Originally posted by: 4shilpad
hello once again, ladeez log and thank you Tanu for the adda and saying all that we feel about the lala land that Navya has become...I am sorry I have not read thru all the posts but have not slept at all last night, had too much work and need to just get this out of my system before I fall on the keys and start snoring...promise to read tomorrow evening...sorry am in a workshop tomo...
So was super confused by Anant - what the f?
Then the wheels in the brain started creaking and here is possibly an explanation for super weird behaviour ... or is it just my optimism...who knows?
After the epi, my first thought was that OMG, A is still J and the MU continues and here we were attributing all sorts of noble motives for his shocked and shaken state such as his realisation of what all Navya is giving up for him, given her potential and how drastically her life will change etc... I thought that Anant was being quite shallow getting upset about what some other guy says to Navya about their relationship over which she has no control, given all that Navya was going to sacrifice for him...all this being underscored by the poignancy of N's hopes and dreams for the future with Anant and A's doubts about the relationship as shown in the precap...then i thought that no we were not wrong...he was shaken and stirred by Amar's words on N's behalf...especially the lines he ponders over - whether she will be happy just being Mrs Anant Bajpayee? and his fear is that she will indeed be unhappy and that he will lose her - hence the tight hug and all the insecurity about her job - more and more signs of how important her work and job is to her and how she will be giving it all up for him and whether he will ever be able to compensate for it and what if she regrets marrying him, is miserable with his family and in that way he loses her...
What do u think? Sorry if this theory has already been proposed...
This is the only thing that makes sense otherwise how come that N has not a single doubt , given all that this marriage represents for her and A who has always fought for this relationship is full of doubt ...
or the CVs plan to drive us mad...that could also be a very very probable explanation at this stage
@Tanu thanks for the shelter and kudos for the write up. I had to scoot off for a bit and voila I come back and it like
9 pages already.Didnt I say this episode is going to bring up some good discussions.
I just caught up the episode and Shilpa I am having the same thought process as you are for the BOLD part..maybe its a TGIF charm.
Needless to say I am confused and dizzy because the tiny brain is trying to make sense out of senseless things.
So here goes my baggage of thoughts
1. A is realizing...how he accepts and deals with it is something we will wait and watch. The tight hug he gives N
(which for some odd reason I thought that is way to tight man...bacche ki jaan lega kya..;) is from a person who is
scared. Scared of losing. Anant sooner you unload your baggage the better. The adda is open for you..log on!
2. Shaadi preps start full throttle on both ends but our dulha dulhan have other things to worry about than enjoy their
own wedding. Navya gets all career oriented and its a good thing, but girl a very wrong timing! I loved the way dadi
talked some sense into her! "Kaam toh hota rahega..yeh ghadiyan phir nahi aayengi.." I had a superfast shaadi myself.
Reason being, both me and my husband were working in States, shaadi was in India and like always vacation was an issue.
But that so didnt stop me from enjoying all the rasams. I reached like 5 days before my wedding and in the mode of jet
lag I enjoyed each and every bit of it! Why wouldnt N not want to be part of the rasams? So are they showing how the
new gen doesnt want to bit part of the traditions. I have not come across any of my friends saying that or doing that.
3. Harsh says, " Jiju ko rona chahiye..calling Navya bala.." I was like no dude..the tears will remain in these eyes.
4. The question A asks about her working? It confuses me! And N's answer pretty much says it all..it doesnt matter any
more what she wants the judgement has been made. But atleast she was not sulking..
5. Why does BD have to call Mishras to teach them how to do rasam? Every family has its own way of doing things. Oh for god sake leave them alone. Is she like a monitor of the shaadi or something?
6. Dukhi aatma senior also doesnt trust her son now. How much more will A's character be assassined?
7. The dreaded pre cap. The way it looked to me, was just a teasing banter from Ranbir ..I dont want to start tagging him as bi polar just yet...but A took it seriously..why?!
So on the 7th point I thought and I thought and giving A the benefit of doubt I an thinking what Shilpa mentioned. Maybe he does want N to realize her dreams and ambitions.
If A is doing this bhagodagiri because of his insecurities, they both need to ask themselves a question, do they really love each other? Are they getting married because its the right thing to do or they really want spend the rest of their lives with each other? My two cents to A and N, its better to be single but inspired rather than committed but confused!
Too many questions, none answered and the confusion prevails..😕
Update and again a question: is it just me or IF is acting crazy too? Why did it put unnecessary line breaks...
Edited by Dora123 - 13 years ago
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