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Would just like to add something
From what i understood is that Nisha went through a traumatic incident when she was a child and becuase of that she thought that becuase she was a girl she was weak enough not to protect heself hence she transformed herself into a tomboy and disdians all girly stuff since she thinks doing all girly stuff will make her more like a girl who in her opinion was weak version of herself and not strong enough to protect herself
for me this thought process is what i have a problem with.I dont have any issues with NIsha .She went through a traumatic incident and this is her defence mechanism but i dont like the messgae the serial is giving out ateast currently through Nisha and her reason for being a tomboy
i really hope that Nisha's charcter has some growth and she realizes hat she doesn't need this defense mechanism.Being a tomboy is not nisha's nature but a defnese mechanism i hope slowly she realizes that she doenst need it even if she completely acts as a girl and does girly stuff she can still be viewed as strong and some one not to be messed with.That she doesn't need to be a tomboy to appear strong
One can be a tomboy or girly either ways you can be a strong person.That the message i hope nisha as a character learns and the serial gives out
Another thing i dont like is showing Nisha 's tomboyish nature as something abnormal or weird.Being a tomboy is completely normal.In this case there is a reason why Nisha is a tomboy but in many cases there is no reason its just who they are which is completely normal.I just hope that parents who have girls with tomboyish nature dont start going to the councilor to seee if there is something wrong with their child.Because being tomboy is very normal i wish the serial would have shown that rather than giving a a reason behind a her tomboyish nature
From what i understood is that Nisha went through a traumatic incident when she was a child and becuase of that she thought that becuase she was a girl she was weak enough not to protect heself hence she transformed herself into a tomboy and disdians all girly stuff since she thinks doing all girly stuff will make her more like a girl who in her opinion was weak version of herself and not strong enough to protect herself
for me this thought process is what i have a problem with.I dont have any issues with NIsha .She went through a traumatic incident and this is her defence mechanism but i dont like the messgae the serial is giving out ateast currently through Nisha and her reason for being a tomboy
i really hope that Nisha's charcter has some growth and she realizes hat she doesn't need this defense mechanism.Being a tomboy is not nisha's nature but a defnese mechanism i hope slowly she realizes that she doenst need it even if she completely acts as a girl and does girly stuff she can still be viewed as strong and some one not to be messed with.That she doesn't need to be a tomboy to appear strong
One can be a tomboy or girly either ways you can be a strong person.That the message i hope nisha as a character learns and the serial gives out
Another thing i dont like is showing Nisha 's tomboyish nature as something abnormal or weird.Being a tomboy is completely normal.In this case there is a reason why Nisha is a tomboy but in many cases there is no reason its just who they are which is completely normal.I just hope that parents who have girls with tomboyish nature dont start going to the councilor to seee if there is something wrong with their child.Because being tomboy is very normal i wish the serial would have shown that rather than giving a a reason behind a her tomboyish nature
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