Oh, was it Mohan's fault ?? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Amisha.Laher

megha become now same like mohan...mohan jab bhi kuch megha ke liye aacha karta hein megha ke liye problem ho jaati hein.

now same megha kuch bhi mohan ke liye karne jaati hein mohan ke liye problem ho jaati hein.they are in same boat now.

Originally posted by: Fmani

It is NOT Mohan's fault but neither it is Megha's fault to be a widow. I get your point, Megha has to suffer all this through no fault of Mohan but her very own mistake of starting the fake wifey drama but what is passed is past. Do let's see it now in terms of bigger picture instead of mulling over Mohan's getting hurt by Megha's aloof behaviour.

If every girl here can imagine and feel Mohan's hurt then i expect she can feel for Megha's state-of-mind and empathise with it as well, keeping aside all her mistakes for once. Mohan and Megha's respective situations in life are different. Mohan is a bachelor, a free-bird, not answerable to anyone but his Mom only. His life isn't ruled by others' will and imposed on by a full family's expectations. He is in love and we as viewers can truly, wholeheartedly feel for him, cry with him but we can't expect Megha to do the same. Megha is a widow, has two kids and lives with her in-laws. She for once, kept all this aside and did something impulsive for a friend's sake, then we as viewers, criticised her for not keeping all the dire consequences in mind and not acting as a responsible, mature mother of two. But now when she is behaving maturely and sensibly for once by being aloof with Mohan, then we yet again are not happy with her.

Why call her behaviour sensible and natural? Do keep in mind that Megha is no more speculating that Mohan is interested in her or not. She is 99.99% sure of it, it's evident when she caught Mohan looking her way from his window the other morning, having already joined all the dots of his past confessions and recalling his intense eyes in all those instances. Indu coming and creating a havoc yesterday was the last piece of the puzzle for Megha. You remember Indu's words? she said ,

"Mein Mohan ki maa hoon, jis ne ajj pehli baar apni maa ki soch ko ghalat kaha aur apni maa se oonchi awaz mein baat ki..sirf apki bahu ki wajah se!"

Indu said so many more damning and insulting things about Megha and kids. Megha would have liked nothing else than the earth to open up and eat her up alive then and there. Just imagine Megha's heartache, her self-respect which was being shredded into tiny fibers right there, in front of all. Let me remind you, Megha is just not a random unmarried girl, she's a widow so all this heartache would have been her fate (at the hands of Indu) had this fake wifey drama not occured. Now we can't expect Megha to only think about Mohan's having feelings for her. She has to think of how to restore her family's faith while keeping her job for her childrens' sake. Now we all have best friends, if we end up getting both of us in trouble and the only way out of that trouble is to keep away from that very friend. We can bet on one thing for sure, that friend, being our best friend will try and keep us from implementing this plan and we would of course melt and soften up so again end up getting both in trouble. <------ This is Megha's thought process behind her cold behaviour towards Mohan. She doesn't know (like we do) the extent to which Mohan's heart is lost in love for herself, keeping in mind Indu's pain (Megha's a mother too, remember?) Megha knows that to get back to their friendly mode that MM shared, would be to encourage Mohan's feelings to grow and that would end up in more heartache for everyone including Megha's family too. How can a person, that too a mother herself, be expected to live with the burden of creating a rift between a mother-son pair? Megha thinks that by this extreme move, Mohan might get hurt and in a short while he'll start thinking bad of Megha hence the end of infatuation. Yesterday, each and every expression of Megha showed, that she wasn't enjoying having to be aloof with Mohan, her eyes showed clearly that it's hard for her too but when one is being stretched to the limits from every direction, then one does tend to take such extreme actions like Megha did.

Mohan's mom was shown all hyper in yesterday's episode, why now? Because Mohan had blurted out his true feelings for Megha, out of all the frustration of being hounded by Indu. Now just imagine, if not now, this was bound to happen in future sometime, right? It is just that all this fake hubby-wife drama brought it along this early into the story. It was like inevitable. Indu would have come to know eventually and then it would have proceeded much the same as it did yesterday. Do you think she would have insulted and maligned Megha&kids any less then? So do plz consider thinking about the broader picture here then just Mohan's hurt 😊

Originally posted by: Fmani

Thanks Swati, for such words of praise 😳

Hmm yeah, since the prateek fiasco started Megha has constantly been in negative limelight one way or the other. Some of the responsibility for this can be laid with the CVs but the rest of it is our's, without any doubt. I have myself gotten frustrated time and time again and drawn hope from your positive reviews. I do hope that we all stop judging Megha every time and (in spite of our "blind devotion" for Mohan) do look at everything that happens, objectively - from every character's perspective rather than only a particular one.

Originally posted by: sia1976

Also I think people's so called blind devotion is more for Kunal than Mohan 😉 and hence Megha is facing the brunt 😭