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Swarna

@swa6

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Posted: 7 years ago

Ashish and Ayesha were in love and they had Avni, their child! When Ashish's mother didn't agree to their marriage, Asish didn't have courage to go against her, Dayavanthi married him off to Neela, despite of Avni's umpteen attempts to stop the marriage.

but In that marriage, Ashish and Ayesha are lovers-pair. Neela is second woman, who shouldn't be there. Ofcourse it is circumstances that made her part of their lives, third person in Asish-Ayesha 's life.

Only if Ashish would have shown some courage, Ashish-Ayesha would have been living as a couple today, and Avni wouldn't have to face so many problems, being called as an 'illegal child'. She would have had a normal happy childhood, and her brother with her, loving her instead of plotting against her. Ofcourse he would have still plotted, but for her share of icecream, or tv remote and their mother's pampering rather than to kill her and hurt her where it hurts more!!

It is clear that NO ONE including Ashish, Ayesha, Avni, her brother, Neela (not even Dayawanthi in that matter😆) is happy because of this situation!

Unfortunately (or bcz of some people's deeds), Ayesha died and Neela is soo good that she loved Avni as her daughter. She dedicated her life for Avni, Avni is lucky in this way.

Time passed so quickly, that Avni grew up, now the young Avni got married to Neil and eventually fell in love with Neil, who seems to be reciprocating her love. But the twist comes now, that she gets to know unlike she is assuming she is not the first woman but second woman in Neil's life!

Neil- Juhi, were in love madly once, they even had a child... They got separated not because they fought or anything like that, they got separated because of some misconception that Juhi was died. But now they got to know Juhi is alive, and she even has child of their love!

Now, the situation turned in a way that Neil-Juhi and the baby fits the roles of Ashish-Ayesha&Avni, where Avni herself became the shadow of Neela(then third person of Ashish-Ayesha's lives).

While Avni herself believes(doubts) Neil didn't move on from Juhi in true sense, and she already knows Juhi never moved on, and when she got to know they even had a child...when she realized she became the third person now in Neil-Juhi-Baby's life...

What ideal decision she makes?

Of-course to leave them saying Javo jeelo apni jindagii😊...Because she never wants same mistake which spoiled 4 lives [Ashish-Ayesha-Avni & Neela] in past, to be repeated again that too because of her. She will not let another baby termed as 'illigal child of so n so' and been abused, harassed by society all over again, especially where she has the possibility to correct the situation and she can only do that!! By this decision, her life may again get spoiled. But according to her 3 other lives will get saved from spoiling, that is Neil, Juhi n the child. She can make this decision eventhough its so difficult for her, just to make sure other 3 people live happily. Afterall, She loves Neil and when she belives Neil was in love and be happy with Juhi, she will do it for his happiness if not for anyone else!

But no matter how similar the situation looks...We or Avni or Neil or anyone should realize one thing!

Neil is NOT in love with Juhi, his love and his happiness lies with Avni and Avni only!

Neil & Juhi were never married, yes! But Neil is not in this relationship with Avni forcefully, he is completely happy with Avni, accepted her as his life partner [unlike how she believes]

Neil has already moved on, and Juhi is the third person of their lives unlike how it looks!

At the same time, they should make sure the child/baby should be brought up carefully, with out having to face any problems, make sure the baby has normal childhood unlike Avni's. Because not all the children will have courage and bravery that Avni posses.

Having to face the biggest fear of their life, is so difficult...

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Well, I m Swarna, new to this forum, this is my first post here and I knew the story but not a regular viewer [I watch it sometimes] ...so if I have interpreted/written anything wrong, kindly forgive me 😊 Its just that I got intrigued by this situation in Naamkaran, hence posting my thoughts... Any response with your thought process, would be more than welcome! Thank you!

//Swa😊

Edited by swa6 - 7 years ago

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Nice post. Yes, Avni may feel at this point that she is "in the way". She is the next Neela. But she is not. Not to Neil.

But I for one won't blame Avni in any way. Some may feel she is being Mahaan, but I think she is just being a good person. A practical person. She is a "doer". If she feels she must do something she takes action. When she knew Juhi was alive and at RM, she did everything to get her out. She did it for Neil coz she thought Neil was not over Juhi, since he found out she was alive and he was devastated. Now the child. Juhi is depressed and Neil is in a tough spot. Most women would have walked out at this point. If this was Rhea she would have given Neil an ultimatum. Your ex and kid or me! But Avni is not like that. I feel because she is not like that, Neil has taken her and her support for granted.

In her shoes, I would do the same. She loves Neil, so for him, she will find the child. She doesn't want her fate to become the fate of this child. Ashish was in a large way to blame for what happened in his life with Ayesha and then his child. He should have stood against his Mother. Neela got brought into the fold but Ashish didn't love her! Here the difference is that Juhi is someone from Neil's past he thought was dead. He is in love with Avni, and he fell for her even before she had ANY feelings for him. The song "Ae Dil Hai Mushkil" was his song. It was HIS one-sided love for a long time. Avni didn't even know how she felt about him. She never even wanted to fall in love or get married. She married Neil only to complete her revenge on Daya. So this relationship very much "took over" for her. Not something she planned. Neela was the selfless woman who loved Avni after her parents were out of the picture. But Avni does not have to be Neela, in fact she is not! That much is clear, as Neil wants her not Juhi.

But I also agree. The child deserves a good life as she is in no way to blame for all this. But just to give a child security, you do not need to live in a loveless marriage, which is what Neil marrying Juhi would be. Because that love was a long time ago, from a different guy. A more immature guy. Neil is not that guy anymore. Even if he wanted to, he cant make himself love Juhi like that again. He cares about her, is her friend, is supportive of her etc. But one cannot revive a dead love affair. Especially when you fell in love again, and this time much harder than you did the last time. Neil cant get over Avni even if he tried. So that ship has sailed. Now the task at hand is for Avni to understand her role in Neil's life, for NEIL to make her understand, and for Juhi to accept it as well. (which I think she has, even though it doesn't look like it right now). A child requires two parents and even a loving family. But a child does not require two people living together forcibly, and unhappy, just to give them security. Because a child knows very well when the atmosphere around them is not a happy one. One day she will know why and then she will just be messed up. So for the child, Neil and Avni parting and Neil marrying Juhi is a VERY bad idea.

But as per the cast there is a "Twist". It is possible Neil may not be the Father. But I am not sure of that totally at this stage. Let's wait and watch!

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
Nice post. Yes, Avni may feel at this point that she is "in the way". She is the next Neela. But she is not. Not to Neil.

But I for one won't blame Avni in any way. Some may feel she is being Mahaan, but I think she is just being a good person. A practical person. She is a "doer". If she feels she must do something she takes action. When she knew Juhi was alive and at RM, she did everything to get her out. She did it for Neil coz she thought Neil was not over Juhi, since he found out she was alive and he was devastated. Now the child. Juhi is depressed and Neil is in a tough spot. Most women would have walked out at this point. If this was Rhea she would have given Neil an ultimatum. Your ex and kid or me! But Avni is not like that. I feel because she is not like that, Neil has taken her and her support for granted.

In her shoes, I would do the same. She loves Neil, so for him, she will find the child. She doesn't want her fate to become the fate of this child. Ashish was in a large way to blame for what happened in his life with Ayesha and then his child. He should have stood against his Mother. Neela got brought into the fold but Ashish didn't love her! Here the difference is that Juhi is someone from Neil's past he thought was dead. He is in love with Avni, and he fell for her even before she had ANY feelings for him. The song "Ae Dil Hai Mushkil" was his song. It was HIS one-sided love for a long time. Avni didn't even know how she felt about him. She never even wanted to fall in love or get married. She married Neil only to complete her revenge on Daya. So this relationship very much "took over" for her. Not something she planned. Neela was the selfless woman who loved Avni after her parents were out of the picture. But Avni does not have to be Neela, in fact she is not! That much is clear, as Neil wants her not Juhi.

But I also agree. The child deserves a good life as she is in no way to blame for all this. But just to give a child security, you do not need to live in a loveless marriage, which is what Neil marrying Juhi would be. Because that love was a long time ago, from a different guy. A more immature guy. Neil is not that guy anymore. Even if he wanted to, he cant make himself love Juhi like that again. He cares about her, is her friend, is supportive of her etc. But one cannot revive a dead love affair. Especially when you fell in love again, and this time much harder than you did the last time. Neil cant get over Avni even if he tried. So that ship has sailed. Now the task at hand is for Avni to understand her role in Neil's life, for NEIL to make her understand, and for Juhi to accept it as well. (which I think she has, even though it doesn't look like it right now). A child requires two parents and even a loving family. But a child does not require two people living together forcibly, and unhappy, just to give them security. Because a child knows very well when the atmosphere around them is not a happy one. One day she will know why and then she will just be messed up. So for the child, Neil and Avni parting and Neil marrying Juhi is a VERY bad idea.

But as per the cast there is a "Twist". It is possible Neil may not be the Father. But I am not sure of that totally at this stage. Let's wait and watch!

bang on post.👏

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Swarna

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: lenageorge
Superb post 👍🏼
Welcome to the forum

Thank you😊

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Swarna

@swa6

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
Nice post. Yes, Avni may feel at this point that she is "in the way". She is the next Neela. But she is not. Not to Neil.

But I for one won't blame Avni in any way. Some may feel she is being Mahaan, but I think she is just being a good person. A practical person. She is a "doer". If she feels she must do something she takes action. When she knew Juhi was alive and at RM, she did everything to get her out. She did it for Neil coz she thought Neil was not over Juhi, since he found out she was alive and he was devastated. Now the child. Juhi is depressed and Neil is in a tough spot. Most women would have walked out at this point. If this was Rhea she would have given Neil an ultimatum. Your ex and kid or me! But Avni is not like that. I feel because she is not like that, Neil has taken her and her support for granted.

In her shoes, I would do the same. She loves Neil, so for him, she will find the child. She doesn't want her fate to become the fate of this child. Ashish was in a large way to blame for what happened in his life with Ayesha and then his child. He should have stood against his Mother. Neela got brought into the fold but Ashish didn't love her! Here the difference is that Juhi is someone from Neil's past he thought was dead. He is in love with Avni, and he fell for her even before she had ANY feelings for him. The song "Ae Dil Hai Mushkil" was his song. It was HIS one-sided love for a long time. Avni didn't even know how she felt about him. She never even wanted to fall in love or get married. She married Neil only to complete her revenge on Daya. So this relationship very much "took over" for her. Not something she planned. Neela was the selfless woman who loved Avni after her parents were out of the picture. But Avni does not have to be Neela, in fact she is not! That much is clear, as Neil wants her not Juhi.

But I also agree. The child deserves a good life as she is in no way to blame for all this. But just to give a child security, you do not need to live in a loveless marriage, which is what Neil marrying Juhi would be. Because that love was a long time ago, from a different guy. A more immature guy. Neil is not that guy anymore. Even if he wanted to, he cant make himself love Juhi like that again. He cares about her, is her friend, is supportive of her etc. But one cannot revive a dead love affair. Especially when you fell in love again, and this time much harder than you did the last time. Neil cant get over Avni even if he tried. So that ship has sailed. Now the task at hand is for Avni to understand her role in Neil's life, for NEIL to make her understand, and for Juhi to accept it as well. (which I think she has, even though it doesn't look like it right now). A child requires two parents and even a loving family. But a child does not require two people living together forcibly, and unhappy, just to give them security. Because a child knows very well when the atmosphere around them is not a happy one. One day she will know why and then she will just be messed up. So for the child, Neil and Avni parting and Neil marrying Juhi is a VERY bad idea.

But as per the cast there is a "Twist". It is possible Neil may not be the Father. But I am not sure of that totally at this stage. Let's wait and watch!

Thanks😊

And thanks for sharing ur thoughts as well..yes no matter how much similar situation looks, Avni is not n never neela...

And again, taking the recent developments into account, Neil should be the one who takes the next step towards their together Ness... because Avni doesnt Even know he s Only loving her.

In the whole process, neither Juhi nor baby get injustice...I hope Juhi should understand Neil n move on...while I would like to see a nice normal childhood for the baby too...

Actually I could just say, U voiced out my opinion😊😉

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Sonali

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Posted: 7 years ago

you made a great post! so true when someone is missing in your life for so long you naturally move on especially if you believe the other person is gone forever, Neil loves Avni, he can co-parent Mishiti but he should stay with his true love Avni

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Swarna

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: adventure_gurl
you made a great post! so true when someone is missing in your life for so long you naturally move on especially if you believe the other person is gone forever, Neil loves Avni, he can co-parent Mishiti but he should stay with his true love Avni

Thank you😊 and what you said is true!

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