .
We also believe our friends over any new person in real life( if they say about new person personal life)
Here also haysha (Humsha+haya) cleverly manipulated saying only with women he is bad because of his past. Sadaf in her mind believes that he is good human who did so much for her family but when it comes to women he is not good .
The only blunder sadaf did is accepting ammar as a way to escape from bilal and also her newly found feelings for him. This blunder will cost her so much in future. Even without accepting ammar she could have simply rejected Bilal’ s proposal . The reason she said yes to ammar is because bilal will not propose her once he comes to know about this. in last episode one more haysha added saying he keeps on chasing a girl until he gets her.
I also think she wants ammar as shield to protect her against bilal so she said yes to him and also called him for dinner but he was playing tt to escape from them as he is coward and he is also getting promotions thanks to sadaf. It’s very easy to remove ammar from sadaf life . If bilal ask him to choose money / promotion or sadaf he would choose prior one.
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