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I dont think Neil not moving on is unrealistic at all. He was never going to move on, and we all knew that. Neil's feelings for Avni WERE and IS the real thing. So that will never change.
"Jab tak yeh zindagi hai...I will always love you. Tumse badkar meri koi aur kwahish nahi hai!" I think that summed it up.
What I objected to was the length of time he had to be in this pain when he never did a thing to deserve this. One guy on Indian TV who never deserved such a fate is Neil! But now that this is the reality, I will accept it, and try to live with it.
I disagree that it took Neil 5 years to move on from Juhi! He had actually moved on when he agreed to an arranged marriage. The only difference was that he didn't know it at the time. He was what like 22 when Juhi so called died? He was just a kid. What he felt for her was that first love, and he elevated it way too much in his mind because of her demise. He was willing to move "forward" with his life for the sake of his family. But this time he won't, not for anyone. That shows this love is not one to move forward or move on from.
We also have to understand, Avni was his wife. He made the ultimate commitment to her. Neil didn't lose his girlfriend, he lost his wife. He is a widower! That is an "official" designation. He lost her in the most tragic way, when he was in the highest high of his love and it was totally cruel. Neil cannot be expected to be "Over" it ever! 5, 10, 15 it doesn't matter! You never get over the Love of your Life, and that is what Avni was to Neil and still is! Simple as that!
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