Hypothetically speaking ..what if ..

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Posted: 7 years ago
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What if mishti was really the child of Neil and Juhi was really "positive", Are khanna's right in asking juhi to move out of the country with such a small child ?
Wasn't Ashish accused of not standing up and not being the happy family to avni and Ayesha all this while in past ? Then how are Neil and khannas different from Ashish and mehtas ?

Was wondering this .. would love to hear your views

It's been long that I came to the forum .. following the show though .. loving how avni and Neil are together in all of this and loving vidyut too .. Karam is a great addition to the cast and Zain Aditi along with ensemble cast is rocking 👏

Am glad the track is moving ahead .. looking forward to future episodes

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Posted: 7 years ago
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The reason khannas especially sveta wants to send juhi far away is coz she thinks she is coming between her babies,avneil...everyone adores mishti and given circumstances they wud love to have her i guess.
Avni was never accpeted by daya family and ashish didnt stood up for her which is not case with mishti.neil stands up for her and even neil family loves mishti..wholw issue lies with juhi here IMO.
It may sound rude but its better juhi mishti going away then living with khannas...coz iits makss situation complicated for not juhi neil avni but also mishti...

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I hypothetically speaking...mishti is neils kid and juhi is +ive, I would still go with swetha asking Juhi to leave the country...because
1. safety...Canada is far and away from VRs eyes...and everyone including Neil and Avni thinks its safe.
2 Neil and avni love each other and they stand up for each other. With Aashish, i assume it was like Aashish loved Aysha but never stood up for her. Instead married someone else. He spoiled two lives(I have not watched that NK so not sure about the minute story lines, i just know the outline). You can not compare these two.IMO
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Of course there is a huge difference in both the situations.


In case of Ashish, he was in love with Ayesha. He got into a live-in relationship with her in full conscience. He was well aware of the existence of Avni & Aman when he got married to Neela. He abandoned them to please his mother. He abandoned his love & children on his own free will. He was never in love with Neela. He refused to accept Avni even though he was well aware of the fact that she is his daughter. He let the society call her illegitimate. He let her suffer for the mistake which she never committed. He was never able to live up to the promises he made to Ayesha & Avni.

In case of Neil, he was in love with Juhi. He thought she passed away in an accident. He held on to her memories for a long time & even left his MBA dreams and joined police force to bring a positive change in the society. Then he met Avni. Slowly and gradually he fell in love with her. He came to love every facet of her and completely moved on from Juhi. And when he is completely & madly in love with his wife, his first love whom he considered to be dead comes back. Though he is no more in love with her, he does everything to make sure that she is saved from the hell she was in & also gives shelter to her in his house. Then she claims that she has a child with him who is in Vidyut's custody. He didn't try to escape from his responsibility. He accepted the child as his and also saved her from the clutches of Vidyut. He is trying to give her a normal family. Also he is compassionate towards Juhi, and cares for her feelings. But that doesn't mean that he will leave his wife whom he loves so dearly, for her. Neil took charge of his responsibilities unlike Ashish.

Him sending her away from his life is right. If it was just Mishti, he could have adopted her along with Avni. Mishti could have lived with them. Avni is more than welcoming of her. But that is not the case with Juhi. He can't keep his ex in his house where he lives with his love. That would hurt Avni to no end. A man can't have two women in his life at a time. He can't let Avni go through the pain of watching Juhi with him on a daily basis. Also, though he is sending them away, he is not refusing to accept Mishti. He is ready to take care of her even if he is not present with her physically. He is letting Mishti go with Juhi because she has no one else in her life except Mishti. If he keeps Mishti with him and ask Juhi to leave, it will be separating a child from her mother. And Neil would never do that.


Coming to the family, Mehta family never accepted Avni. They always taunted her & termed her illegitimate. They were cruel towards her and tortured her to no end. They killed her mother and snatched her brother from her. They, along with her own father, sent her to jail accusing her to be her mother's murderer. Her grandmother tried to kill her multiple times.

Khanna family did no such thing. They are very loving towards Mishti and has accepted her as a part of their family. They are doing everything possible for her happiness. But yeah, they can't let Juhi & Mishti to stay with them forever. That would be injustice to Avni. They may be fine with keeping Mishti with them. But that would again be separating a mother from her child. And letting Juhi stay with them is not possible at all for the above mentioned reasons. So yeah, Khanna family is not wrong in sending Mishti & Juhi away.


Edited by Ashi3 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Phew! Such a long post.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hypothetically if mishti is Neils daughter only and if chuhi is positive then also she has to move on with mishti she cannot expect Neil to break his marriage with Avni abandoning her and accepting chuhi and mishti though Neil may have fatherly responsibility and love towards mishti he cannot compromise his life by leaving Avni and marrying chuhi for the sake of mishti none of them will be ultimately happy
True love is not with whom you can live for the rest of the life
But true love is when you can't live without person for the rest of the life
Neils love for chuhi has died long back it was in one way not true love
But Neil's love for Avni is matured he felt that soul mate connection only with Avni
Like Neil himself said once to bebe he was able to move on and live without chuhi but even the thought of losing Avni makes him go mad
So even if Avni leaves Neil forever Neil can never revive his dead feelings and love for chuhi he will always remain as Avni's Neil only which will affect one way or another mishti too
When parents are unhappy with each other how will they give the child happiness and for how long they can act and compromise for mishti
Avni has struggled her entire life she never had someone in her life whom she can never share who rightfully belongs to her in all sense Neil gave life to Avni's feelings and her desire to live a normal life he gave him something which no one ever gave her
A dream of living a happy family
Doesn't she deserve Neil after having given all this test for her love?
Doesn't she deserve a normal and happy family life?
So in any way the only fair and decision Neil could do is to take responsibility of mishti financially and emotionally apart from that he cannot play the role of husband to chuhi even for mishti sake
I believe avneil are soulmates made for each other thats why ultimately mishti is not Neil's daughter even the destiny doesn't want to seperate them put them apart make their lovestory incomplete
It's destiny's game that chuhi and Neil didn't had any physical relationship on that night when both of them were not in their senses
It's destiny's game that chuhi had to leave Neil despite his love for her was true
It's destiny's game that Neil met Avni fell more madly and deeply than ever for her
This proves that avneil are soulmates because lovers can be seperated but who can put two soulmates apart




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Posted: 7 years ago
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Thank you all for your responses and perspectives .. you helped me clear my thoughts
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: firsttimehere

Thank you all for your responses and perspectives .. you helped me clear my thoughts


You're welcome dear. The forum is meant for discussions. 😊 And this is the most peaceful forum I have seen in IF, where people share their views without hurting others.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ashi3


You're welcome dear. The forum is meant for discussions. 😊 And this is the most peaceful forum I have seen in IF, where people share their views without hurting others.

kisiki nazar na lage.touchwood😳

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