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Neha (known as ch@shmish also)

@___Neha___

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

I dont understand why everyone is giving me lectures here?!!
Am sorry I can't b as mahaan as u guys!! Me ek simple n sensitive ladki hu!!
And I m not interested in making any kind of issue overhear!!
Firstly I thought to reply ppl on that post only but then I thought to make a separate thread to say it!!
Bcoz I want my words to reach everyone here...
U guys r again n again saying that we r breaking the unity of k khandaan or nibir fans!!
But...
THAT'S TOTALLY WRONG!!! 😭
I don't know how many times i hav to say this...
We r joining n uniting fans by
BY MAKING A BRIDGE TO CONNECT NEW MEMBERS WITH OLD ONES
Our J family is not a new family but a new generation of K KHANDAN...
if u still have doubt then go and check the j family thread again... Just read it & then talk!!!
and ye disapproval ki baat kab ayi??? Jitna mujhe yaad h everyone approved the J FAMILY saying make it a new generation of K khandaan... and it will b fun and a new twist in K Khandaan...

I don't UNDERSTAND..
WHY U GUYS ARE OVERREACTING??
stop making an issue of it!!
Agar forum me J family b rahe with K khandaan then wats the problem??
And ppl who r saying k to stay on forum we don't need to b a part of any khandaan !! I totally agree with u!! But it's our wish if we want stay as a family here!! I m here on this forum from last one and half year and a part of K KHANDAAS from last 1 year.. At least I thought my self as a part ... May b they never accepted me as one!!!
But wat ever it is!! Now there r so many new members on this forum who also wanna enjoy this cute thing being a family ... And if K khandaan is not allowing them to b a part of it then we r not left with any other option except making J FAMILY 😈
I was never been so active on this forum , bas last kuch months se hi m active and also started going in AT and from the day my sis NEEDA joined this forum , she was saying she is not part of K but J family & I used laugh on her but last few week ki happenings only Ignited us to take this step of actually making J FAMILY...
Ok just let it b!!
I don't think ... anyone will understand this!! So why to argue on this topic? And waste our time?
Let's end it here... J family ban chuki hai and we r not in mood to step back!! Why would we?? We know we r right!! And dusro k misconception ka hum kuch nahi kar sakte!!!
And abt my previous post...
I wrote it in a miserable state... It was a burst out of my emotions!! I know , i shouldn't have mentioned anyone's name there!! But I did ... And sorry to that person... ab ise meri achi adat kaho ya buri.. me baateij dil me nahi rakhti kisi k b against.. agar Mann ko kuch hota h to bol deti hu!! kisi k liye apne mann me kadwahat rakhna mjhse nai hota!!
and one thing I wanna tell is I never said that I leaving forum bcoz of her .. Read that previous post of mine again if u want!! I just mentioned a name of person bcoz of whom I guess all this started!! I know she said sorry for it that day only and I have no issues with her now!!
I decided to leave the forum bcoz of some negative vibes I got here!! she was never the reason... I was feeling terrible... so needed a break... but thanx to my dear mishri my mood got alright soon... as I watched the crazy mishri segments and it light up my mood & left a 1000 volt ki smile on my face... 😃
And a message to all my Dearieees , guys take a chill pill coz m not totally leaving the forum... I will b on INDIA FORUMS but not much on NAUC forum...
And it is not necessary for every nibirian to b here on nauc forum... aur b bahut social sites hain jahan I can continue my craziness... This is wat I always used to do yar!! Nauc forum mere liye I guess tha hi nai !! Me iss jagah se dur dur hi thik thi!! Jab zyada involve hone ki koshish to it all messed up!!
I was supposed to leave forever but mele pyaaale doshto ko cholke kaishe jaun?? Ansh , aimi ... 🤗
M not going guys... Not discontinuing any stories...
Not backing off from the contests... Coz my mom didn't taught me to back off!! Peeche darpok n losers hat te hain... And I m not a loser!!
Sorry shibu , vaishu and lekhu

PS . likhte likhte kuch zyada hi lamba likh diya 😆 sorry & thanx to all who read this long post 😳

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tanisha

@tani_0209

Navigator

Posted: 9 years ago

very gud decision

u jst dnt kno hw happy em after reading 2 dis post of urs

u said evrythng vry clearly n in d way it shud hav been said

ur previous post literally disturbed me..

bt nw em soo happy..

n u said it vry correctly dat back off losers krte h

n u r surely nt one of dm..

concept lying behind dis j family z gud 4 those who r new n wanna join d family.

it may nt b welcumed wholeheartedly by d members of k family may b cz dy r vry much possessive of dere k family..

bt d initiative u n Needa di took to create a bridge btwn old n new members z really praise wrthy..

em soo proud of u n ur decision..

i really dnt havuch idea about ur newly frmed khandan i mn bn gya h ya ni

bt plzz neha yar update to de de..

kbse teri stories ka wait kr ri hu..

ab to de de

#tanisha

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Dr.Needa

@-VisheshTippani

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

I just wanna tell u dis nehu
dat n proud of uh :*

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Dr.Needa

@-VisheshTippani

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

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Dr.Needa

@-VisheshTippani

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

M proud of you... Hats off to ur courage to handle things brilliantly

*Big hug*🤗

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@Klaustrophillic

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

NEha,

no one is giving you lectures yaar and we are not at all against your J family nor we have a misconception about it!

we know what all you mean! hum tere against nahi hain aur tere against hone keliye humaare beech koyi dushmani bhi nahi hain, we all are friends yaar! hum kisi cheez ko exaggerate nahi kar rahe hain...hum bas tujhe samjhaane ki koshish kar rahe hain...!

maine pehle bhi bola tha ki if you are sure about j khaandaan, then banaao, and if you are sure then aise posts kyun? "you people are ignoring us", "i am leaving the forum", tu jaanti hain ki why isn't anyone not paying attention to J khaandaan, kyunki sabko lagta hain ki ye hume divide kardega, and where's the unity in divisions?

theek hain, we accept ki J khaandaan K khaandaan ke new members keliye hoga, nothing's wrong with your idea, i accept it! but iski wajah se jo hum logon ke beechme fights ho rahe hain wo? would you want to accept that? we never said anything, it's only you who had made the post, it's you who got hurt eventually!

"And it is not necessary for every nibirian to b here on nauc forum... aur b bahut social sites hain jahan I can continue my craziness... This is wat I always used to do yar!! Nauc forum mere liye I guess tha hi nai !! Me iss jagah se dur dur hi thik thi!! Jab zyada involve hone ki koshish to it all messed up!!"

it is necessary! for every nibirian to be here, and tu bhi hum me se hi ek hain! we never ever ignored you, i don't know tujhe aise laga bhi kyun, just samajhne ki koshish kar na yaar! jitne hum important hain is forum me, utna hi tu important hain aur new members bhi! you don't need to make an issue over it! we are not enemies, remember that!

why are we fighting within ourselves? hume isse kuch milne waala hain? lecture nahi de rahi hun tujhe, agar samajhna hain to samajh nahi to chod de kyunki isse zyaada main aur kuch nahi bol sakti!

P.S. we aren't villains! aur tere dushman to bilkul nahi hain!😆

Edited by sam_premc - 9 years ago

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arviabhigya

@arviabhigya

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

so this is not directed to neha or needa but anyone who is reading my post😊

Pehle toh I dont think Neha anybody was ignoring u. AT main aisa kaafi baar hota hai ki hum baakiyon ki chat ki reply karte karte sabse baat nahin kar paate😊

aise mein this is what I do.

i try to join in the convo so that I feel included and it helps😉

I m glad u r not leaving the forum😊 and i understand that ur previous post was written when u were angry so didnt comment on that😊

now this is what I have to say cz this comment really disturbed me

it may nt b welcumed wholeheartedly by d members of k family may b cz dy r vry much possessive of dere k family.. -

@mishri0209 and all the other ppl who have this opinion. let me clear this misunderstanding

Firstly K khandaan was used as a term to welcome new nibirians onto the forum and this concept was invented long before any of the current old members joined the AT. We were welcomed by saying and I quote "Welcome to the K khandaan and do join the AT😊" Later during one of our crazy talks in the ATs last yr we decided to make a family with crazy relations in jest. It was just one of our paagalpanti talks and nothing else😆 dheere dheere we expanded on this idea and decided to make a family tree for fun🤣 when the new members joined in, they wanted to be part of it and we welcomed them with open arms😳😃 Aaj bhi koi bhi forum join karta hai we say welcome to the K khandaan😃 It is not something we are possessive of😉 theek hai some (a minority) might be too attached to it but the rest are welcoming yaar😃 every new member needs to just make one post and the old members will come rushing in😆 ek baat batao, koi new member jab AT pe aata hai toh have we ignored them ever? I m sure needa and neha will agree ki jab woh online hoti hain AT pe and I m online too, I do make it a point to talk to u guys, dont I?😊 Bas naye members ko hum sab se baat karne ki der hai😃😉 ! if a person decides to be a silent member I cant help it but if he/she does make an effort, we have always been there to talk to u😊 this is why NAUC forum has survived despite the show ending about 1 yr back !

there is a reason why u saw so many old members comment when the J family idea was put forth. we suggested an idea of u ppl being part of k khandaan and u guys accepted our viewpoint.the idea of making the essence or history of j family different frm K khandaan was not acceptable to some ppl and that is why we didnt comment on it. simple 😊 we did not ask u to erase the post similarly u cannot ask us to like/comment if we have nothing to say.and I agree with annie, even though J family was not intended to disrupt the unity, look what it just did ! it made u guys think we were ignoring u and then some members decided to join a group and be against us ! I have nothing against u guys and u knw it especially u and needa.😳 However I was disturbed by the comments on this post so decided to speak my mind. to those who think that K khandaan creates a barrier between old and new members and J family is the bridge, the only barrier between a new member and an old member is lack of communication or interaction between the two. all it takes is to say a simple hi or make a post and interaction will ensue😊 k khandaan will always welcome new members 🤗

if u still consider me ur Mihimaa then pls read my post rationally😃 I knw u will do cz u only suggested na that u r my pihu😃😉

k khandaan is the reason for this realation and for getting me to knw u better and vice-versa

Edited by arviabhigya - 9 years ago

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mishrialways

@mishrialways

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

neha no one is giving any kind of lectures to u here and why should we, just like you are putting your view point we too are doing the same

i still dont know why did u felt ignored coz none ignored u and if you felt it becoz we did not commented on the j khaandan post then we didi it coz we dont agree wid the idea but still we accepted it as you wanted to make it. we have no problems with it.

as far as connecting with nibirans in other social grp its your wish totally where you wanna be

u r always welcomed here. there is no hard feelings between us all here.

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Dr.Needa

@-VisheshTippani

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

@anni kyun Neha ko hi kyun samjhaya ja raha h??

Neha's right at her discission

yeah

There is unity in division too...we made it as it was needed... In a fun way...u may took dat in funny way as well but

u only ppl took it otherway & tried to separated J cousins by ignoring...

It can also b taken in a healthy n funny way...

Bt leave it its now of no use

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@Klaustrophillic

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#10

We've taken this is in a funny way, that's why we are saying normally!
We are not blaming Neha for anything, she's our friend and always will be!
She's right, absolutely! No doubt in that! But kya making posts like u r ignoring us all that is good? Okay fine!
Agar tumhe samajh me aaya Ho, to we aren't trying to samjhaofy Neha that she is wrong or that she should back out or something, hum bas ye bolne Ki koshish kar rahe h Ki we should stop fighting over nothing!

You maybe are supporting her cuz she's ur friend or sister or whatever, and we are not against her, we r friends n hence we r trying to solve the disputes going on right now without making any further issues! If u cant understand or are taking the whole thing as something venomous! That's wholly the problem with your understanding what we r trying to say! Nothing else! Signing off! We still can be friends, actually we always were but its just the situation which is not in our hands!

If u would want to have a healthy atmosphere in here, u would have tried to call this fight off, but this going opposite I guess! I've no issues with you, and would not drag it anymore! Sorry if I had hurt anyone! Gtg!

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