Biradari vs Bheed - Ones choice to make a Better World

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Excellent Comparison....👏👏👏

and my long post cause this one is such a important topic to discuss.

Your circle is what supports you and the ones who cant they are just the crowd.

And in that list ill add relatives at the top... the closest ones, the blood relatives who had the mask all the time when you were The Ship rocking the life but the moment Ship faces the turbulence those relatives that so called closest people are the first one to leave your side...

Jab jahaj dubta hai to sabse pahle chuhe bhagte hai.

And very same thing happened with HP but am so so happy that his younger brother is still his support system, even shouted on his loud mouth wife, still holding onto him when HP is at its most vulberable state. Am so proud of him today.. bhagwan aisa Chacha har kisi ko de, every kid deserves a Chacha like him... and every elder brother deserves a younger bro like him.

Now the Biradari... wo to waise bhi hamesha bheed hi hoti hai... cause agar aap khush honge to naak bhau sikodenge, jalenge, peeth peeche baate banayenge ke kaise you dont deserve to be successful, you lack this n that... and then when you are the happiest abt your achievement they would pin point that 1 thing that you cant have or do as per society forgetting rest of 99 you have done perfectly.

Its so difficult to find a circle thats actually your own, that can feel proud more than you do for your achievements, that can have your back no matter what the situation is, and then when you stumble be the first one catch you....

And i always share with others if you cant find that circle for yourself when you were struggling alone, crying, praying and hoping someone would show up, then please at least become that circle for someone else, lend your hand to someone struggling, so that they can have a support when life is rough for them.

So this cycle can continue to make the world a beautiful place full of people supporting each other instead of closing doors on others faces.

Biradari viradri pe mujhe koyi interest nahi hein. Mushkil ghadi mein saath dene ke liye sirf apne hote hein. Kabhi kabhi apne bhi nahi hote, akele bilkul akele saare museebatein jhelne padte hein. Ek waqt Aisa lagta hein kee zindagi saare raste khatam kee aapke aage aur bhagwan bhi shayad aapki naa suna ho. Tab ladna hein akele , lad ladkar aap mazboot ho jawogi. Yeh biradari viradri aapki ladayi mein aapka saath kabhi nahi deta. Majboori kee wajah se yeh joh rishtedaaron ko jhelne kee kismat hoti hein naa yeh sahi maayne mein hamare andar kee taaqat ke liye Agni pariksha khade kar dete hein. Aag mein jalna toh humein hein, par jalkar bhi hum itne shaktishali hote hein kee abhi tak zindagi jee rahe hein. Isske har utar chadaw mein jee rahe hein. Telly , iske aage kuch nahi keh pawungi. Thanks for this post.

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

Disclaimer- Not related to ViDev

Excellent Comparison....👏👏👏

and my long post cause this one is such a important topic to discuss.

Your circle is what supports you and the ones who cant they are just the crowd.

And in that list ill add relatives at the top... the closest ones, the blood relatives who had the mask all the time when you were The Ship rocking the life but the moment Ship faces the turbulence those relatives that so called closest people are the first one to leave your side...

Jab jahaj dubta hai to sabse pahle chuhe bhagte hai.

Neha: So aptly said, Telly! It's a societal trait; hence every language has an idiom based on it. Some way or the other Each one of us have experienced this.

And very same thing happened with HP but am so so happy that his younger brother is still his support system, even shouted on his loud mouth wife, still holding onto him when HP is at its most vulberable state. Am so proud of him today.. bhagwan aisa Chacha har kisi ko de, every kid deserves a Chacha like him... and every elder brother deserves a younger bro like him.

Oh yes! That was a big character change! Maybe the actor got bored of just making big eyes and nodding with his wife w/o any dialogue. Chacha's character had no depth whatsoever till now. But it's pleasing to see him standing up for his brother and niece.

And Oh yes! Tere muh mein ghee shakkar (Teri favorite dish). Chacha log aise bahot rarely hote hain.

Now the Biradari... wo to waise bhi hamesha bheed hi hoti hai... cause agar aap khush honge to naak bhau sikodenge, jalenge, peeth peeche baate banayenge ke kaise you dont deserve to be successful, you lack this n that... and then when you are the happiest abt your achievement they would pin point that 1 thing that you cant have or do as per society forgetting rest of 99 you have done perfectly.

Oh yes! Jealousy aisi ki inki jalati hui najar humaare sukh ko kaanta laga de. And their words "Yeh sab hone se kya faayada, voh toh nahi na tumhare paas"

Dev gave the perfect wordict, Bheed".... but it becomes difficult ignoring their acts.

Its so difficult to find a circle thats actually your own, that can feel proud more than you do for your achievements, that can have your back no matter what the situation is, and then when you stumble be the first one catch you...."

"That defines Family"

And i always share with others if you cant find that circle for yourself when you were struggling alone, crying, praying and hoping someone would show up, then please at least become that circle for someone else, lend your hand to someone struggling, so that they can have a support when life is rough for them.

So well said! 👏👏Be the change, you want to bring!

So this cycle can continue to make the world a beautiful place full of people supporting each other instead of closing doors on others faces.

HP's acting was OTT, but the scene had depth in writing. And when Dev appeared, he nailed it!

Enjoyed reading your write-up and then discussing it with inline commenting.

Originally posted by: Revutty

Biradari viradri pe mujhe koyi interest nahi hein. Mushkil ghadi mein saath dene ke liye sirf apne hote hein. Kabhi kabhi apne bhi nahi hote, akele bilkul akele saare museebatein jhelne padte hein. Ek waqt Aisa lagta hein kee zindagi saare raste khatam kee aapke aage aur bhagwan bhi shayad aapki naa suna ho. Tab ladna hein akele , lad ladkar aap mazboot ho jawogi. Yeh biradari viradri aapki ladayi mein aapka saath kabhi nahi deta. Majboori kee wajah se yeh joh rishtedaaron ko jhelne kee kismat hoti hein naa yeh sahi maayne mein hamare andar kee taaqat ke liye Agni pariksha khade kar dete hein. Aag mein jalna toh humein hein, par jalkar bhi hum itne shaktishali hote hein kee abhi tak zindagi jee rahe hein. Isske har utar chadaw mein jee rahe hein. Telly , iske aage kuch nahi keh pawungi. Thanks for this post.

Poora agree, Revu!🤗

What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger!

Bold: Bhagwan apne andar hai! Vahi toh hai , jo iss agnipariksha mein apni taakat hai!

I love the lyrics of this song!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jAUSF4_ygJg

Good writeup Telly

And it is fact also

I think bahut kum log hote hain jo aapko bure waqt mein support karte hain and my personal experience is kabhi kabhi koi bhi support nahi karta you just need to fight alone

Isiliye i always feel ki ye biradari aur chaar log wali baat bilkul useless hai

And you are right atleast humko ready rehna chahiye ki kisi k mushkil waqt mein usko support kare agar sab aisa sochenge to koi kabhi akela nahi padega

A big sigh telly as it's a topic on which I can end all 150 pages alone...

People are so judgemental that I want to pop out their brain from their nostrils just with the pencils...like the process of mummificaztion done in Egypt....

One's my brother got fungal infection in scalp so doc recommend to shave it off...and my brother told everyone that he is just going to do some photography..

My so called caring neighbor aunt told my mom to keep an eye on brother...

Catch is that her own daughter married to her boss three years ago without telling anyone...lots of rebelling session we heard...then they throw their daughter out off house....

After moving out from parents house thar girl tried to commit suicide four times in a year

And that lady dare to give pravachan to my mom...and your younger daughter walks very arrogantly ,make her walk like a girl keeping eyes low(this is for me,as i never say namaste to her)🤡

Originally posted by: Scissor

A big sigh telly as it's a topic on which I can end all 150 pages alone...

People are so judgemental that I want to pop out their brain from their nostrils just with the pencils...like the process of mummificaztion done in Egypt....

One's my brother got fungal infection in scalp so doc recommend to shave it off...and my brother told everyone that he is just going to do some photography..

My so called caring neighbor aunt told my mom to keep an eye on brother...

Catch is that her own daughter married to her boss three years ago without telling anyone...lots of rebelling session we heard...then they throw their daughter out off house....

After moving out from parents house thar girl tried to commit suicide four times in a year

And that lady dare to give pravachan to my mom...and your younger daughter walks very arrogantly ,make her walk like a girl keeping eyes low(this is for me,as i never say namaste to her)🤡

Yaar ye namaste wala kand mere saath bhi hua hai.

Dusra mujhe ye nhi samajh aata ki gharwaalo se zyada mohallewaalo ko ladki ki shaadi kyu nhi ho rhi umra nikali ja rhi hai iski tension kyu hoti hai? Undue pressure banate hai parents pe ajeeb si baat hai.

Originally posted by: carljung

Yaar ye namaste wala kand mere saath bhi hua hai.

Dusra mujhe ye nhi samajh aata ki gharwaalo se zyada mohallewaalo ko ladki ki shaadi kyu nhi ho rhi umra nikali ja rhi hai iski tension kyu hoti hai? Undue pressure banate hai parents pe ajeeb si baat hai.

I was going to write about marriage stuff then stopped myself....ladki ko kaho thoda cream lagaye,thodi parli ho jaye,thode awaz dhere karke kaho hasna chahiye.....bullshit...these people are@######################################№***************************

Feeling relaxed now🤣

Originally posted by: Scissor

I was going to write about marriage stuff then stopped myself....ladki ko kaho thoda cream lagaye,thodi parli ho jaye,thode awaz dhere karke kaho hasna chahiye.....bullshit...these people are@######################################№***************************

Feeling relaxed now🤣

Basically no other source of entertainment of such people. Ghar mei koi tv wagarah dekhne nhi deta frustrated rehte hai ki koi sunta nhi in logo ki ghar pe to ye log aas pados ke logo ke baare mei bakwas karke ninda ras se khush rehte hai.

Originally posted by: carljung

Basically no other source of entertainment of such people. Ghar mei koi tv wagarah dekhne nhi deta frustrated rehte hai ki koi sunta nhi in logo ki ghar pe to ye log aas pados ke logo ke baare mei bakwas karke ninda ras se khush rehte hai.

Ok...I finally laughed...at the end of day..thanks Carl

Really it was a hectic day😭