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Posted: 7 years ago
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So beautiful ! Your GIFs are so dreamy . And your descriptions are icing on the cake . It made it even more magical and dreamy . Only you could make such scenes even more beautiful . Always a fan of your review
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: dsupriya

@Naj what is your view on Avni's insecurity as shown on OLV where she speaks with Shweta. Would love to hear your views on it.



Hi Supriya, sorry for the late reply, I needed to rewatch the OLV first. Actually I don't know from where this insecurity came after the rescue mission, I mean after what Neil told her in the rang mahal and all what they went through there and how they were each other's shield, I don't see why any doubt would be left in her mind. When a man looks at you lovingly and tells you : ""Avni main vada karta hoon tumse, ab main kabhi tumse alag nahi honga aur nahi tume khudse alag hone donga , koi bhi dard, koi bhi takleef nahi hone donga,kisiko bhi tume muthse alag nahi karne donga main, ye mera vada hai tumse !"" what is that supposed to mean?!! Obviously it means you are the one he wants, it's not like he will tell you this while he yearns to be with someone else!!

I wish in the video she used the past tense as in "Neil Juhi se pyar karta tha" and not "pyar karta hai", in the kitchen scene even before the rang mahal scenes, she used the past tense she said when he says how much he loved Juhi she feels pain, not when he loves Juhi!

All this being said, I feel she is just being jealous, She hoped he would ask her to come with them. I mean she is samajdar enough to know that Neil and Juhi needed privacy to close once and for all the past chapter but she still felt jealous it's normal!! she is just being possessive of him! She is behaving like a woman in love! I don't think it's her insecurity but rather normal type of jealousy!

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Posted: 7 years ago
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As always beautiful post! It's a joy reading your writing n capture of moments...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshisfan



Hi Supriya, sorry for the late reply, I needed to rewatch the OLV first. Actually I don't know from where this insecurity came after the rescue mission, I mean after what Neil told her in the rang mahal and all what they went through there and how they were each other's shield, I don't see why any doubt would be left in her mind. When a man looks at you lovingly and tells you : ""Avni main vada karta hoon tumse, ab main kabhi tumse alag nahi honga aur nahi tume khudse alag hone donga , koi bhi dard, koi bhi takleef nahi hone donga,kisiko bhi tume muthse alag nahi karne donga main, ye mera vada hai tumse !"" what is that supposed to mean?!! Obviously it means you are the one he wants, it's not like tell you this while he yearns to be with someone else!!

I wish in the video she used the past tense as in Neil Juhi se pyar karta tha and not pyar karta hai, in the kitchen scene even before the rang mahal scenes, she used the past tense she said when he says how much he loved Juhi she feels pain, not when he loves Juhi!

All this being said, I feel she is just being jealous, She hoped he would ask her to come with them. I mean she is samajdar enough to know that Neil and Juhi needed privacy to close once and for all the past chapter but she still felt jealous it's normal!! she is just being possessive of him! She is behaving like a woman in love! I don't think it's her insecurity but rather normal type of jealousy!


Thanks Naj you you may be right it is her jealousy to be excluded. And I think Shwetha also felt that why he excluded her in meeting. That is what bothered me that how can she be insecure when Neil made such promises. And in a way she is not if she can allow him to go alone for privacy. Like you I am surprised she used present tense and not past tense.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshisfan



Hi Supriya, sorry for the late reply, I needed to rewatch the OLV first. Actually I don't know from where this insecurity came after the rescue mission, I mean after what Neil told her in the rang mahal and all what they went through there and how they were each other's shield, I don't see why any doubt would be left in her mind. When a man looks at you lovingly and tells you : ""Avni main vada karta hoon tumse, ab main kabhi tumse alag nahi honga aur nahi tume khudse alag hone donga , koi bhi dard, koi bhi takleef nahi hone donga,kisiko bhi tume muthse alag nahi karne donga main, ye mera vada hai tumse !"" what is that supposed to mean?!! Obviously it means you are the one he wants, it's not like he will tell you this while he yearns to be with someone else!!

I wish in the video she used the past tense as in "Neil Juhi se pyar karta tha" and not "pyar karta hai", in the kitchen scene even before the rang mahal scenes, she used the past tense she said when he says how much he loved Juhi she feels pain, not when he loves Juhi!

All this being said, I feel she is just being jealous, She hoped he would ask her to come with them. I mean she is samajdar enough to know that Neil and Juhi needed privacy to close once and for all the past chapter but she still felt jealous it's normal!! she is just being possessive of him! She is behaving like a woman in love! I don't think it's her insecurity but rather normal type of jealousy!


Absolutely Agree with you Naj!!

I believe this is her insecurity talking. Every woman would go through the insecurity when it comes to her husbands/boyfriend ex. Yes! Neil promised her the togetherness! Neil promised her everything. Its not that she doesn't remember anything. But a part of you would still always question whether you are good enough for your husband! Whether your husband would love you the same way he loved his ex. Even though they both know they LOVE each other! The confession has not yet happened. Indirectly yes! By calling each other their life and promising each other. But directly, telling each other I LOVE YOU has not happened yet. And thats why its her insecurity and as you said jealousy that comes into place. Even though she is far away from her emotionally vulnerable state, a part of her would still be vulnerable and scared to lose the love of her life who is so precious to her.

Avni as a person has come a very long way. Yes! She is not that emotionally vulnerable person anymore. But yes there is always a part of her which will be scared of losing him. There will be small part of her which will still be vulnerable and its going to take a while to get rid of that (whether or not Neil is there with her or not but we all know he will be).


Poor girl always have had the bad luck with 'what if' scenarios. Until Neil came in her life, she has always faced problem and things would never work according to her plans. The "what if" scenarios has played a huge role in her life. And hence, even though she is healed, she still has those scars which would scare her and remind her of fears. Wound can be healed faster. But scars take a long time. And I believe, even after Neil and Avni are together, there will still be scenarios where this poor girl will be haunted by them. More than half of her life she spent like that. We just cannot expect her to be healed completely. Its a process

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: .IamShonali.


Absolutely Agree with you Naj!!

I believe this is her insecurity talking. Every woman would go through the insecurity when it comes to her husbands/boyfriend ex. Yes! Neil promised her the togetherness! Neil promised her everything. Its not that she doesn't remember anything. But a part of you would still always question whether you are good enough for your husband! Whether your husband would love you the same way he loved his ex. Even though they both know they LOVE each other! The confession has not yet happened. Indirectly yes! By calling each other their life and promising each other. But directly, telling each other I LOVE YOU has not happened yet. And thats why its her insecurity and as you said jealousy that comes into place. Even though she is far away from her emotionally vulnerable state, a part of her would still be vulnerable and scared to lose the love of her life who is so precious to her.

Avni as a person has come a very long way. Yes! She is not that emotionally vulnerable person anymore. But yes there is always a part of her which will be scared of losing him. There will be small part of her which will still be vulnerable and its going to take a while to get rid of that (whether or not Neil is there with her or not but we all know he will be).


Poor girl always have had the bad luck with 'what if' scenarios. Until Neil came in her life, she has always faced problem and things would never work according to her plans. The "what if" scenarios has played a huge role in her life. And hence, even though she is healed, she still has those scars which would scare her and remind her of fears. Wound can be healed faster. But scars take a long time. And I believe, even after Neil and Avni are together, there will still be scenarios where this poor girl will be haunted by them. More than half of her life she spent like that. We just cannot expect her to be healed completely. Its a process



Beautifully written Shona! 👏🤗
I agree being a woman who went through a lot of disappointments in her life, she would still have this small vulnerability when it comes to losing her loved ones especially Neil who is better than all what she could have dreamt of, it's her dream like reality, so despite him being a gem of a person, despite her trust on him and him always being up to her expectations, she would still fear losing him. The dearer a person is, the bigger the fear of losing them is!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: .IamShonali.


Absolutely Agree with you Naj!!

I believe this is her insecurity talking. Every woman would go through the insecurity when it comes to her husbands/boyfriend ex. Yes! Neil promised her the togetherness! Neil promised her everything. Its not that she doesn't remember anything. But a part of you would still always question whether you are good enough for your husband! Whether your husband would love you the same way he loved his ex. Even though they both know they LOVE each other! The confession has not yet happened. Indirectly yes! By calling each other their life and promising each other. But directly, telling each other I LOVE YOU has not happened yet. And thats why its her insecurity and as you said jealousy that comes into place. Even though she is far away from her emotionally vulnerable state, a part of her would still be vulnerable and scared to lose the love of her life who is so precious to her.

Avni as a person has come a very long way. Yes! She is not that emotionally vulnerable person anymore. But yes there is always a part of her which will be scared of losing him. There will be small part of her which will still be vulnerable and its going to take a while to get rid of that (whether or not Neil is there with her or not but we all know he will be).


Poor girl always have had the bad luck with 'what if' scenarios. Until Neil came in her life, she has always faced problem and things would never work according to her plans. The "what if" scenarios has played a huge role in her life. And hence, even though she is healed, she still has those scars which would scare her and remind her of fears. Wound can be healed faster. But scars take a long time. And I believe, even after Neil and Avni are together, there will still be scenarios where this poor girl will be haunted by them. More than half of her life she spent like that. We just cannot expect her to be healed completely. Its a process


Lovely post...Aptly captured Avni emotions n vulnerability...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshisfan



Beautifully written Shona! 👏🤗
I agree being a woman who went through a lot of disappointments in her life, she would still have this small vulnerability when it comes to losing her loved ones especially Neil who is better than all what she could have dreamt of, it's her dream like reality, so despite him being a gem of a person, despite her trust on him and him always being up to her expectations, she would still fear losing him. The dearer a person is, the bigger the fear of losing them is!


Haha my twinny doll! You explained my point even more beautifully!!

As usual, we are always on the same page <3
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Posted: 7 years ago
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great post

avneil ka milan bohat khass tha that
their care for each other unsaid words signals hug their clothes everthings was just perfect

bas thodi editing or achchi honi chahiye thi
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshisfan



Beautifully written Shona! 👏🤗
I agree being a woman who went through a lot of disappointments in her life, she would still have this small vulnerability when it comes to losing her loved ones especially Neil who is better than all what she could have dreamt of, it's her dream like reality, so despite him being a gem of a person, despite her trust on him and him always being up to her expectations, she would still fear losing him. The dearer a person is, the bigger the fear of losing them is!

Can't agree better with bother you naj and shonali. I think it has also to do with fact the male idols in her life were never really idols her Dad who is generally the first idol of how a life partner or husband should be was one who did not live upto the trust. He also betrayed her multiple times and last straw being getting her arrested. There was one Alladin who was killed but he was friend who was guided by her not whom she looked upto. And to top it she had been ridiculed humiliated insulted and her worth was degraded in childhood by many including her dad that she has low self worth. So yes these childhood scars will take awhile to heal and it will be slow process. Am glad CVS are being realistic and taking slow.
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