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kadhambari

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Posted: 17 years ago

#121

Originally posted by: aisha_muka1980
Ok....So i guess i'm going to bombard you guys with another question that is related to marriage!

Do women have to sacrifice a lot after getting married? If so to what extend and what sort of habbits do they need to give up?

perusa onnuthaiyum naan sacrifice pannidula paa.................so naan ennatha solluradhu😉...........konjam adjustment irukkum............ena 2 different people..........vera vera background,vera vera broughtup styles,vera vera educational qualification ellam irukkum............so serndhu vaazhum podhu konjam nammai avungalukku thagundhapula maathikanumnu solluradhai vida,adjust pannikanumnu solluven..........this applies 2 both men & women yaar..........infact avungalum adjustable'a irukaanga indha generation'la mostly,2 perumae adjustable'a irundhaa dhaan relationship sustain aagum. perusa cinema'la serial'a kaatura madhiri sacrifice,identity thulaikradhu idhellam pethal acc 2 me.ippo siblings,parents kooda irundhaalum konjam adjust pannikradhu illaiyaa adhu pola dhaan husband & his family members kooda pannika porom............idhulla sacrifice ellam exaggeration acc 2 me. this is truly my opinion.love irukkum padchathil kuraigal niraigal ellamae samam dhaan vaazhkayil.love adhigama irukkanum kammiya irukkanumnu ellam illai..........adipadai adhaaram love dhaan ella relationshiplaiyume,adhoda alavu mukiyame illai.

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Netra Ramanathan

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Posted: 17 years ago

#122

Originally posted by: annoo

Aish when it comes to life partner we have two choices on mind..

1.On seeing him butterflies will fly in ur stomach😳

2.Always reliable.He will not let u down even if u hav done some mistake.ie. best friend categ😛

Its better to go for second one.😃 Always ur relationship will be the same. Be it happiness or sorrow,both will not blame each other instead support each other.😊

It wont be hot/cold relationship but a warm one on all 365 days😛

👏👏👏 Well said anu. U have said everything i had in mind... 😳

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Netra Ramanathan

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Posted: 17 years ago

#123

Originally posted by: aisha_muka1980
Ok....So i guess i'm going to bombard you guys with another question that is related to marriage!

Do women have to sacrifice a lot after getting married? If so to what extend and what sort of habbits do they need to give up?

I dun know about other women, but i can tell you about netra ......... 😉

things that i had sacrifice

moving into his family and leaving my parents, sharing bathroom 😆😆, getting up early to prepare his fav breakfast as he hate having it out, to have kids at the early of marriage in family though i was not prepared but it made him smile (and now im glad i had my princesses😳), sleeping late as he loves to talk about the day activities we go through (i will be sooo sleepy but yet will be awake😳), I hate ironing since small but now .. ehem netra is expert in ironing 😭😭 , giving up my fav sitcoms so that he can watch football match, and the list goes on 😆😆😆

Because im from joint family, its hard to wear something we feel easy and walk round the house with attai and mama there ...😭😭 all netra's really short shorty long ago packed. No sleveless 😭😭. To make sure im well known on mama and attai's needs etc. (But for this netra will thank god, for giving not MIL and FIL but a loving mother and father .. my inlaws rock ⭐️), and when my frens come, they act prety decend 😆 as attai will be around or else .......... 😆😉.

But Aish, all this Netra did not sacrifice for the sake of marriage, but for LOVE ❤️

Edited by netra_rama - 17 years ago

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Netra Ramanathan

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Posted: 17 years ago

#124

Originally posted by: annoo

Nothing will seem a sacrifice if u luv him truly madly deeply😳😛😉 Well said Anu 👏

Habits....

In the case of nuclear family

Generally after marriage ur life style wont change much...but after kids my god..its totally different😲

1.Early rising.(atleast for kid's sake)😭 (hahahaha this made me laugh, but we all go through it naa😉)

2.Plan/prepare break-fast,lunch/dinner w/o break (This is a background process running in ur mind all the time)😕 (Really Anu?? wohhhh such a wonderful and loving wife, i only decide when i wake up that mrg or well Attai is always there 😳😉)

3.Manage/solve all domestic needs and issues😭 (Tell me about it )

4.Cannot go for a movie/place of ur choice😭 (Awwww netra still go naa 😆😉 wanna know the trick?😛)

5.Cannot roam around wid ur friends as u do b4 marriage😛 (Not really true Anu, let me PM u the trick😛)

I dont know about joint family...😊 I've stated above naa

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Netra Ramanathan

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Posted: 17 years ago

#125

Originally posted by: kadhambari
this is truly my opinion.love irukkum padchathil kuraigal niraigal ellamae samam dhaan vaazhkayil.love adhigama irukkanum kammiya irukkanumnu ellam illai..........adipadai adhaaram love dhaan ella relationshiplaiyume,adhoda alavu mukiyame illai.

Notice this Aish?? From the married ladies, anu, ambi and me share the same opinion ... love is the base yaar .😳

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@_Manpreet_

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Posted: 17 years ago

#126

Originally posted by: annoo

Nothing will seem a sacrifice if u luv him truly madly deeply😳😛😉

Habits....

In the case of nuclear family

Generally after marriage ur life style wont change much...but after kids my god..its totally different😲

1.Early rising.(atleast for kid's sake)😭

2.Plan/prepare break-fast,lunch/dinner w/o break (This is a background process running in ur mind all the time)😕

3.Manage/solve all domestic needs and issues😭

4.Cannot go for a movie/place of ur choice😭

5.Cannot roam around wid ur friends as u do b4 marriage😛

I dont know about joint family...😊

Awwwn...thas choo chweet.......You know one of the reasons why asked this was, one of my married buddies kept on scaring that i'll have to sacrifice a lot after marriage and that i be prepared....i was really pissed off cause, she herself isn't that perfect........but now i have an answer! Thanks akka.......

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annoo

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Posted: 17 years ago

#127

Originally posted by: kadhambari
love irukkum padchathil kuraigal niraigal ellamae samam dhaan vaazhkayil.love adhigama irukkanum kammiya irukkanumnu ellam illai.........adipadai adhaaram love dhaan ella relationshiplaiyume,adhoda alavu mukiyame illai.

Gals this is very very valid point. 👏👏👏

This is the ultimate answer for this questiion😛

Aish do u understand ambi's point?

Edited by annoo - 17 years ago

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@_Manpreet_

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Posted: 17 years ago

#128

Originally posted by: kadhambari
this applies 2 both men & women yaar..........infact avungalum adjustable'a irukaanga indha generation'la mostly,2 perumae adjustable'a irundhaa dhaan relationship sustain aagum. this is truly my opinion.love irukkum padchathil kuraigal niraigal ellamae samam dhaan vaazhkayil.love adhigama irukkanum kammiya irukkanumnu ellam illai..........adipadai adhaaram love dhaan ella relationshiplaiyume,adhoda alavu mukiyame illai.

what a lovely answer Ambi...........i love your quote.......i guess life after marriage is soo beatiful........

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@_Manpreet_

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Posted: 17 years ago

#129

Originally posted by: annoo
love irukkum padchathil kuraigal niraigal ellamae samam dhaan vaazhkayil.love adhigama irukkanum kammiya irukkanumnu ellam illai.........adipadai adhaaram love dhaan ella relationshiplaiyume,adhoda alavu mukiyame illai.

Gals this is very very valid point. 👏👏👏

This is the ultimate answer for this questiion😉😛

Aish do u understand ambi's point?

I think I get it anu akka - that love is the basis for everything and that there is no depth to it??? if i seem to be misunderstanding this quote, could you correct me plz anu akka 😛

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annoo

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Posted: 17 years ago

#130

Originally posted by: aisha_muka1980

i guess life after marriage is soo beatiful........

Yes Aish its wonderful.😛

But there are guys who r less expressive. 😕That doesnt mean tht they dont love. 😉U sud have this clarity. Whether u get it or not,u sud be ready to give, in luv. 😉

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