KNI Discussion Topic - Page 18

Originally posted by: netra_rama

The night after my engament, this was the same question struck on my mind and got me so tensed dat night and i end up being awake whole ngt

Appadha....thanks to this KNI FF - IF forum, ennaku intha non - imaginative question kalyaanam fix punna munnadhiye thonichuthu

My mum said she sacrifice and accepted all the changes because of the love she had for my dad.

👏👏....yeah, i wouldn't mind changing myself either..after all, we're doing this for the love of our lives right 😳...

He told me to be just what i am, no need to change myself for them.

👏 you've got such a lovely in laws......

But well, i feel thats the best way. It makes u feel more comfortable. I do admit lots of things we sacrifice living with them.

Thas a great idea! I guess getting know our in laws (in their likes/ dislikes) is the best way to avoid any maamiyar - marumagal dishum dishum down the road, just like the tamil soaps.

Especialy in sharing bathrooms 😉😉 even worse is sharing the bed 😉😆😆.

😆Oh appadhiya.....

So you see Aish Hun.. its not only us get tensed up on moving with inlaws, they too face the same thing, getting a new member into the family. Its hard for both parties daa. Im saying this on behalf of myself, vinod and my inlaws ... 😃😉😊

👏👏...👏..you're a great daughter in law Netra.....You're every considerate.....thanks for this lovely answer Netra....

Originally posted by: kadhambari

nalla padamellam potten.........seekiram ezhundhirukradhu

😆romba killadhi thaan neenga......

actually thookame varalai......tension'la mudhal naal

🤣🤣🤣....ithu enga unga nadhippu, MIF/ FIL ikku therinchudumonnu vantha tension a..illa just nervous about being around them??

i normally dun drink coffee,tea,milk ellam.......so my FIL used 2 bring elaneer & every morning they used 2 give me elaneer...........

Thasss choo chweet.....neenga romba kudutthu vetchavanga ambi...😛

itz the bond how u make in the 1st place..............aana insecure parents irukkave seiyyuraanga.........adhai sometimes namma muyarchi panna pokka mudiyum as netra mentioned.but it differs 4m person 2 person.........cant say in general.so we need 2 be really patient 2 build a strong relationship with inlaws.they need 2 know us & understand & viceversa.so patience is the only solution acc 2 me.

Wah...great piece of advice....thanks dear......

Originally posted by: GGG3

Questions paper a paathaa kanna kattudhe. It's late night here. Will answer your questions tomorrow Aish.

Originally posted by: aisha_muka1980

Marriage, be it love or arranged, most often involves the bride moving out of her parents' house and into either her in-laws' or her husbands' house. What is the bride's state of mind at this point in time and how can it be tackled?

Those belonging to the Single's corner, feel free to answer based on your observations. But I guess this question is mainly for those who've actually gone through this....

My answer ...

Originally posted by: aisha_muka1980

Guys, I'm extremely sorry for giving you guys a hard time with my imaginative questions. But hopefully, most of you should be able to answer this.....😉 ....

to those singles out there, please don't hesitate to give your point of view.

Here it is:

Whom do you expect to give in/ make up first after a fight (not a physical one, but a verbal one b/w a couple 😛)?

(1) husband/ bf

(2) wife/ gf

I'll give my answer later on

Originally posted by: aisha_muka1980

OK...so herez another question.......which is based on a hindi serial (so of course it is reel).....but the situation is mind boggling.......hence wanted to ask how it coule be dealt with in real life (i pray that no one goes through this).

A husband, who follows his dad's path, and wants to be his waaris (name of the serial)....although they help the poor, the business they are in isn't legal...i.e. the daada style! The sole reason for him to be in this business is his dad....who had brought him up to be part of this.

The wife, who is loved by his husband a lot and is pregnant, tried to change him, but he was adamant that he'll never leave his dad. She is afraid of the baby's future, but the love for her husband is preventing her from doing anything.

While going to the temple, some enemies try to finish the husband, but nothing happens to him. However the wife falls down the stairs and has a miscarriage.

The husband is shattered and repeatedly asks his wife for forgiveness but his efforts go in vein........the wife is lifeless now.....

So should she forgive him?? Leave him?? Is it really the husband's fault? Keep the word love in mind though 😉

Originally posted by: abhinish

Now a Days Not seems new Posting of " KADALIKKA NERAM ILLAI " serial. is this serial has sttoped telecasting in VIJAY TV.....????????

Thanks Aish for the questions. I don't really know how i'm gonna kuppa kottify in my hubby's house. Kadavul dhaan kaapaathanum avangala. I enjoyed and loved all our akkas' answers. Learnt a lot of things. Thank you Ambi, Netra and Anoo akkas.