Let children be children...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey ppl 😊
I am just gonna be blunt n realistic here, I have been wanting to post this from a real long time ie the first or second episode, but somehow just got prolonged & I'am hoping u guys are not gonna mix up the actor's & characters.
I have MAJOR, MAJOR ISSUES with Asha & Ashish , What kinda sick parents are these two 🤢, especially the mom 🤢 Mother is someone who has to put her agenda & priorities aside for a child. When a child is born, the child becomes the top most priority in a parent's life. I'am not asking them to stop romancing & shit... In the very first episode Avni was upset & sad n these two decide to just play her n then do each other's tarrif . Kaise log hai... Asha saw how her daughter was all sad yet went in dolled up cause her "secret pati dev" was gonna visit. 👏

Another major issue ... Asha once was highly sad & it was Avni who cried her a songy, wiped her tears and put her to sleep ?? How old is Avni 8-11 years old ?? I thoroughly understand a parent , a mother , a father can have issues, they have every right to be sad... But that's not the age a child should be comforting her pathetic coward mother!! It's a mother's duty to put up a bright smile and make her lil child happy so that in few years when she grows up she is gonna be strong herself!!
*** now I hope der is no idiot who would have watched that & expected their lil girl to comfort her *** since some part of the audience look up to shows / movies for motivation .

And when Ashish had taken a step to tell his mom about them, asha goes nahi rahene do 🥱, take ur time. Well there u coward, just cause u & ur husband decided to stay in wraps about ur relationship doesn't mean the child will be ok , she needed a identity , she needed to prove to her friends that yes she isn't a illegitimate child , that she has a father & yes she wante to SHOW OFF her father to the world!!

Ashish !! The main culprit, the root cause of everyone's misery!! I will not say he cheated Asha, cause that woman is no less than him or even worse. ( I can't stand mothers who prioritize their husband over their lil child) He not only destroyed lil Avni's life but is even destroying Leela's ( Neela I forget her name ) life... the poor-thing asked him if he was involved with anyone n with what audacity & blatant dishonesty he mentioned he was just kidding.
Everytime he visited them (basically it was his wife) all he did was praise his wife n look for romance. God damnit ur lil child is battling identity crisis, she has openly mentioned it to you, u just pacify n go back to romancing ??Sicko!! why give life than??

In last night's episode Asha mentions, Avni is their daughter n she will understand he couldn't make it. W*F woman!!! W*F !! She is a child , why effing lie to her?? why lead n give her expectation?? so dat aage jaake she becomes someone who can't trust anyone ? who doubts everyone's motive ?? and have trust issues ?? This woman I tell u!!! 😡 angers me more den ashish!! It hurts to see a mom expect her lil child to suffer because of their effing mistake!!
'''' Asha after getting to know about Ashish having to marry neela might finally make avni her priority or at least give her importance, but I hope Avni realizes how cunning n what a coward her mother is & ignores her!! 😛 ''''

And yeah am not even gonna mention Ashish's mother... The culprits are Asha n Ashish only !!!
In all this its lil Avni n Leela who are gonna be destroyed!! I feel sad for both (tho I do not like leela's OTT character, she does not deserve this)
It would be wrong if Avni fights against her grandmother n accuses her for not having a "normal family" , she should know the real culprits are her parents!!
Parents like Asha & Ashish should not bring a child into the world, when they cant take adequate responsibility !!
Come what may Asha will never have my sympathies!!! She is a terrible, terrible mother!!!

PS: It was a treat to watch lil Avni jump around , have her bf etc while playing , riding her cycle. That's how kids should be!!
I wish after leap, when it's time for shaadi 😆Ali & She should get married ... I dont want some rich, stern, aloof looner to make it to her identity.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Look I have seen people on the forum blaming Aashish continuously for everything going on.But the fact is that Asha and Aashsish both are equally responsible for this mess.Both had agreed to this relationship.It was not like Aashish had forced Asha to enter into relationship.Yes I agree that over the past few weeks Aashsish has screwed up a lot with Avni's sports Day and getting engaged to Neela and all that.But it both of them who are responsible.

The only person who is getting the miseries is Avni and Avni alone.Bullies can be harsh to you.And Avni is very strong but everything has a limit.The poor child has so many questions and no one is willing to answer them.My point is children whose parents are in these cases never ever remain children they grow up before age.

And also along with Asha and Aashish the person who is responsible for getting Avni in this state is Dayaben Mehta her own grandmother.I understand she might have some unresolved issues of past but that doesn't mean that you go on saying "that who hamare dushman hai".I mean seriously...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey you, where have I mentioned that it's only ashish who is responsible? In fact I have blamed asha more, tho I have clearly mentioned it's cause of "them" lil avni is suffering.
If ashish messed up, Asha has always covered up for him... Makin her more accountable cause she is constantly shielding him & expecting her lil daughter to understand!
Kids r kids man, they don't deserve to suffer is what I meant.

I will not blame the grandmother for avni's pain & miseries... She has only come into the picture now, what were these two doing all these years!! YEARS!!
Its not like the first time avni's father has missed her school event n not the first time her mother has tried to play it cool.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: VintageWine

Hey ppl 😊

I am just gonna be blunt n realistic here, I have been wanting to post this from a real long time ie the first or second episode, but somehow just got prolonged & I'am hoping u guys are not gonna mix up the actor's & characters.
I have MAJOR, MAJOR ISSUES with Asha & Ashish , What kinda sick parents are these two 🤢, especially the mom 🤢 Mother is someone who has to put her agenda & priorities aside for a child. When a child is born, the child becomes the top most priority in a parent's life. I'am not asking them to stop romancing & shit... In the very first episode Avni was upset & sad n these two decide to just play her n then do each other's tarrif . Kaise log hai... Asha saw how her daughter was all sad yet went in dolled up cause her "secret pati dev" was gonna visit. 👏

Another major issue ... Asha once was highly sad & it was Avni who cried her a songy, wiped her tears and put her to sleep ?? How old is Avni 8-11 years old ?? I thoroughly understand a parent , a mother , a father can have issues, they have every right to be sad... But that's not the age a child should be comforting her pathetic coward mother!! It's a mother's duty to put up a bright smile and make her lil child happy so that in few years when she grows up she is gonna be strong herself!!
*** now I hope der is no idiot who would have watched that & expected their lil girl to comfort her *** since some part of the audience look up to shows / movies for motivation .

And when Ashish had taken a step to tell his mom about them, asha goes nahi rahene do 🥱, take ur time. Well there u coward, just cause u & ur husband decided to stay in wraps about ur relationship doesn't mean the child will be ok , she needed a identity , she needed to prove to her friends that yes she isn't a illegitimate child , that she has a father & yes she wante to SHOW OFF her father to the world!!

Ashish !! The main culprit, the root cause of everyone's misery!! I will not say he cheated Asha, cause that woman is no less than him or even worse. ( I can't stand mothers who prioritize their husband over their lil child) He not only destroyed lil Avni's life but is even destroying Leela's ( Neela I forget her name ) life... the poor-thing asked him if he was involved with anyone n with what audacity & blatant dishonesty he mentioned he was just kidding.
Everytime he visited them (basically it was his wife) all he did was praise his wife n look for romance. God damnit ur lil child is battling identity crisis, she has openly mentioned it to you, u just pacify n go back to romancing ??Sicko!! why give life than??

In last night's episode Asha mentions, Avni is their daughter n she will understand he couldn't make it. W*F woman!!! W*F !! She is a child , why effing lie to her?? why lead n give her expectation?? so dat aage jaake she becomes someone who can't trust anyone ? who doubts everyone's motive ?? and have trust issues ?? This woman I tell u!!! 😡 angers me more den ashish!! It hurts to see a mom expect her lil child to suffer because of their effing mistake!!
'''' Asha after getting to know about Ashish having to marry neela might finally make avni her priority or at least give her importance, but I hope Avni realizes how cunning n what a coward her mother is & ignores her!! 😛 ''''

And yeah am not even gonna mention Ashish's mother... The culprits are Asha n Ashish only !!!
In all this its lil Avni n Leela who are gonna be destroyed!! I feel sad for both (tho I do not like leela's OTT character, she does not deserve this)
It would be wrong if Avni fights against her grandmother n accuses her for not having a "normal family" , she should know the real culprits are her parents!!
Parents like Asha & Ashish should not bring a child into the world, when they cant take adequate responsibility !!
Come what may Asha will never have my sympathies!!! She is a terrible, terrible mother!!!

PS: It was a treat to watch lil Avni jump around , have her bf etc while playing , riding her cycle. That's how kids should be!!
I wish after leap, when it's time for shaadi 😆Ali & She should get married ... I dont want some rich, stern, aloof looner to make it to her identity.



completely agree.
I have seen men like Ashish, coward, selfish, cant take a stand for themselves or for their partners. and just be mama's boy taking situations for granted.
But a mother like Asha is terrible to watch. Its pathetic to see her sickening actions to her own kid.
Why give birth when you cant handle kids properly.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kinny_ranvir



completely agree.
I have seen men like Ashish, coward, selfish, cant take a stand for themselves or for their partners. and just be mama's boy taking situations for granted.
But a mother like Asha is terrible to watch. Its pathetic to see her sickening actions to her own kid.
Why give birth when you cant handle kids properly.


IKR, worst is how she shields him.
Just realised I have a very long rant above. 😆
Thanks for reading & replying. 😊😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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ashish has never told his mom about his relationship & kid to his for 11 years which goes on to show that he indeed is a coward...from the promos, even i was thinking why should a kid try to pacify her mother?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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True, y should a lil kid pacify her mothe and sing a lullaby to her...ish !! I hate Asha. She is least bothered about Avni. I mean does this woman even know tgat her kid is being bullied. What is this woman trying to prove. Is this how u give peace of mind to a man. There was an episode where she was thinking to herself "i hope avni's stubborness doesnt add to ashish's troubles" like WTH was that ! Ashish's troubles ? What trouble is the oig in? He has to tell his crazy mom that she bloody well accept the fact that he is married n has a 11-yr old kid n another on the way. If she throws him out of the house for this, then so be it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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CVs, at least please show Asha giving a tight slap to Ashish when he reveals abt his engagement. Please dont show a dtupid, pathetic scene where both of them r crying and hugging each other. Makes me puke !
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Meena_

ashish has never told his mom about his relationship & kid to his for 11 years which goes on to show that he indeed is a coward...from the promos, even i was thinking why should a kid try to pacify her mother?


Exactly, This is wrong on so many levels!! And worst part is some idiot from the audience would take inspiration from it !!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: smit123

True, y should a lil kid pacify her mothe and sing a lullaby to her...ish !! I hate Asha. She is least bothered about Avni. I mean does this woman even know tgat her kid is being bullied. What is this woman trying to prove. Is this how u give peace of mind to a man. There was an episode where she was thinking to herself "i hope avni's stubborness doesnt add to ashish's troubles" like WTH was that ! Ashish's troubles ? What trouble is the oig in? He has to tell his crazy mom that she bloody well accept the fact that he is married n has a 11-yr old kid n another on the way. If she throws him out of the house for this, then so be it.



She herself is bulling her what she has done to avni is mental abuse, and that was clearly visible in today's epi ... Avni is wise enough, smart enough to know the truth. Unfortunately ppl like Avni r d ones suffer from mental trauma, Asha & Ashish types are just gonna be like it's ok forget it.

Bold2 : 😡 this is the reason I will never ever sympathize with this woman, never.


Bold3: Yeah exactly!! Be a man for once!!!
Edited by VintageWine - 8 years ago

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