KNI Discussion Topic - Page 16

Originally posted by: aisha_muka1980

Guys, I'm extremely sorry for giving you guys a hard time with my imaginative questions. But hopefully, most of you should be able to answer this.....😉 .... u better ask sorry😛

to those singles out there, please don't hesitate to give your point of view. we wont

Here it is:

Whom do you expect to give in/ make up first after a fight (not a physical one, but a verbal one b/w a couple 😛)?

(1) husband/ bf

(2) wife/ gf

I'll give my answer later on u shud have answered first😉

ok here goes my answer. i will make up first if the fault is mine. i do it always. otherwise i wait for the person to do it for sometime.If they don't do it, then i will take the first step.

Originally posted by: aisha_muka1980

Guys, I'm extremely sorry for giving you guys a hard time with my imaginative questions. But hopefully, most of you should be able to answer this.....😉 ....

to those singles out there, please don't hesitate to give your point of view.

Here it is:

Whom do you expect to give in/ make up first after a fight (not a physical one, but a verbal one b/w a couple 😛)?

(1) husband/ bf

(2) wife/ gf

I'll give my answer later on

Originally posted by: kadhambari

i go with anu's answer.i used 2 give in but now no give & take..........sandaiyum samadhanamum eppoyavadhu nadandha dhaan giving taking ellam.........dat has become routine now.........moonjai thooki vechittu irundha,velaiku aagadhu...........thodaichu potu poyitae irukanum.adhellam kaala pokila palagidum............perusa edhuvum problem vandhadhillai adhanaal sillarai matterukku naan alatikradhum illai.

kalyanathukku appuram vara sandaigalai yuthama paartha dhaan naan vittukudukradha nee vittukodukradha,vetri tholvi ellam........adhai oru matteravey eduthukalai........difference of opinion'u paartha cool'a adhaiyum enjoy pannittu vaazhalaam.........idhai naan eppadi dhairiyama sollurenaa........chumma irukkura manushanai seendi viduradhey naan dhaan enakku bore adichudhunaa☺️

Originally posted by: smile_plus

Hi Ambi/Anu,

Arpudhamaana Vilakkam.. Why don't you both write a script together and market it to Director Vikraman?

Veda, unakku ithu jokea theriuthu.. But you know, I have many -ves in me. I am not at all a good home maker. But he has not forced me to change any of my habits. After my son was born, he had pointed out my habits which might affect my son.. so I am trying to change it.. 😃

So ennakku sanda vantha moonji thookarthu varaathu. 😉 Naama oruthara romba nesicha avangakitta pesama irukka mudiyathu.😛

Athu ennoda talkative naturekku innum kashtam.😆

Enakku marriagekku appuram oru varutham thaan,kalyanathukku munnadi naan pesinathu enjoy panni naanga.. 😆😆 eppo etho perukku 'hmm hmm' kotrathoda sari..kathula vanginangalanu theriyathu...😭

Originally posted by: kadhambari

Veda nee theme'a use panniko but bulb ellam pugutha koodadhu adhulla.............ok'na use panniko.

Originally posted by: aisha_muka1980

Marriage, be it love or arranged, most often involves the bride moving out of her parents' house and into either her in-laws' or her husbands' house. What is the bride's state of mind at this point in time and how can it be tackled?

Originally posted by: aisha_muka1980

Marriage, be it love or arranged, most often involves the bride moving out of her parents' house and into either her in-laws' or her husbands' house. What is the bride's state of mind at this point in time and how can it be tackled?

Romba nalla question Aish👏👏👏

Imm after engagemet we will recive n number advices from n number of people.😭

At the time of marriage on both the sides, relatives will try to find fault with other side and they try to create a gap bet'n 2 families. 😕

I always advice the brides (in my close circle of friends or relatives), to ignore all the comments of the relatives including her own parents.😛 We are grown ups.. Did they teach us to be cautious with our friends? Did they teach us how to move with our friends?

When we hav chosen our friends on our own experience, do you think we need anyone's advice to move with our hubby's family? That too in arranged marriages our parents think so many times before fixing marriage. I think it should be fine if we are ourselves..

If the bride goes with open mind,there will not be any problem at all.. Unfortunately if she faces any problem my advice is sort it out by urself. Dont share with anyone esp mom.😉

Generally moms are over protective about their daughters after marriage.. So their extra care sometimes irritates the in-laws and hubby.. 😆😆