Rama...why are u like this???

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nuttycleo

@nuttycleo

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Posted: 14 years ago

Hi people...sorry..i lost my sense of humour today...i feel restless...just like Navya & Anant would have felt while waiting for Renu to come...to know if she will accept AnYa or not...

and though my restlessness has nothing to do with Navya, I think about this show & Rama takes over my thoughts...makes me mega flustered...even claustrophobic...

whats wrong with her??

why isnt she worried that her husband hadnt taken her out for dinner alone till before yesterday?

why is making her devar's life miserable more important than making her hubby's & her own life happy?

so what if her MIL & Aunt In Law are sisters...are they happy...that she wants to ruin her younger sister's life too by getting her in this house?

She doesnt even want a child for her ownself..its just a means to distract her hubby...is she for real???

Then i think about her Hinglish...or attempt at Banarasi English...even start imgaining her in her parents place...i see considerable difference between the 2 sisters & think...

Did her complex start from there itself?

How come 1 sister can speak good English while the other has a heavy accent?

Are her parents to blame for the way she is...favouring the younger & fairer one of the 2??

Is her whole act about personal insecurities...which are so high that she cant bear to have a competition within the Bajpayee household?

Who knows?who wants to know??guess just me...

because i see what she could have been & like it...a caring bhabhi, who can win her devar's confidence within no time...an uneducated, yet loving wife who has finally managed to knock on the doors to her hubby's heart...a compassionate co-sil who will help Anant's wife to settle down too...only she doesnt see it.

sigh...she needs professional help & I for one, dont hate her, but really feel sorry for her...

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bs8889

@bs8889

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Posted: 14 years ago

hi.. i'm new to dis forum.. jst registered few min back.. been a reg visiter of IF bt nvr joind..

been reading ur posts since quite long n hv luvd al of dem..

i agree wid u n feel sorry 4 rama as well coz she doesnt realise hw blessed she is.. a wonderful, handsome, sensible hubby, cute n caring BIL, n a mom-like MIL

may b u got it rite..her insecurities r d reason 4 her behaviour, she is happy manipulating ppl arund her n thinkin she is a superior n a step ahead by doin so... may b as a child she has had 2 face d bias.. may b she is consumed wid dis obsession 2 outsmart evry1 this blinds her 4m seeing d things she shud actually value..

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nuttycleo

@nuttycleo

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: bs8889
hi.. i'm new to dis forum.. jst registered few min back.. been a reg visiter of IF bt nvr joind..
been reading ur posts since quite long n hv luvd al of dem..

i agree wid u n feel sorry 4 rama as well coz she doesnt realise hw blessed she is.. a wonderful, handsome, sensible hubby, cute n caring BIL, n a mom-like MIL

may b u got it rite..her insecurities r d reason 4 her behaviour, she is happy manipulating ppl arund her n thinkin she is a superior n a step ahead by doin so... may b as a child she has had 2 face d bias.. may b she is consumed wid dis obsession 2 outsmart evry1 this blinds her 4m seeing d things she shud actually value..

Hey...firstly welcome to the Forum!!🤗

thnx for liking my posts...😳...

& better still...thnx 4 responding to this one...i neva expected this topic to gather any comments...😊

your comment above in bold...couldnt agree more! she is obsessed with outsmarting others, isnt she??

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bs8889

@bs8889

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Posted: 14 years ago

thank u 4 d welcm..🤗

i told u i luk forwrd 2 reading d posts made by u n few othr wonderful writers in dis forum b it on any topic😊..

n yes i seriously feel she has dis strange obsession 2 manipulate ppl.. she is so elated ven she sees ppl fallin in her traps..nthin else seems 2 satisfy her..

ven mohan askd her out 4 dinner she was nt happy coz her hubby was askin her out 4 d first tym in their married lyf bt was happy coz she realized he has fallen for d "haddi"..

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Samra

@chucklebuddy

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Posted: 14 years ago

Rama is really getting on everybody's nerves... i agree wid all your points.. n esp i too thot "why is she so concerned abt spoiling devarji's life.. rather she can make her own life happy na.." but then i realised.. dis Rama has some obsession towards doing such things.. she needs a "psychiatrist" 😆

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Preet

@Preet078

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

Completely agree wid all points of ur post...She concered more about ANYA life rather den her own...really she needs a help...So dat she realised what is gud for her...

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spdp

@spdp

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

Arre, ye to Rama pe poora thesis kar dala😉...

Vaise.. me too sometimes feel sorry for her... and was always wondering how come Shagun doesnot have Banaras accent like Rama?

Vaise real life main bhi kuchch log hote hain aise... who all the time keep creating problems for others! unfortunately my husband's bhabhi is lot like Rama :(

Anyways,

guess, cvs will develope her character to heights of evelism- and then give her jor ka zatka - then our Anant or Anant+navya will be her support & guides to win back Mohan! ..

Don't know what, but some twists & turns & blasts will amend this character in longer run! for sure!

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PT_15

@PT_15

Rocker

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Posted: 14 years ago

i agree with u completely

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navyaalex8

@navyaalex8

Voyager

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Posted: 14 years ago

Hi Pooja...y r u letting rama get u all hot under the collar?...Isnt ah-nant distracting u enuff😆? Tsk tsk anant, you bad boy...r u failing in ur foremost duty ?😃

Ok, bad jocks aside, I feel sorry for rama because:

1.I can identify with some of her behaviour (EEEKS!😲)...I can hold on to a grudge like no tomorrow...thankfully , I'm slowly realising that I'm the only one getting hurt in the process while everyone else continues enjoying their life...mebbe rama just needs time?🤔

2.Unhappy people want other people round them to be unhappy ...so rama must be extremely unhappy to concoct such spiderwebby plans 😭

3.Mohan and Rama are like chalk n cheese...Nothing really wrong with either one of them but they just want such different things from life!...Rama's parents looked at CSB with almost worshipful eyes and were probably thrilled to get rama married into such a rich n prominent family...probably jumped at the chance to be upwardly mobile socially too...rama's been brought up to be a dyootiful bahu with small dreams like becoming the queen of her little castle...which is why i think she was so keen to get her easily controlled sis into the qila to depose reigning evil queen booahdadi 🤢...

But is Mohan an innocent casualty?...Mohan is unhappy but too wussy/scared/indifferent to break out of the mould...he doesnt like rama but has no problems being passive-aggressive ...or worse indifferent so as not to rock the bajpai boat...whether its his marriage, his job, whatever...i like him but i cannot condone his behaviour either...atleast rama DOES something!

On the other hand Rama is a grown adult who must ultimately be responsible for her own actions...What a 2-faced 🤬

Hey Pooja...look at us making excuses for rama...y cant we just go "RAMA is EEEvil" and throw multiple andetamaaters at her ...instead of making her appear "i'm just misunderstood"?!!😕...Confyoosiused!...I think I think 2 much!

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Fatima

@.infinite.

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

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i totally agree with u...she's getting on my nerves

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Rama...why are u like this???

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