Originally posted by: Nikita_99503
Episode 54:
Okay, coming to the confrontation... I don't know what to say about it because I haven't faced a situation like this in real life. So, what to say about this? If you would have given your opinion, I could have given my views based on that.
I don't know who is right here and who is wrong... cos if I could relate with the scenario, it would have been easier for me to fathom who is right and who is wrong.
I mean I agree with N here that things wouldn't have got complicated if she wouldn't have pulled this stunt. It all happened behind N's back without her knowledge. Things would have been different if she herself would have introduced S to her family. Here, due to this stunt A lied to N multiple times, she even raised her voice, N was worried about her and what not. So, it is obvious that she would be troubled and angry.
Coming to O... Yes, she was wrong in pulling that stunt but as she said, the worst punishment was that after all this, N is behaving as if nothing happened. So, yes this indeed is the worst punishment.
I don't know what I should say to O's words to N that things got complicated because she herself is complicated and that she only knows how to drive people away from her. It must have really hurt N really badly.
Khair, I am actually kinda glad that at the end, O apologized to N and admitted that she has committed mistakes and hurt her.
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TBH, I have been on both sides on different occasions hence the confusion.
If I talk about the show, I am totally with N and O deserved much severe punishment. N is arrogant and unnecessarily stubborn but at the same time, she understands facts. When Shayan asked her on a date or proposed, she never misbehaved with him. Everything was in front of her and she knew what the guy meant. She has respected him thoroughly. Even on the confrontation scene, she was being unreasonable but the moment S stated the facts, she calmed down and felt bad for hurting him again.
But here everything was going on behind her back. Shorif - Nazifa's friend from medical school has helped her throughout the years and they share a lovely bond. He is also N's family doctor and considers A as his niece.
If S was present in A's life, I don't think even N would object. After all, she herself is much adored by S's father. But S did it with a motive and after knowing the reason, she barred him from meeting A. So the little girl who started loving him, is now suffering and so is S. And N herself is feeling guilty for this but can't do anything about it.
Now which person would just magically forgive another person who caused so much of confusion and suffering for so many people?
About O, the point where I could relate was her outburst. From time to time she has expressed her annoyance regarding N's unnecessary haughtiness, be it her shunning her parents or when she suspected O and N having an affair. So the anger was always there and it just burst, but in the worst possible way and on a totally irrelevant occasion.
N has every reason to shut S out and she wasn't being a bitch about it. She was cordial with him and respected the guy. But the blow came out at the most difficult time.
Now, I have faced the same thing. There were little things which I didn't express and after a really long time when I exploded, the person in front of me was totally shocked and clueless. And I have rewind the incidents in my mind over and over again. Even when I feel I am justified in my stand, I could also see that I could not expect the other person to magically mend her way because I was the one who suppressed these little issues. So obviously she didn't realize where everything went wrong and I destroyed a perfect friendship of 8 years over something that trivial yet serious issue.
So I felt, O should have pointed all these thing from the beginning so the outburst wouldn't blow N away.
And from N's POV, I too along with my mom and brother am a reserved person. I don't show my emotion usually. So there have been incidents when people just assumed I didn't feel bad and said absolute rubbish.
S is a good guy and he is crying so all hell broke loose. What about N? Just because she is a strong woman, does it mean anyone can squander her feelings under their judgement and she's just bound to take it all because she did one terrible mistake of disowning her father?
On tonight's episode, I literally wanted to slap O and again, my heart broke for N.
A got sick at her school and when N received the call, she was thinking of O's words that she pushes everyone away and that's why has no one beside her. So for the first time in all those years, she called her mom and asked her to take A to doctor. She also noticed S overheard her conversation and informed him saying - I know you are concerned about her so I wanted to inform, A is sick but it's nothing serious and she'll be fine.
Thankfully her mom along with A and N's MIL's help used this opportunity to bring the father-daughter duo close and N's reaction when she saw her father on her door. 😭 😭 😭 5 minutes ago she was addressing him as "Your Husband" when she was talking to her mother but then she went to make tea and recalled how her father doesn't eat sugar and her emotions - Prova was beyond perfection today.
And tomorrow, she is gonna call her dad "Baba" while conversing and talking about an old incident after which again the father-daughter duo were totally shocked.
But O here has zero amount of remorse and I don't even think she really meant it when she apologized. S called her to check on A but she was like if N was egoistic so was she. So where did her love for A vanish? And yes, tomorrow she's gonna visit but even now with the attitude - I am the best N is the worst.
Suddenly it seems like she just doesn't know N at all and have forgotten all their private conversations and funny moments, and for what? Just because a good-looking guy is crying outside?
At this point S looks lakh times more understanding than O who claims to love the family.
Thoroughly disappointed in her character now.
Edited by nushy1995 - 5 years ago
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