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Posted: 18 years ago
I donno how common surrgoacy is in india?

I am not available tomorrow since i am loaded with meetings, will try a chapter tomorrow afternoon!

Thanks again for your comments and suggestions!

Madhu
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Posted: 18 years ago
Hey Madhu,

That was a wonderful thinking 👏 👏 👏 . I really like the way u are writing. I feel these type of stories should be more common in Indian serials, so that we hear more abt adoption/surrogacy and spread awareness.

This is a nice start. U should think of publishing ur story as a novel...

Waiting for Prakash's surprise...


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Posted: 18 years ago
Hey Madhu. So I guessed wrong. I thought Madhu is going to bring back Anand into Nandhini's live to complicate her romance with Prakash. You managed to prove me wrong!! (This is what happens if you read too much of romance during your teens/young adulthood)

But anyway, bravo Madhu 👏 for the new twist of introducing surrogation in your story. I heard surrogation is still a taboo in India and many parts of Asia.

Thumbs up for this new twist. 👍🏼

Anyway, like others, I am glad you are better and thanks to our (or rather yours) in-house doctor Spain. Welcome Spain.
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Posted: 18 years ago
Thanks everyone, for such a warm welcome. 😊
I'm glad my suggestions were useful to all of you as well.

And thanks Madhu, for the prompt and thrilling chapters. 😛

From what I heard, surrogate motherhood is still a debatable issue in India. In recent years, an increasing number of infertile couples from abroad go to India in search of women who are willing to be surrogate mothers. Some of these Indian surrogate mothers are paid quite a huge sum of money for their temporary "job". In addition, many of the surrogate mothers are showered with gifts of food and medicine and monitored with solicitous attention by the waiting parents, usually educated, sophisticated people who want to ensure that their investment yields its much-hoped-for fruit.

Likewise, potential surrogates must be between 18 and 45, in good health, and mothers in their own right, for physical and psychological reasons — physical, so they know what awaits their bodies, and psychological, so they feel less troubled about giving up the baby because they already have children. The egg that contributes to the embryo is never one of their own, coming instead from an anonymous donor or the intended mother, and then usually fertilized in vitro.

India has no laws regulating the fertility industry, only non-binding guidelines issued by the national medical research council. The group has urged the government to enact legislation to ensure protection of rights on all sides.

Traditional attitudes on sex and procreation, which make surrogacy seem incomprehensible and taboo to many, still prevail in the Indian countryside. There is an empathy with the childless in a conservative society that views producing progeny as an almost sacred obligation, and Hindu teachings about being rewarded in the next life for good deeds performed in this one.

Doctors who have assisted infertile couples from abroad in hiring surrogates in India insist that they guard against exploitation and provide high-quality care. They bristle at comparisons of surrogate mothers to people who sell their organs, an act they describe as perverse and completely different from harnessing the natural maternal cycle. It is counter-argued by other doctors that surrogate motherhood is not about losing any organ. It is a normal physiological process in a woman's body involving pregnancy and delivery. When you remove a kidney, then it becomes pathological.

Both sides of the debate agree that the fertility business in India, including "reproductive tourism" by foreigners, is potentially enormous. Current figures are tough to pin down, but the Indian Council of Medical Research estimates that helping residents and visitors beget children could bloom into a nearly $6-billion-a-year industry.




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Posted: 18 years ago
thx spain for sharing the information.
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Posted: 18 years ago
http://www.csmonitor.com/2006/0403/p01s04-wosc.html

This is an aricle about surrogacy in India. Yes you are right Spain "Reproductive Tourism" has become a booming business in India. But i dont know how childless couples in India take this surrogacy issue, doesnt seem to be very popular. They seem to succumb more to performing a second marriage rather than going for surrogacy. I dont know if the childless couple are reluctant or if they dont have enough resources to find surrogate mothers. I guess the law needs to be tightened up to deal with this surrogacy and post surrogacy issues.

A very close friedn of mine is going to have a baby through a surrogate mother and her own cousin offered to be the carrier for her. I met all both the women during my visit to their place and i was realy amazed to see their spirits. I dont know if my family would even think of this, but i have this urge to do these kind of things...right i am ashamed that i dont have the guts to come forward to be one, but i am hoping God will bless me with enough courage and health to do this someday for some unhappy childless couple.

I am just thinking loud....but i wanted to bring it out in the character of Nandini...and hence this twist. The other paradox i have seen in India is widow remarraige and thank heavens, its slowly becoming acceptable. I am very happy about that and i hope all these crazy serials start throwing positive light on these kinds of issues. I dont know how many of you read the "Ananda ragangal: fiction, i satisfied myself by getting Anandam Priya's anni married to Kadhir.

I guess just showing a positive side of these in serials itself would change our society since that seems to be the medium reaching to the poorest to richest!
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Posted: 18 years ago
Very well said Madhu and Spain. These things are also changing back in India I guess. People are open about adoption. In VijayTV "Jillnu oru Jodi" program, some newly married couple are saying they will have a child of their own and will adopt one. I really wanted to adopt a child and bring up too. There are so many children who really need a loving home. I loved the Maniratnam's movie "Kannathil Muthamittal" so much.

All these useless directors they encourage 2nd marriage instead of all these other solutions. As a director I think they have a huge responsiblity to show all these instead of showing that women are dumb and wife will somehow convince husband for a marriage. 😡
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Posted: 18 years ago
Well said Madhu. By the way, can't wait for the next chapter ma. 😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
Well said Madhu. I agree completely with you. Having said that, I am not sure what I would do if I was in a similar situation. But I believe that the society(in India) these days have open views on all these controversial subjects which were a big taboo when I grew up, so maybe in future we may see more acceptance to these things.
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Posted: 18 years ago
Well said seriel, I donno why powerful media like TV doesn't voice for social awareness.

It is great that Madhu mentioned in her story. Way to go girl.

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