I Cried with them... Did you? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Sound

Not a problem buddy....😳 And I am glad u understand, I was finding it hard to explain....but I totally understand about the biased feeling, once we place someone on some sort of pedestal, they can't do any wrong after that....that's just plain human behaviour and we all suffer thru it some point or the other....

But yeah I must appreciate your understanding.... I do try to think twice before I post anything for fear of the brickbats that may come my way in case I said something against someone's favourite jodi .... not that I go offensive but stating a simple dislike of a performance could also cause a helluva lot of problems.....And since u had enjoyed their performance so much, it was very sporty of you to have actually understood my point!! 👏

Oh and by the way, I agree 100% with Minnie's analysis....If I had to give comments on every jodi it would have been exactly as Minnie stated and she has been able to put words into my feelings for Tannaz-Bakhtyar's performance better than I had been.

😆 Ahhh Sound I see you love taking short cuts...😉😆

Jokes apart, I know sometimes it is so difficult to put something you feel very strongly about in words. As I said, I felt more moved by Bhaktiyar's outpouring of emotions than the actual dance. I felt their choreographer's concept was brilliant.

Originally posted by: Sound

Not a problem buddy....😳 And I am glad u understand, I was finding it hard to explain....but I totally understand about the biased feeling, once we place someone on some sort of pedestal, they can't do any wrong after that....that's just plain human behaviour and we all suffer thru it some point or the other....

But yeah I must appreciate your understanding.... I do try to think twice before I post anything for fear of the brickbats that may come my way in case I said something against someone's favourite jodi .... not that I go offensive but stating a simple dislike of a performance could also cause a helluva lot of problems.....And since u had enjoyed their performance so much, it was very sporty of you to have actually understood my point!! 👏

Oh and by the way, I agree 100% with Minnie's analysis....If I had to give comments on every jodi it would have been exactly as Minnie stated and she has been able to put words into my feelings for Tannaz-Bakhtyar's performance better than I had been.

Aww you so ROCK!! 😉 I agree with Minnie as well. Actually when the music of Kal Ho Naa Ho started playing - I recalled the movie... The grief each chatacter had in their own perspective lives. Dealing with rejection (Saif & Preity) and dealing with death (Shah Rukh). The film, as we all know, was very heartwarming... I thought of their hardwish in the film (as it was so wonderfully projected) and than I saw Tanaaz & Bakhtiyar dancing - holding each other, moving with one another, and promising to never let go... I felt that thats how I would have discribed those characters (Rohit, Naina and Aman). In that regard I felt Tanaaz & Bakhtiyar were amazing...

The part that moved me - and which later made sense - was Bakhtiyar's confession about their love for one another and their struggle to get to where they are today... But the judges felt the pain before the words were spoken - as Sajor Khan said "you made me cry", Kunal said "I got goose bumps" and Malaika didn't have to say anything as her eyes welled up with tears.😭.. I was just happy to see that I wasn't the only one... 😳

Originally posted by: smallwonder

why did u cry with tanaz bakhtyar?

i agree wid u.i mean there was no need to mention abt hardships n all.everyone goes thru ups n downs bt that dusn't mean one shud shout abt it in public.Moreover they faced difficulties as it was their choie.i dun't kno y ppl feel pleased abt disclosing their personal lives.their r many ppl who face such difficulties n overcum it wid grace, wid out being pompus.Their dance was gud bt their acting was BAD.

Originally posted by: Super Kool

i agree wid u.i mean there was no need to mention abt hardships n all.everyone goes thru ups n downs bt that dusn't mean one shud shout abt it in public.Moreover they faced difficulties as it was their choie.i dun't kno y ppl feel pleased abt disclosing their personal lives.their r many ppl who face such difficulties n overcum it wid grace, wid out being pompus.Their dance was gud bt their acting was BAD.

In all honesty, the reason why people sometimes end up sharing their hardships (verbally or emotionally) is because the pain is sometimes so over powering that it's better to let it out in some form of communication.

And when someone shares their pain and/or grief, it's human nature to recall their own. Those T&B didn't say to what length they had to go through to get to where they are, their performance easy expressed that. Hence the reason all judges were completely moved...

Originally posted by: abhishah

In all honesty, the reason why people sometimes end up sharing their hardships (verbally or emotionally) is because the pain is sometimes so over powering that it's better to let it out in some form of communication.

And when someone shares their pain and/or grief, it's human nature to recall their own. Those T&B didn't say to what length they had to go through to get to where they are, their performance easy expressed that. Hence the reason all judges were completely moved...

no offense meant, but this hardship thing has been unnecessarily brought up... they must have gone thru it for sure, but to be declaring it like this looks totally non-genuine and for me takes away its value... if they r into a relation, it is their own business and shud be between them...😛 and wat action/step/sequence in their dance expresses the hardships if anyone cud highlight it please... coz to me it was just another performance and i wish to know it...

Originally posted by: Minnie

😆 Ahhh Sound I see you love taking short cuts...😉😆

Jokes apart, I know sometimes it is so difficult to put something you feel very strongly about in words. As I said, I felt more moved by Bhaktiyar's outpouring of emotions than the actual dance. I felt their choreographer's concept was brilliant.

I sure do Minnie😉

And why not? U had pretty much stolen my thoughts and gave them words something I had tried to do and failed......And once again I agree, it was Bakhtiyar's emotional state that moved me and not the dance..

Originally posted by: abhishah

Aww you so ROCK!! 😉 I agree with Minnie as well. Actually when the music of Kal Ho Naa Ho started playing - I recalled the movie... The grief each chatacter had in their own perspective lives. Dealing with rejection (Saif & Preity) and dealing with death (Shah Rukh). The film, as we all know, was very heartwarming... I thought of their hardwish in the film (as it was so wonderfully projected) and than I saw Tanaaz & Bakhtiyar dancing - holding each other, moving with one another, and promising to never let go... I felt that thats how I would have discribed those characters (Rohit, Naina and Aman). In that regard I felt Tanaaz & Bakhtiyar were amazing...

The part that moved me - and which later made sense - was Bakhtiyar's confession about their love for one another and their struggle to get to where they are today... But the judges felt the pain before the words were spoken - as Sajor Khan said "you made me cry", Kunal said "I got goose bumps" and Malaika didn't have to say anything as her eyes welled up with tears.😭.. I was just happy to see that I wasn't the only one... 😳

You know what, the second and each subsequent time I watched the episode, I realised it was more to do with Kal Ho Na Ho music than anything else....... I mean honestly, when Bakhtiyar was crying, I felt bad but it was the music in the background (the slow and sad version of Kal Ho na Ho) that actually hit me, coz as u mentioned the music by itself is strong enough to move you....I have cried bucketfuls while watching that movie, and I still do whenever I watch it.....And just seeing him standing there and crying reminded me of all those characters in the movie and that was what made me shed a tear or two.....

Must say an excellent choice with the song......It sure moved the audiences and more importantly the judges!

P.S. You rock just as well abhishah!!😎

Originally posted by: soap_fan

yes they did make me cry...actually i remembered all we had been thru to get to the altar....i thought it was brilliant...excellent job by T & B

Did you have hurdles in your love life too? It must be touching to watch T-B pouring their emotions. I was moved by Tanaz more than Bhaktyaar. She had that look throughout the dance and even after it ended.

I think part of the reason I wasn't THAT moved was becoz we already came to know Bakhtiyar cried. So, I was kinda sitting thru their dance thinking, "Ok... when will he cry?" Lol

Thats funny nighteye... Yeah... you're right... I did read the update before hand... 😆