old but excellent post by -purva-

ORIGINALLY POSTED BY -PURVA-
Posted: 31/03/2012
"In this show we have two women
who have teenage daughters and
both seem to be totally oblivious of
the changes that their daughters are
going through. Both Aishwarya's
mom and Pinky are totally careless about the fact that their daughters
are beginning to discover the
opposite sex and are going through
major personality changes.
Raavi has changed totally in the last
few weeks - she's become more obsessed with her looks, acts silly
around guys, esp. Siddhu, accepts
expensive gifts but Pinky seems to
take it all so calmly. Same is the case
with Aishwarya's mom, the way the
girl looks and smiles at Rocky, it is obvious to everyone that there's
something going on, but again
Aishwarya's mom seems to be so
carefree about it all. Just when they
should be most vigilant, the two
women are so out of the loop. I like the way Sweety keeps an eye on
Rocky, esp. around Aishwarya.
Had Raavi been Sweety's daughter,
the entire fight between Raavi and
Raashi would never have happened,
coz Sweety would've caught on that Raavi is obsesed about Siddhu. Same
thing with the perfume fiasco.
Interestingly, Raavi doesn't know
how to make tea, but Sweety has
Ginny helping her in the kitchen.
Sweety is not only more involved with her kids but also grooming
them, while Pinky despite all the
endearments and blandishments has
absolutely no clue about what is
going on in her kids life.
What do you all think?"
Well its an old topic but i think still a fresh one to have a discussion on... Since we currently have nothing such to discuss.

original post: https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/nayi-umr-nayi-chunauti-parvarrish-agla-padav/2911783/teenage-girls-and-mothers

I am not going through the discussion there...😊 But here is my view.

totally agree shwetha. Discussion on that original post is also good. I wish those people come back again to the forum. We all will have fun discussing.

For that the show has to come back to its original form.😊

so this is abt ginny-sweety vs raavi-pinky 😆 wasie if raashi is of ginny's age, shudnt they concentrate on rasshi-pinky now? 😕

@Suhaani this is about handling teenage love and how mothers should have an eye on their teenage children.

thats wat am saying! raashi is also a teenaged girl and she also fell for nitin hai na? ya a crush, but she didnt understand, and pinky was obsessed wt raavi, her princess🤢

Thats the thing...it is always Princess

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

I am not going through the discussion there...😊 But here is my view.

I think Sweety is definitely better in handling Ginny more than Pinky with Raavi and Raashi. Sweety is very open and thats what helps here. She talks from her heart and does not hide anything from Ginny regarding any issue. During cycling track, I think there was a scene where Ginny takes help from some boy and Sweety did not like...and she told that. Ginny also is comfortable speaking with her.

As for Pinky, she is a friendly mother but over reacts untimely. When Raavi told abt Abhishek she over reacted, Nitin over reacted. She takes time to settle herself while things go out of hand.

Daughters can actually not speak abt these things with fathers. They need mothers there. But Raavi spoke with Jeet than Pinky. That shows Pinky in in capable of handling crisis situations.

I like how Sweety handles Ginny's crisis and Lucky handles Rocky. It is perfect. Children too are comfortable sharing their problems and they have assurance that one parent will definitely be on their side.

As for teenage love, it is bound to happen. It cannot be stopped. When parents find their child is getting attracted to someone, they just have to have a talk with them, tell them it is common but they should know their limits and other responsibilities rather than making them feel they are doing some crime.

this topic is on three mothers then why we discuss about that lucky SWEETY is abale to handles rocky also sometime punishments also necessesary & i always think that rocky is such a person JO LAATHO KA BHOOTH BATO SE NEHI MANTA he lies in every matters he thinks that he is an oversmart(farm house track prank call track ) but an ultimate idiot usko sahi galat ka matlab nehi pata & pinky is a very very week mom the whole birthday problem occurs for her usko bacche palna nehi ata (as for topic)