he accepted..hes abusive... - Page 2

oh and whoever thinks that admitting something doesnt make anything right.

well, if he is admitting something to correct his mistake and not repeat in the future then ofcourse he deserves a chance. he is only human.

but if he has a habit of apologizing for his dirty acts and repeating them then ofcourse it is a perpetual problem which tanaz better walk away from.

shadi se pehle yeh haal hai tou shadi ke baad kiya ho ga

Well...now I can see why her parents were against them getting married. His acts are just disgusting. Any sort of abuse (physical, mental, emotional) is uncalled for and a woman should never tolerate such nonsense. I suggest she leave him!!!

I have no patience for such animalism.

After Manav-Shweta left, I thought that i would not post on NB threads. However, Bakhtiyar's speech has made me think. Although I agree that we have no right to comment on their personal relationship, the fact that Batktiyar accepted in from of media has no longer made it personal.

He bore his heart out. It is obvious that he is honest at heart and it was commendable of him to accept his faults in public(This act too, if I may contradict myself, is an immature and stupid. Some things are meant to be personal. Either he does not know how to behave in from of media or he has no control of his emotions)

BUT who would take a "dance competition" soo seriously so as to throw around/abuse his wud-be wife? I mean, either you care more about the winning, or you don't care as much about your partner. Bakhtiyar REALLY needs to sort out his priorities.

Its clear that Tanaaz loves this man unconditionally (love is really blind) and it is obvious that she did all this, as in participate in NB, just for Bakhtiyar. However, Bakhtiyar needs to mature a lot and sort out his priorities. He ought to appreciate what he has in Tanaaz. Just love is not enough, understanding, respect and appreciation also plays a key role.

I just hope that Tanaaz thinks through before settling down with this man.

Originally posted by: chikeeya

hats off to tanaaz for taking his arrogance..and abuse..

why are you making such a big deal out of it??😡 anywayz, i think you misunderstood him completely. The abuse you are talking about is completely different from what he said.

he's just immature.. but yes somethings shud be kept private.. as for physical abuse.. thats awful.. but i guess alot of us.. at some point of time or the other must have called our better halves something worse than stupid n idiot.. it happens.. we're all human.. some ppl find it much more difficult to control their temper than others.. but fault-finding and criticism is not the cure.. ppl like that need to be handled with lots of TLC and understanding and the anger does melt away.. i spk from experience.. i felt really bad wen bakhtiyaar said he threw tanaaz over the shoulder. n the whole ankle thingy.. but apart from that.. i think he's jus really a big silly kid at heart who has no control over his thoughts.. i dunno if it seemed like this to u guys.. but at some point during their farewell speech.. tanaaz seemed like she's caring for a baby she loved at all costs.. n now to sound like a complete hypocrite.. i'll say that we dont know how others live their lives since each one of us is different so we shudnt comment on them..

he said he used to go pray n they used to practice a lot but he doesnt know what went wrong...well maybe he got punished for his behaviour and was eliminated

everyone has good and bad days...irrespective of whether one is good or not. cheers to TB, hardwork always pay's off...this is not the end of the Road ..just the begining...

Originally posted by: ~RexKiRani~

omg when i heardddd that he threw her when she dint come on her back for this step man he deserves a huge slap on his face for being such a crappy person 🤢

I agree!

Originally posted by: tv_addict_uk

agree with everything u say.
a murderer doesnt become a saint if he admits his crime.
the damage is done.he hasnt done anyone a favor by admitting his mistake...he has only done his own guilt a favor.if he couldnt forgive tanaz's mistake in the dance step....and he punished her by hurting her....then how can he expect people to forgive him for his mistake of being abusive?

Well its not a variety show, nor an acting show. Its supposed to be a straight dance show. I dont have anything against HT and thought that their last performance (baahon ke darmiyan..) was excellent. But talking about the performance of today (semifinal), I thought just on the merit of dance performance put out there, if judged without any bias towards a performers historical performances or personal attitude or how they conduct themselves in their personal lives, TB performance was miles ahead any one else's. Again, people TH might personify humility and Bakh.. may be an arrogant PIG in real life, but out there on the stage only the dance should be judged. To follow politics we have enough news channels.

honestly i cant believe what im reading...words like not permissible and crappy..WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE what he DOES BEHIND THE CAMERA..his personality and character off the stage has nothing to do with how well he performs on stage. thank god he's only performing for this show , for if he was someone like Salman Khan, or Sanjay Dutt..both of them with notorious behind the camera behaviours he'd be ousted from day one na? I don't think so because these two still have a huge fan following...enough with applying selective politics. You choose to blind away from talent when its there and pour your adoration on another couple who can't dance just because they're popular--how do you know this doesn't happen with any of the other jodis..with yash, hussein , hiten, manav..? just because its not publicized..the fact that he actually said that on stage shows how hard they worked and how close they are to each other--how bad they wanted this..and tanaz sure doesn't look like the girl who'd take abuse in that sense..I believe Bhaktiyar was using it to mean that he was really mean and acted like a total a.s during rehearsals. pouncing on him this way is making it okay for someone to pounce on you if you have an issue outside of the job ..but they're disqualifying you for it.