Vidhi pleading to Dev for Abhi - Small Analysis

Epi#80 Post#4

Disclaimer.. loooooong post ahead... apologies in advance if by any chance it way too much of analysis..

Lets start with the most discussed part Vidhi pleading to Dev that too way too much...

okay.. so pleading way too much annoyed me just a little but not her pleading part... reason.. ???

Vidhi wasnt pleading to Dev to give HIS Brother a chance, she wasnt there defending HIS younger brother...

rather She was pleading Dev to give chance to a FELLOW Underconfident person (in business knowledge),

who lacks trust in his own ability,

who has lived an overprotected caged life so far,

What HP did to Vidhi consciously (clipping her wings so that she should not fly to prevent her fall)

Dev did that very same thing to Abhi unconsciously.. (to not to let him even practice flying just to prevent his fall.)

what Vidhi saw in Abhi was not just Dev's brother but a person who has lived life like a bird in a beautiful golden cage who got no chance to fly, got no exposure in life, life's hardships, struggles that could help him strengthen his Wings to try a flight in current situation...

And the way Dev helped her (visual example - asking her to order her own coffee, and many n many more subtle examples) to let her do things on her own for her own self... she tried to do the same.. just that the Stage and Scale is different.

also there wasnt anyone in that whole office (even Dev himself) who could have understood what Abhi must have felt in that moment but only Vidhi.. cause she had been thru it numerous times... and the way she helped Abhi it was her way of carrying the legacy that Dev started..

to offer someone struggling a helping hand so that they can stand, dust off their nervousness and can learn to walk again.

All pizza example was her way of helping Abhi in his own forte and she was so good doing that also.

So i absolutely loved how Vidhi kept her stand firm till the end.. and even questioned back Dev ke "You yourself doesn't have the confidence in Abhi that you want to see in him"

i clapped at that line.. am sure Dev never thought Abhi could do anything business related on his own.. cause Dev never gave Abhi a chance to walk, to stumble, to fall, to get hurt and then to get up to keep on walking....

Cause Dev was always scared for him to get hurt... but hurting is part of learning.. untill you get hurt you cant figure out what should not be done to prevent this hurt again.

there is another show watch...Aprajita and there Aparajita's husband left her 17 years back (not sure exact time but more than 15 years for sure) and now he is back to do some scheming and wants Aprajita to accept him back and she throws one powerful line on his face

When someone is thrown in water there are 2 things that happen.. they either drown n die or they learn to Swim.

So what I felt Dev never let Abhi got into water in fear he might drown without even giving other option a chance....what if he learns to Swim.

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And today Vidhi stopped Dev from pulling a struggling Abhi cause she wants That Caged Bird to try its first flight on his own.... no matter what the consequences be

(not for business but for Abhi... he wont back down even if blasted by the investors)

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And that Jamvant ka metaphor..

here is the Video how Jamvant made Lord Hanuman realize The Power only he has...

https://youtu.be/DWg0H0RSvws?t=98

Wow , what a post, deep analysis.

So I will start with the Jamwant part . It was at that situation when the whole vanarsena were worried who will overcross the river in search of Sita Devi and all were aware that Hanuman ji can do it. Jamwant reminded him of his powers , all those things, specialities of Hanuman which glorifies his power and ultimately Hanuman ji did it. That was the perfect way from Vidhi to Dev when he was asking Tum hoti kaun ho mujhe gyaan Dene waali and her reply was Jamwant. And Vidhi was able to understand situation of Abhi well because being hidden under the shell of HP she has faced it. Here Abhi was also under the shell of Dev. So when Vidhi was explaining it with simple way Abhi was able to understand it. Because usse business kee bhaasha samajh nahi aati. And Vidhi was telling truth dev ko khud apne bhai pe bharosa nahi hein. Kyunki Aaj Tak uske bhai ko usne kisi hard task karte huye dekha nahi toh usne yeh conclusion bana liya kee Abhi se nahi ho payega and Vidhi broke that conclusion amazingly through motivating Abhi. I was telling she was trying all ways to stop Dev and that pleading part was the ultimate step from her to stop him. Because Aaj agar Abhi yeh akele nahi kar paya toh usska anjam kya hoga ? Shayad iss baat ki fear thi Vidhi mein isliye itni strongly woh request kar rahi thi

You changed your DP. Iss mein Height difference aur unke eye lock dikhte hein 😍😍

Originally posted by: Revutty

You changed your DP. Iss mein Height difference aur unke eye lock dikhte hein 😍😍

yeah i know i loved this moment the best in todays epi.. so had to use it ❤️☺️

Sorry dear here I totally defy your point of view..as in earlier episodes dev really did his bit to make abhi do his venture in business..u can check the episodes earlier than balghar episode where dev met vidhi first time...dev only went to balghar because he got hurt by abhi harsh words because he was ready to buy hotels for abhi...thing is that it's human nature than when elder one doing wonders in any field than younger sibling try to run away from it....

My sister cooks amazing dishes with lots of spices and garnishes really well and I just cook for survival and healthy one so it's obvious every one like her dishes more than mine as result whenever she cooks I never cook in front of her for my family...as they start all praising her🤣

That's why dev is not at fault it's abhi 's inferiority and he just want to pursue his passion..even in episodes he is like what if I embarrasses dev bhai..many times

And vidhi just used his love for his dev bhai only..

Dev' s only problem is that he doesn't know how to convince him...

Originally posted by: Scissor

Sorry dear here I totally defy your point of view..as in earlier episodes dev really did his bit to make abhi do his venture in business..u can check the episodes earlier than balghar episode where dev met vidhi first time...dev only went to balghar because he got hurt by abhi harsh words because he was ready to buy hotels for abhi...thing is that it's human nature than when elder one doing wonders in any field than younger sibling try to run away from it....

My sister cooks amazing dishes with lots of spices and garnishes really well and I just cook for survival and healthy one so it's obvious every one like her dishes more than mine as result whenever she cooks I never cook in front of her for my family...as they start all praising her🤣

That's why dev is not at fault it's abhi 's inferiority and he just want to pursue his passion..even in episodes he is like what if I embarrasses dev bhai..many times

And vidhi just used his love for his dev bhai only..

Dev' s only problem is that he doesn't know how to convince him...

i am very much agree with you here as well....

younger siblings do have this complex first and second if elder sibling wants to guide them they just dont take it.... and Abhi is very same younger brother... (my younger brother doesnt want me talk abt his issues let alone guide him)

and as you said Dev wasnt able to convince him.. but Vidhi did.. exactly thats what i mentioned too...

she had been in that situation in her life so she knows how Abhi can be convinced... there is a saying in hindi.. Jake pair na phate bivayi wo kya jaane peer parayi no matter who you are...

So Dev was unable to convince cause he dint know whats the cause of Abhi not wanting to pursue business but Vidhi could feel it and she talked to Abhi as another once underconfident person as compared to Dev who used to talk as an elder, more experienced, more confident, more celebrated person at home.

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

i am very much agree with you here as well....

younger siblings do have this complex first and second if elder sibling wants to guide them they just dont take it.... and Abhi is very same younger brother... (my younger brother doesnt want me talk abt his issues let alone guide him)

and as you said Dev wasnt able to convince him.. but Vidhi did.. exactly thats what i mentioned too...

she had been in that situation in her life so she knows how Abhi can be convinced... there is a saying in hindi.. Jake pair na phate bivayi wo kya jaane peer parayi no matter who you are...

So Dev was unable to convince cause he dint know whats the cause of Abhi not wanting to pursue business but Vidhi could feel it and she talked to Abhi as another once underconfident person as compared to Dev who used to talk as an elder, more experienced, more confident, more celebrated person at home.

I know ye kahawat hai but maine jaldi mei bivayi ko bavasir padha.

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

i am very much agree with you here as well....

younger siblings do have this complex first and second if elder sibling wants to guide them they just dont take it.... and Abhi is very same younger brother... (my younger brother doesnt want me talk abt his issues let alone guide him)

and as you said Dev wasnt able to convince him.. but Vidhi did.. exactly thats what i mentioned too...

she had been in that situation in her life so she knows how Abhi can be convinced... there is a saying in hindi.. Jake pair na phate bivayi wo kya jaane peer parayi no matter who you are...

So Dev was unable to convince cause he dint know whats the cause of Abhi not wanting to pursue business but Vidhi could feel it and she talked to Abhi as another once underconfident person as compared to Dev who used to talk as an elder, more experienced, more confident, more celebrated person at home.

😘😘😘u got my point of view

Originally posted by: carljung

I know ye kahawat hai but maine jaldi mei bivayi ko bavasir padha.

Yahan bhi masti🤣🤣🤣apka kya Karen hum🤣

Originally posted by: Scissor

😘😘😘u got my point of view

humari telepathy aise hi thode hai itti Strong....🤗