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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well lot people said that somehow Mohan's behavior or eagerness to get Megha's answer is kinda weird considering the situation of Megha...But it's not irrelevant or without reason, just u have thought...Yes it also has some reasons...It has some consequences of events behind it...After rashmi ditch him, Mohan started feeling disgust about love, because he got only the bitter taste of it and that takes all his belief from love...We saw his view about love several times...But then came Megha with her firm belief in love and with every day's interaction Mohan finds lots of qualities in Megha which earn his respect, honor for her and day by day it's getting deeper and eventually converted to love...But initially Mohan was also retreating from this feelings, try to brush aside it considering it a mere infatuations...But some shocking and unexpected events like his false reporting about amar, prateek track and rashmi's track bring the clear picture of her heart before him...He finally feels that he isin love which he thought was never gonna happened in his life after ditched by rashmi...But the greatest tragedy is that it is not possible for him to confess his love because whom he loves is a widow with two kids, from a small town and conventional family and above all she loves her husband above every thing in this world and his death didn't lessen that love rather make it more deep...In this situation, the first thing Mohan wanted is to make a friendship with her, make himself a trustworthy person to her, want to win her trust and dependence on him and we see when Mohan achieved this through Prateek track how much happy he was...But still he wasn't sure to convey his feelings and try to put it before her consciously or subconsciously 4 times...But irony is seeing her reaction he has to promptly nullify his confession by disguising it in a act of drama or joke as we have seen in Rashmi's farmhouse or her engagement...Because Mohan don't want to loose that friendship atleast ("tum he khone ka darr tum ko pane ki khushi se kahi jyada hai...")...He said the same to GURU also that "mai usse kabhi pa to nahi sakta magar usse khona bhi nahi chahta"...So he made a compromise of remain as a good friend of her and was happy with that ki he atleast getting her company although not getting her completely...He has to burried his greatest desire, his overwhelming love within himself even before it get chance to come in day light...Surely understand how much painfull it would be...But again some unexpected turn up of events took place which made him to rethink about this...He saw Rashmi telling her about Mohan's feeling, also Mohan's mother told Megha that she is very special for Mohan, then Megha's behavior of ignoring him in office and finally reading her eyes after beating that lafanga, Mohan got a sure hint that Megha has already known his feeling and very bother about it...But it made him more surprized that even after knowing his true feeling Megha doesn't consider him like enemy or guilty like Prateek but just choose to keep distance...Then during amar case track Megha openly stand for him before whole world and openly claimed that after amar Mohan is the most trustworthy for her...And finally when Mohan saw Megha come running barefooted to stop him and after hearing his last and confirmed and clear(not disguised anymore) confession that he loves her still stand their with a urge that he must not leave the Mohalla and during that huq wala scene when Mohan saw her eyes and also her leaving immediately without giving any answer to the question "tum kaunsi huq se mujhe rok rahi ho????", Mohan assume or more precisely got confirmed ki Megha also feel for him subconsciously but she is not able to express it as because she is still living with her past...Now Considering these situations Mohan decided to bring the reality before her from her subconscious, try to act as a morror which reflects the true feeling of Megha about Mohan before her, which still is in megha's subconscious...And Mohan understand that for this to happen Megha has to be pushed, to bring her back from her past to the present...Make her to see what is waiting for her in future...Also after buried his desire for so long time, bearing so much pain for not confessing his love, leaving hope for getting his love ever, when Mohn actually confessed his love with so much passion before Megha and get a hint about her heart, he got so much relieved, his heart becomes so much lighter...Now he is in seventh heaven...Life becomes so nice for him...Everything seems very easy for him...Believe me this happens when u get even a small confirmation about ur love no matter wrong or right, u also live in a heaven and then ur main motto become whatever confirmation u've got make it a concrete one that to get a full and final confirmation from ur love interest and for this ur about to take any means,u can go to any extent, how mature or wise people u would be, because it's a urgency of
heart, it's an emergency of ur love, it's most required things by that time for ur living, for ur well being...That exactly happened to Mohan...He got a hint now he is desperate to make it confirmed, confirmed by Megha herself...He is sooo lost in his love, his newly got hint, his realization that he is not able to think about Megha's situation...He saw a new ray of hope to relive his love and got absorbed into it forgetting all the consequences...Before we see in mandir when megha asked him to spare hr and her family he quickly agreed because he doesn't want to see her in trouble...But now the situation is different...Monu is roaming in the world of imagination dream and doesn't seem to come back in reality...that's why see behave in this weired manner to win megha's heart...It's I think normal and quite efficiently shown by CV...and for this track I don't think the main theme NBT i.e subtlity or silent nature won't be hurt at all I think...Also the current pagal majnu avatar of Mohan is temporary and he soon will come to reality and understand what he had done but it needs a shocker which bring Monu back to real world from his dreamland...I think that shock will come in the form of Megha's slap which bring Monu to the ground of reality and make him feel the actual situation of Megha...Also u sited that it would be better if the love between them would grow up through every day's interaction...But I want to assure u this will never be possible... Because due to society, her orthodox family and above all her endless love for Amar Megha completely confined her life within amar and vyas family...To her falling in love again or thinking about other male except amar is like a crime and she believes this will hurt amar also...Think after taking the rose whenever Megha heard the name of Amar, how much guilt hse was feeling and try to crushed the flower...So to bring her from her self imposed captive condition, to break her wrong assumption that her life and love has finished with amar and now the only resource for her living is amar's memories a hard strike was neede which stired her up from inside, which shook her heart rigorously so that she become free from her past, she can see the colors of life again and above all she can wish to live life again, can start the new beginning...That's why Mohan did those acts which push megha to the edge of her emotion, make her think in a new way, make her accept the present...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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hey how d u get time to write so long analysis.
par mujhe achi lagi. Good!!!👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wow nice one yaar 👏. I totally agree megha needs that push to come to her senses and I think that is what Mohan will be doing by giving her marriage proposal.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ big_007 :
i agree with you in a way, megha does need a push from her current static state to move ahead in life, and maybe you are right about defending mohan's actions too, but i still feel that mohan should have showed a little more maturity in this matter, after all, being in love isnt a new feeling to him and he isnt a teenager kid either. that's why i couldnt go gushing about yesterday's episode, i really felt mohan's behaviour to be OTT.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: big_007

Well lot people said that somehow Mohan's behavior or eagerness to get Megha's answer is kinda weird considering the situation of Megha...But it's not irrelevant or without reason, just u have thought...Yes it also has some reasons...It has some consequences of events behind it...After rashmi ditch him, Mohan started feeling disgust about love, because he got only the bitter taste of it and that takes all his belief from love...We saw his view about love several times...But then came Megha with her firm belief in love and with every day's interaction Mohan finds lots of qualities in Megha which earn his respect, honor for her and day by day it's getting deeper and eventually converted to love...But initially Mohan was also retreating from this feelings, try to brush aside it considering it a mere infatuations...But some shocking and unexpected events like his false reporting about amar, prateek track and rashmi's track bring the clear picture of her heart before him...He finally feels that he isin love which he thought was never gonna happened in his life after ditched by rashmi...But the greatest tragedy is that it is not possible for him to confess his love because whom he loves is a widow with two kids, from a small town and conventional family and above all she loves her husband above every thing in this world and his death didn't lessen that love rather make it more deep...In this situation, the first thing Mohan wanted is to make a friendship with her, make himself a trustworthy person to her, want to win her trust and dependence on him and we see when Mohan achieved this through Prateek track how much happy he was...But still he wasn't sure to convey his feelings and try to put it before her consciously or subconsciously 4 times...But irony is seeing her reaction he has to promptly nullify his confession by disguising it in a act of drama or joke as we have seen in Rashmi's farmhouse or her engagement...Because Mohan don't want to loose that friendship atleast ("tum he khone ka darr tum ko pane ki khushi se kahi jyada hai...")...He said the same to GURU also that "mai usse kabhi pa to nahi sakta magar usse khona bhi nahi chahta"...So he made a compromise of remain as a good friend of her and was happy with that ki he atleast getting her company although not getting her completely...He has to burried his greatest desire, his overwhelming love within himself even before it get chance to come in day light...Surely understand how much painfull it would be...But again some unexpected turn up of events took place which made him to rethink about this...He saw Rashmi telling her about Mohan's feeling, also Mohan's mother told Megha that she is very special for Mohan, then Megha's behavior of ignoring him in office and finally reading her eyes after beating that lafanga, Mohan got a sure hint that Megha has already known his feeling and very bother about it...But it made him more surprized that even after knowing his true feeling Megha doesn't consider him like enemy or guilty like Prateek but just choose to keep distance...Then during amar case track Megha openly stand for him before whole world and openly claimed that after amar Mohan is the most trustworthy for her...And finally when Mohan saw Megha come running barefooted to stop him and after hearing his last and confirmed and clear(not disguised anymore) confession that he loves her still stand their with a urge that he must not leave the Mohalla and during that huq wala scene when Mohan saw her eyes and also her leaving immediately without giving any answer to the question "tum kaunsi huq se mujhe rok rahi ho????", Mohan assume or more precisely got confirmed ki Megha also feel for him subconsciously but she is not able to express it as because she is still living with her past...Now Considering these situations Mohan decided to bring the reality before her from her subconscious, try to act as a morror which reflects the true feeling of Megha about Mohan before her, which still is in megha's subconscious...And Mohan understand that for this to happen Megha has to be pushed, to bring her back from her past to the present...Make her to see what is waiting for her in future...Also after buried his desire for so long time, bearing so much pain for not confessing his love, leaving hope for getting his love ever, when Mohn actually confessed his love with so much passion before Megha and get a hint about her heart, he got so much relieved, his heart becomes so much lighter...Now he is in seventh heaven...Life becomes so nice for him...Everything seems very easy for him...Believe me this happens when u get even a small confirmation about ur love no matter wrong or right, u also live in a heaven and then ur main motto become whatever confirmation u've got make it a concrete one that to get a full and final confirmation from ur love interest and for this ur about to take any means,u can go to any extent, how mature or wise people u would be, because it's a urgency of
heart, it's an emergency of ur love, it's most required things by that time for ur living, for ur well being...That exactly happened to Mohan...He got a hint now he is desperate to make it confirmed, confirmed by Megha herself...He is sooo lost in his love, his newly got hint, his realization that he is not able to think about Megha's situation...He saw a new ray of hope to relive his love and got absorbed into it forgetting all the consequences...Before we see in mandir when megha asked him to spare hr and her family he quickly agreed because he doesn't want to see her in trouble...But now the situation is different...Monu is roaming in the world of imagination dream and doesn't seem to come back in reality...that's why see behave in this weired manner to win megha's heart...It's I think normal and quite efficiently shown by CV...and for this track I don't think the main theme NBT i.e subtlity or silent nature won't be hurt at all I think...Also the current pagal majnu avatar of Mohan is temporary and he soon will come to reality and understand what he had done but it needs a shocker which bring Monu back to real world from his dreamland...I think that shock will come in the form of Megha's slap which bring Monu to the ground of reality and make him feel the actual situation of Megha...Also u sited that it would be better if the love between them would grow up through every day's interaction...But I want to assure u this will never be possible... Because due to society, her orthodox family and above all her endless love for Amar Megha completely confined her life within amar and vyas family...To her falling in love again or thinking about other male except amar is like a crime and she believes this will hurt amar also...Think after taking the rose whenever Megha heard the name of Amar, how much guilt hse was feeling and try to crushed the flower...So to bring her from her self imposed captive condition, to break her wrong assumption that her life and love has finished with amar and now the only resource for her living is amar's memories a hard strike was neede which stired her up from inside, which shook her heart rigorously so that she become free from her past, she can see the colors of life again and above all she can wish to live life again, can start the new beginning...That's why Mohan did those acts which push megha to the edge of her emotion, make her think in a new way, make her accept the present...

👏 very real.. when u love somebody..this is exactly all what happens..."Believe me this happens when u get even a small confirmation about ur love no matter wrong or right, u also live in a heaven and then ur main motto become whatever confirmation u've got make it a concrete one...urgency and emergency of love...newly got hint... forgetting all consequence"
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@big_007agree to most of your views regarding Mohan and also agree that Megha needs some shock.

Regarding Mohan's behavior, while some would say he should have been circumspect, it was typical Mohan. If he feels he is not doing anything wrong he simply goes and does it without bothering about how anybody else will feel. He is just an open book.

Again the difference in upbringing was highlighted, Mohan being brought up in a much more informal environment, as compared to the Vyases who follow the rule book.

On any other day asking Megha to sit next to him in the dinner table would have been scandalous. Here he being the guest, he escaped with just some looks. Thankfully MIL was in Vaishno Devi else she would have probably fainted
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well said.. Nice analysis 👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree with you analysis on why he is doing this. But i'm not if he really thought out all of this. Because in last episode too he said something like "mujhe kya karna chahiye, kya mein sahi kiya aur kya hoga ab". Maybe its subconcious reasoning that makes him to do these things.

But i think marriage proposal will not happen, none of the coverages said anything about he giving marriage proposal.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks for this post big_007. You spoke my thoughts. I agree with you and Merc_Nary. What Mohan has been doing for past few days, is that he is being himself. He knows he is not doing anything wrong by declaring his romantic interests to his love, so he does it, in his own style.

And I have also said it earlier that behind Mohan's madness lies a method.

That is what he did during last week as he kept the Vyas family, Pracreep and Evilnath in the dark and went ahead to disclose Amar's innocence to the world. He was able to keep his promise to his Chawanni, could avoid any threats to Chawanni, Megha or anyone from Vyas family, as he wanted to buy few hours from Evilnath & gang before the truth is out on a national TV.

The character of Mohan is far too mature, behind his childlike mannerism lies a thoughtful and cynical mind, which believes in love, caring to his core. I felt this about Mohan the first time I saw the NBT show, it was Moahan - Nanhi first meeting at PL office. 😊 Every episode after that has only confirmed this belief.

Therefore, apart from the emotional reasons you have given big_007 or his more modern upbringing as brought out by Merc_Nary, Mohan's current full on Majanu Avtar, I think, are also a part of his method of madness. A method suites his personality and perhaps he has practiced it during his professional life as a crime reporter, hence he is able to use this method effortlessly.

Did he not say yesterday after we saw Megha smiling to his jokes at the dinner table and quickly getting him hanky, "Kuch to ho raha hai aapko, lagataa hai mere sawaalon ka jawaab jald hi milne waala hai..."? That statement to me was a confirmation that Mohan is doing all this to make Megha realise her feelings for Mohan.

Megha is currently going through this big turmoil of emotionally swinging from her past and present. Her past being her lost love - Amar and the life she lived. Her present being again at multiple levels.

At one level she has this part which is holding onto Amar, who wants to live a single woman's life as widow of the martyr Amar, who tells herself that she has already lived all the emotions, joys of her lifetime during her life spend with Amar.

At another level, she has seen her need for friendship and companionship, be it to share a cup of tea or some to buy a small toy / gift for her son or to find her daughter - twice. Mohan has made a remarkable presence in her current life. He is the one who makes her laugh. With whom she is able to be really carefree.

So far, Megha was yet to realize that Mohan is much more to her than a friend. But yesterday's episode she is being shown to be getting that realization, just like the prick of a throne, it hurts, she started bleeding.


Monu is roaming in the world of imagination dream and doesn't seem to come back in reality...that's why see behave in this weired manner to win megha's heart...It's I think normal and quite efficiently shown by CV...and for this track I don't think the main theme NBT i.e subtlity or silent nature won't be hurt at all I think..

I am quoting these lines for I totally agree with them.

I feel Monu becoming sooo eager to push Megha has something to do with his dinner date with Vyas's and the fact that Megha cooked him a meal. There is something about one enjoying good food made by one's love interest and after that one going on a trip, "I wa
nt MORE, I want More, I want everything". Believe me, this is true for men as well as women. 😉 😃
😃

When the promos of Mohan invited to Vyas house came, I was kind of laughing and was ready to see a stronger, bindhast Majnu in the show and that is what is happening. Yes, Mohan has had food from Medha's dubba earlier, but eating a proper dinner made by your love for you is an altogether different thing. No matter its a man or a woman, or it is a proper dinner date with all the privacy to the couple or Moahn's dinner with Vyas family. I admire the way the creatives showed this. "100 claps to them 👏".

So, Mohan getting more pushy seems perfectly normal.

With he admiringly gazing (I dare say almost staring!) at Megha the way he does or bringing a bouquet for Megha, give it to Jiji but only after ensuring that he keeps a Red Rose for Megha and then gives it to her at FIL's back, all this created earthquakes in our dear Megha. She is not shocked by his behaviour, she knows his feelings.

Rather she is shocked for she not being very angry about he bringing flowers for her. Or that she could not really refuse to accept that flower.

I loved the way she was looking at Mohan while FIL was showing him the house. She admired that FIL has really warmed up to Mohan. And then the mention of Amar, took her back into the island of life of a martyr's proud widow, no wonder then the throne pricked her hard. I don't want to repeat discussion on symbolism in yesterdays' episode, that has taken place elsewhere.

And the way she was peeping from the net, almost admiring him as Chawanni greeted Mohan and Guru, was marvelous. And in a flash of the moment Megha gained control over her 'all blush' expression and brought an official look was acted gracefully by Akansha. 👏 👏

The painful process of Medha realizing her desire for life after Amar, her decision to leave her past in the past and live in the present with a welcoming acceptance of future - with Mohan, has began.

Mohan's Mohanerisms, are only adding fuel to it. 😃 ⭐️

Now since its about love, this fuel is going to cause fire. So this slapping etc., is fine. For some time both of them will bare the burns, it will be painful but I am sure will result into a strong bond of love between two thoughtful persons.

Now since I have expressed my POV so much already, let me share my first reaction when I read about Megha slapping Mohan. "What on earth made Megha slap him like this? Oh she isn't some early teenager to not know how to reject the unwanted / disagreeable proposal gracefully? She is mature enough to deal with this, isn't it?

The moment I said it loudly enough in my mind it dawned to me that this is where lies the dilemma of Megha's mind. Holding onto Amar Jaap and Falling in for Mohan, at the same time.

And that moment only brought tears to my eyes, my heart went for Megha as well as for Mohan. Me thinking about the wobbly road ahead in store for them, at the end of which there is love and happiness in togetherness. But the road is tough.

So far NBTNMKK creatives have never disappointed us. So looking forward to this process of of Megha rediscovering her life again.😊



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Originally posted by: swavai2



And I have also said it earlier that behind Mohan's madness lies a method.
That is what he did during last week as he kept the Vyas family, Pracreep and Evilnath in the dark and went ahead to disclose Amar's innocence to the world. He was able to keep his promise to his Chawanni, could avoid any threats to Chawanni, Megha or anyone from Vyas family, as he wanted to buy few hours from Evilnath & gang before the truth is out on a national TV.

Mohan's current full on Majanu Avtar, I think, are also a part of his method of madness. A method suites his personality and perhaps he has practiced it during his professional life as a crime reporter, hence he is able to use this method effortlessly.

Did he not say yesterday after we saw Megha smiling to his jokes at the dinner table and quickly getting him hanky, "Kuch to ho raha hai aapko, lagataa hai mere sawaalon ka jawaab jald hi milne waala hai..."? That statement to me was a confirmation that Mohan is doing all this to make Megha realise her feelings for Mohan.

Megha is currently going through this big turmoil of emotionally swinging from her past and present. Her past being her lost love - Amar and the life she lived. Her present being again at multiple levels.
At one level she has this part which is holding onto Amar, who wants to live a single woman's life as widow of the martyr Amar, who tells herself that she has already lived all the emotions, joys of her lifetime during her life spend with Amar.
Mohan has made a remarkable presence in her current life. He is the one who makes her laugh. With whom she is able to be really carefree.
So far, Megha was yet to realize that Mohan is much more to her than a friend. But yesterday's episode she is being shown to be getting that realization, just like the prick of a throne, it hurts, she started bleeding.


I feel Monu becoming sooo eager to push Megha has something to do with his dinner date with Vyas's and the fact that Megha cooked him a meal. There is something about one enjoying good food made by one's love interest and after that one going on a trip, "I wa
nt MORE, I want More, I want everything". Believe me, this is true for men as well as women. 😉 😃
😃


With he admiringly gazing (I dare say almost staring!) at Megha the way he does or bringing a bouquet for Megha, give it to Jiji but only after ensuring that he keeps a Red Rose for Megha and then gives it to her at FIL's back, all this created earthquakes in our dear Megha. She is not shocked by his behaviour, she knows his feelings.
I loved the way she was looking at Mohan while FIL was showing him the house. She admired that FIL has really warmed up to Mohan. And then the mention of Amar, took her back into the island of life of a martyr's proud widow, no wonder then the throne pricked her hard. I don't want to repeat discussion on symbolism in yesterdays' episode, that has taken place elsewhere.

The painful process of Medha realizing her desire for life after Amar, her decision to leave her past in the past and live in the present with a welcoming acceptance of future - with Mohan, has began.
Mohan's Mohanerisms, are only adding fuel to it. 😃 ⭐️

Now since its about love, this fuel is going to cause fire. So this slapping etc., is fine. For some time both of them will bare the burns, it will be painful but I am sure will result into a strong bond of love between two thoughtful persons.


And that moment only brought tears to my eyes, my heart went for Megha as well as for Mohan. Me thinking about the wobbly road ahead in store for them, at the end of which there is love and happiness in togetherness. But the road is tough.




Hey Swati excellent POV and explanation. I loved it totally. I have something to add too, just something about Love. So naturally I think it should apply on Mohan like it applies on all human race too. Will be putting it down in my next post here

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