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Posted: 13 years ago
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and i agree many ppl won't like such pics of their relatives. but just 4 this u deny them their happiness!and may b her mother'd done 4 greed & not of majboori but does it give any license 2 blackmail sum1 & justify it in the garb of so-called moral values which IMV'd least regard. his only concern was his ego & honor. and its proved in the end that he did all 2 satisfy his ego & false honor.

Whats wrong in protecting one's honor ? 90% of Indians r VERY TOUCHY about their izzat . It may surprise u but so r the wealthy Westerners ...the type who r churchgoing or have a country club membership . Blackmail kiya maane kya kiya ? Uska usse personal panga to nahi tha . He just wanted her out of his son's life as he believed her past wud haunt his son . Did we get to see that ? No na ? They ended it like a big fairy tale wedding but maloom hai asal main kya hota hai ? Had the serial run , they wud have defo shown tracks after tracks full of problems . And Sabina accepted na ? Kyu ? She did not have options is it ? Option tha na refuse karne ka ? Himmat dikhane ka ? Nope EVEN SHE AGREED . She herself was ashamed of her mom is the blunt truth .

i rem once baapu said if IMV won't've money then no1"ll rem him. if motilal master won't've money but no1 even 4get him & respect him likewise only!!
Really ?😆 Then why was IMV's name used when Motilal Master was rushed in hospital ?That take him in quickly , he is I M Viraini's Father ?😆 Why was it not told to the hospital that he is Motilal Master take him in ? Why was Motilal's name not used ? Who knew Motilal Master to remember him and respect him ...was he a Gandhi or something ? He was just a simple school teacher . Why was he hankering so much for respect post death anyways ?😆 Who is remembered ...Dhirubhai Ambani or his Dad ?

don't know whether u know that in ancient times there used 2b nagarvadhus which r sort of pros but they were given respect & their dauhters if didn't want 2 go n the profsn they were not judged on the basis of their mother's profsn.

And there r devdaasis in villages too , Culture is my personally fav topic . See the movie Devdas and u will understand what I am trying to say ...how Paro's mom was made to dance in the party or how ChandraMukhi was looked down upon . No one is saying they were bad . Ur talking of PRACTICALITY in one breath and yet ignoring the real reactions that wud have PLAGUED Vaibhav for LIFE . His father , who was more experienced foresaw it . He knew how Society wud hound his son ...unfortunately Serial has ENDED , we cannot see those parts .We gotta convince ourselves they had a fairy tale ending .

and no1 is saying u sympathise wid her mother but only thing is why make hill out of mole by saying abt sanskars.

Coz it MATTERS . It matters a LOT . In little little things it matters , the upbringing . Maybe for her holding hands or hugging a man is ok and she is dil ki saaf and does not mind it all , but Vaibhav WOULD . His upbringing was traditional and different . It wud pain him , he wud have been driven crazy .He cud not even handle the journalists shooting questions at her about her past affairs . IMV was not a fool to have concerns .

and abt knowing sabina's mom.they never said she did rt but they refused 2 judge sabina bcoz of her!!and ddi IMV'd chai-paani wid sabina's mom that he knew that wats the ckt of her daughter!

IMV did not need to have chai paani with Sabina's mom to know the character of her daughter dear . He had an ENTIRE FILE on Sabina's character right on his desk by employing private detective . He knew EVERYTHING about Sabinas character ...that she was linked with 3 directors before Vaibhav , that Vaibhav was not the first and only man in her life .

4 me IMV was never a grey ckt but rather villain of the story!!

For you perhaps .😊 But Let me tell u , as this was my bread and butter and my degree is in this subject only ...analysing characters ...IMV was very firmly a Grey Character . Thats how he wud be classified in Literature . He fits perfectly in that slot . Not telling you this to show my knowledge etc , this is simply a fact . Maine Yehi kiya hai jabse is mein degree le li . Harkisan Mehta knew what he was doing .😊 Yeh serial unhone aise khatam kiya , book mein uska character detail se develop hua hai .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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kools beta..😆apologize for barging in your lil tete a tete .. but m gonna quote my prof for your benefit.. something he harps on incessantly.. that I assume too much knowledge on behalf of my audience..😆so chill.. me and you see a Heathcliff as dark, layered.. we almost romanticize him.. we see a Gail Wynand beyond his stoic cold blooded ways.. but everyone wont..

dark is rather commonly equated to villainy.. and ppl like us are considered evil worshippers.. for seeing the humane attributes in dark characters.. well what works for IMV was his sheer multiplicity.. all the other characters taken together couldnt equal his layers.. he REMAINS the most FASCINATING and ATTRACTIVE character.. and m so proud that someone on Indian tv attempted to portray a IMV and gave him as much dignity as possible.. in this day and age when holier than thou is hailed and intolerance stems for anything outside tht realm.. but in reality none of us are actually tht holy.. in fact far from it😆 D is as unreal as it gets.. relegated to fiction.. but IMV is in ALL OF US..😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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it was a quite early ending. i must say good shows ends faster and pathetic shows like Uttaran are still making viewers fool.😡
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

and i agree many ppl won't like such pics of their relatives. but just 4 this u deny them their happiness!and may b her mother'd done 4 greed & not of majboori but does it give any license 2 blackmail sum1 & justify it in the garb of so-called moral values which IMV'd least regard. his only concern was his ego & honor. and its proved in the end that he did all 2 satisfy his ego & false honor.


Whats wrong in protecting one's honor ? 90% of Indians r VERY TOUCHY about their izzat . It may surprise u but so r the wealthy Westerners ...the type who r churchgoing or have a country club membership . Blackmail kiya maane kya kiya ? Uska usse personal panga to nahi tha . He just wanted her out of his son's life as he believed her past wud haunt his son . Did we get to see that ? No na ? They ended it like a big fairy tale wedding but maloom hai asal main kya hota hai ? Had the serial run , they wud have defo shown tracks after tracks full of problems . And Sabina accepted na ? Kyu ? She did not have options is it ? Option tha na refuse karne ka ? Himmat dikhane ka ? Nope EVEN SHE AGREED . She herself was ashamed of her mom is the blunt truth .

i rem once baapu said if IMV won't've money then no1"ll rem him. if motilal master won't've money but no1 even 4get him & respect him likewise only!!
Really ?😆 Then why was IMV's name used when Motilal Master was rushed in hospital ?That take him in quickly , he is I M Viraini's Father ?😆 Why was it not told to the hospital that he is Motilal Master take him in ? Why was Motilal's name not used ? Who knew Motilal Master to remember him and respect him ...was he a Gandhi or something ? He was just a simple school teacher . Why was he hankering so much for respect post death anyways ?😆 Who is remembered ...Dhirubhai Ambani or his Dad ?

don't know whether u know that in ancient times there used 2b nagarvadhus which r sort of pros but they were given respect & their dauhters if didn't want 2 go n the profsn they were not judged on the basis of their mother's profsn.

And there r devdaasis in villages too , Culture is my personally fav topic . See the movie Devdas and u will understand what I am trying to say ...how Paro's mom was made to dance in the party or how ChandraMukhi was looked down upon . No one is saying they were bad . Ur talking of PRACTICALITY in one breath and yet ignoring the real reactions that wud have PLAGUED Vaibhav for LIFE . His father , who was more experienced foresaw it . He knew how Society wud hound his son ...unfortunately Serial has ENDED , we cannot see those parts .We gotta convince ourselves they had a fairy tale ending .

and no1 is saying u sympathise wid her mother but only thing is why make hill out of mole by saying abt sanskars.

Coz it MATTERS . It matters a LOT . In little little things it matters , the upbringing . Maybe for her holding hands or hugging a man is ok and she is dil ki saaf and does not mind it all , but Vaibhav WOULD . His upbringing was traditional and different . It wud pain him , he wud have been driven crazy .He cud not even handle the journalists shooting questions at her about her past affairs . IMV was not a fool to have concerns .

and abt knowing sabina's mom.they never said she did rt but they refused 2 judge sabina bcoz of her!!and ddi IMV'd chai-paani wid sabina's mom that he knew that wats the ckt of her daughter!

IMV did not need to have chai paani with Sabina's mom to know the character of her daughter dear . He had an ENTIRE FILE on Sabina's character right on his desk by employing private detective . He knew EVERYTHING about Sabinas character ...that she was linked with 3 directors before Vaibhav , that Vaibhav was not the first and only man in her life .

4 me IMV was never a grey ckt but rather villain of the story!!

For you perhaps .😊 But Let me tell u , as this was my bread and butter and my degree is in this subject only ...analysing characters ...IMV was very firmly a Grey Character . Thats how he wud be classified in Literature . He fits perfectly in that slot . Not telling you this to show my knowledge etc , this is simply a fact . Maine Yehi kiya hai jabse is mein degree le li . Harkisan Mehta knew what he was doing .😊 Yeh serial unhone aise khatam kiya , book mein uska character detail se develop hua hai .

i disagree wid u!!may b ur sub is analysing ckts. though i m not a literature student. i was a science. but i've interest in many oder sub likeliterature, psychology & philosophy. so'd read so many books & discussed a lot on it. and that Harkishen Mehta wrote his book on a real life prsn. i heard that one such businessman was there in gujarat he was 4th richest prsn in india at that time!!and i agree he knew wat he was doing but still he didn't recommend his way nor he glorified it & even he married sabina 2 vaibhva.and even wenever i read such discussions on black grey or white ckts. i never found critics or oder experts saying its a gud trend rather the profsnl sociologists r worried abt it!! even wenever theres sum film/show is made theres always concern in these profsnl ppl who r doing reaserach on this 4 whole of their lifre. so a prsn who tried 2 murder a gal just bcoz ur son luvs her & get killed a prsn so that he won't open his mouth abt his"kaali kartoots" then it won't remain a grey ckt how much we say!!!
i m not saying his thinking of not wanting his son wid sabina is wrong. but the method was wrong & judging sabina was wrong.she might'd link ups in the past then even 2days gals've so many linkups. if they r hiden it doesn't mean they don't've!!even tina munim who was also linked up by media wid many & even had sum link ups is married 2 anil ambani!!so i think Dhirubhai ambani shud'd also tried 2 murdeer her!!😆😆
motilal master is not a known prsn in mumbai. even IMV is known bcoz he was richest prsn. but i'd said that baapu said that ppl won't rem IMV if he wudn't've money but if sum1 says that the prsn is teacher or guru immediately respect cums. i'd literally seen this happening wid my mom who was a lecturer.and if IMV hadn'd money wud any1'd paid much attention 2 motilai if IMV's name was used. no!! and its a fact that once a prsn doesn't've enough money like IMV & also doesn't've human values ppl won't value them. but even if u'dn't money but'd human values & compassion then many ppl cum 4ward 4 ur help.
the live e.g is our family. my father was a doc & he was famous in our town not just 4 his profsn but 4 his humanity. and wen he died in an accident so many ppl came 2 see 4 last time(we were at village as creamtion was 2 done there but my frnd's parents told us abt it) & that was almost equal 2 the no. of ppl who wud've cum on the death of a local MLA or Richest prsn. ppl even 2day rem him bcoz of his humanity & wenever sum1 hears tha twe r is family ppl immediately cums 4ward 4 our help & even sumtimes go out of the way( but not leagl). and wen he died we were not that much rich which were expected from a renowned & reputed doc wud'd been. and my father always said don't earn money but earn ppl & their faith. don't earn sum1s "baddua" but earn their respect so that wenevr they see u they give blessings 2 u!!
so thatswhy i can't connect 2 IMV & i prefer humanity rahter than IMV's tactics!!😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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kools beta..😆apologize for barging in your lil tete a tete .. but m gonna quote my prof for your benefit.. something he harps on incessantly.. that I assume too much knowledge on behalf of my audience..😆so chill.. me and you see a Heathcliff as dark, layered.. we almost romanticize him.. we see a Gail Wynand beyond his stoic cold blooded ways.. but everyone wont..


dark is rather commonly equated to villainy.. and ppl like us are considered evil worshippers.. for seeing the humane attributes in dark characters.. well what works for IMV was his sheer multiplicity.. all the other characters taken together couldnt equal his layers.. he REMAINS the most FASCINATING and ATTRACTIVE character.. and m so proud that someone on Indian tv attempted to portray a IMV and gave him as much dignity as possible.. in this day and age when holier than thou is hailed and intolerance stems for anything outside tht realm.. but in reality none of us are actually tht holy.. in fact far from it😆 D is as unreal as it gets.. relegated to fiction.. but IMV is in ALL OF US..😃


He was the only character who spoke the blunt truth even as he lied upwardly to get his way .

Those who spoke the truth , LIED all the time .

How ?

Whatever he said was REALITY .

Whatever they said was IDEAL and does NOT exist today . They did big talk and built castles in the air .

All that they worshipped and did amounted to empty chaos and achieved nothing .

All that he did had a very real base to it .

All the answers he gave ...Yes I choose Money over my family coz with that money I can protect my family...Very true .

That girl can never be bahu of this house , some pasts r so muddy , The mud clings to u for life

What the hell do YOU know of life { To Devki]

Protecting my family is definetely my business [ Knowing all about Vicky Oberoi Knowing all about Sabina }

Work is Worship

Even the charities that U run Charu require money

Its not my mistake that you did not want to fly high with me

I make my own fate and despise those who b lame all on fate

If u want to become a business woman r u gonna talk about LOVE and PHILOSOPHY in boardroom politics

Learn to CONTROL ur emotions Vaibhav .

I built this empire with hard work and no woman is gonna come and destroy it .
Friendship can change into love , work on ur marraige instead of doing mahanta

In every aspect he was right . As against that whatever these people said

Money is not important

Respect is got even in poverty[ self respect and social respect r two totally different things]

PYAAR is important and marraiges shud nEVER be made without PYAAR

One month old PYAR is Radha Krishna love

Lets tell bahu of how the girl still loves Vabihav

Bahu is divorcing ?Great ! Lets support the divorce !

Let grandson roam from city to city looking for his ast Pyaar by neglecting business , wife etc , he is doing a big noble Deed

Lets support VIcky and Sabina's nakli marraige [ BAA} let his WIFE go to hell
[ If she comes even sHE can weep in my lap}

Lets LIE to BB when he directly asks is something wrong with V and D's marraige [ what maturity !}

Lets welcome Sabina at the cost of another heart breaking , let this great PYAAR flourish on the corpse of a broken marraige

PYAAR is eternal

We can all live on PYAAR without money

Maangrol days and poverty was great

We have the right to break AHANKAARS

Children make foolish choices and Elders shud keep blessing them quietly

One can make it b ig in the corporate world by being so NAIVE , simply on basis of HONESTY

All was rubish and false and does NOT work in real life so I saw no reason to fall for it when it was shown on TV cloaked in big words .

Truth never changes . Those who saw IMV as a villain can of course call him so , but the villain represented REALITY .





























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Posted: 13 years ago
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i disagree wid u!!may b ur sub is analysing ckts. though i m not a literature student. i was a science. but i've interest in many oder sub likeliterature, psychology & philosophy. so'd read so many books & discussed a lot on it. and that Harkishen Mehta wrote his book on a real life prsn. i heard that one such businessman was there in gujarat he was 4th richest prsn in india at that time!!and i agree he knew wat he was doing but still he didn't recommend his way nor he glorified it & even he married sabina 2 vaibhva.and even wenever i read such discussions on black grey or white ckts. i never found critics or oder experts saying its a gud trend rather the profsnl sociologists r worried abt it!! even wenever theres sum film/show is made theres always concern in these profsnl ppl who r doing reaserach on this 4 whole of their lifre. so a prsn who tried 2 murder a gal just bcoz ur son luvs her & get killed a prsn so that he won't open his mouth abt his"kaali kartoots" then it won't remain a grey ckt how much we say!!! Some of the best characters in literature r those who do crimes and yet r classified as grey characters only . Thats the way they r conocted by the authors . When Harkisan Mehta wrote the book he had a choice . He cud make IMV totally black [ the hee hee haa haa tye of villain ] or give him human attributes to make him interesting .He did the latter . When so called villains r given a solid human base for their crime instead of an inherent evil nature , it is classified as a grey character . I rest my case , if u dont wanna accet it , fine by me .
i m not saying his thinking of not wanting his son wid sabina is wrong. but the method was wrong & judging sabina was wrong.she might'd link ups in the past then even 2days gals've so many linkups. if they r hiden it doesn't mean they don't've!!even tina munim who was also linked up by media wid many & even had sum link ups is married 2 anil ambani!!so i think Dhirubhai ambani shud'd also tried 2 murdeer her!!😆😆 Dhirubhai Ambani did not murder her but her films were STOPPED . And Mukesh Ambani drifted apart from Anil Ambani as his objection to this marraige was the most vociferous . He HATED it , this alliance . He had wanted Neeta Ambani to find a good homely girl for his brother , The rift that hapened within such a giant empire was ONLY due to this marraige . When it happened , THIS REASON was commented upon ...that things NEVER WERE THE SAME between the two brothers and once Dhirubhai died , there was no need for Mukesh to hold back . He went ALL the way . Ask me , I have followed up on it like mad .
motilal master is not a known prsn in mumbai. even IMV is known bcoz he was richest prsn. but i'd said that baapu said that ppl won't rem IMV if he wudn't've money but if sum1 says that the prsn is teacher or guru immediately respect cums. i'd literally seen this happening wid my mom who was a lecturer.and if IMV hadn'd money wud any1'd paid much attention 2 motilai if IMV's name was used. no!! and its a fact that once a prsn doesn't've enough money like IMV & also doesn't've human values ppl won't value them. but even if u'dn't money but'd human values & compassion then many ppl cum 4ward 4 ur help.
the live e.g is our family. my father was a doc & he was famous in our town not just 4 his profsn but 4 his humanity. and wen he died in an accident so many ppl came 2 see 4 last time(we were at village as creamtion was 2 done there but my frnd's parents told us abt it) & that was almost equal 2 the no. of ppl who wud've cum on the death of a local MLA or Richest prsn. ppl even 2day rem him bcoz of his humanity & wenever sum1 hears tha twe r is family ppl immediately cums 4ward 4 our help & even sumtimes go out of the way( but not leagl). and wen he died we were not that much rich which were expected from a renowned & reputed doc wud'd been. and my father always said don't earn money but earn ppl & their faith. don't earn sum1s "baddua" but earn their respect so that wenevr they see u they give blessings 2 u!!You are missing the point . ALL r remembered for a few days within the hometown where they lived with their respect intact ...very few r known internationally or within the country for what they built . And THAT shud not be trivialized as they did it in this serial . For thats not EASY. Dhirubhai himself was accused of using unthical practices to gain licenses etc by an enquiry commitee ...his war with founder of Indian Express Ramnath Goenka is legendary . Goenka unmasked him . But Reliance has made India proud today internationally , when India talks of its achievers , Reliance is on its list . Dhirubhai dismissed off the charges by pointing out to what his company accomplished . No corporate success is EVER achieved the way Devki was shown ...this I can write in my blood on a black stone .

Lets differ here😆 Our perspectives r vastly different . I said it for umpteenth time but we keep coming back😆
so thatswhy i can't connect 2 IMV & i prefer humanity rahter than IMV's tactics!!😊
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@kools i'd agreed 2 disagree. i was simply putting my opinions 4 not idolising IMV's ckt!! i agree that in literature best ckts may b r those who did crimes but still remain grey but taht doesn't mean those ckts & their authors r rite!! they were considered as not the ckts 2 b followed 2 learn from them & putting things as literary is quite difft than reality!!
and i m also not saying IMV is totally black but i don't consider him eitehr as only grey!!its not necessary 2 bcum a villain sum1 has 2 do "heehaa huu"" type of laughter. luk at abu salem or dawood !! will u call them grey but they never did "heeheehaahaa"!!😆😆and i agree wen sum1 has sum strong reason 2 bcum criminal like phoolan devi then they r called grey ckt but wen phoolan devi started killing innocent ppl then she was turning in2 a black ckt or villain!!
and mukesh didn't've rift bcoz of tina munim but bcoz sum business activities & sharing in sum business. i'd read all abt it. so i can't say its the reason. bcoz why 2 wait 4 DB ambani 2 die??.doesn't his mother alive??and yes tina munim did stop working in films so sabina was also shown stopped working!!
i agree that in presently reliance is making proud but wen history is 2 b written it"ll b at the bottom!!so all in all which matters is who impacted india in human way. india was known 4 not just its wealth but also 4 its huamnity & morlity. ref. is Magsthenes"s Indica where he'd mentioned that there r no slaves in india though there were servants but they were generally treated gud.
and 2nd is Lord Macauly's description of India b4 introducing british educn sytem 2 produce corrupt ppl whose main gain is money!!😊
but i really like discussing wid u!!😊😊and even liked sum of ur points regarding even IMV!!!😊😊
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@Kools: I completely agree..
One line from IMV sums it up...

ek main hi imaandaar hoon aap sab nyaay ka dikhawa karte hain..

as I see it apart from IMV only D lived her conviction till the very end as naive as it was.. she made no false sermons.. (I simply think she had CPs courage)..

but look at the rest.. Charu- what happened to the promises she made to CP abt being Ds mom.. akhir Vs pain came in front.. how did she protect D from the life she will now have to lead.. yes her hubby got her married in vengeance.. but what did she or her son do to help it.. what happened to all the lame warnings she gave VV.. tht if coz of u and sabina I see tears in tht gals eyes I wont forgive u.. she was the one standing with a thaali to WELCOME sabina.. sad

VV conveniently said there was nothing wrong of a father to expect his sons to continue his legacy when it came to Sid giving up on Painting. .he said it was an unreal career choice.. as a virani we have some decorum.. what happened to all those beliefs and conviction.. one tantalizing actor with her attractive bohemian lifestyle just threw his 29 yrs of belief system out of the window..

baa bapuji did stop at nothing till IMV died a lonely death.. and they got a master clone upholding mangrol.. I am more disgusted by their expectations than IMVs expectations..

Sabina once romaned around like a martyr saying big things like my khushi cant ride on the pain of so many ppl.. so what happened.. how does she live tht daily.. her shameful eyes.. when she cldnt even meet Ds eyes till the end said it.. tht her decision in the end did cost V his family in daily life.. V lost his father.. even at the end when Ishwarya told Sid and Nirali to live their dreams.. he had no blessings for V.. their bond was the strongest.. they showed ZILCH interaction btw them in the end.. how do VS live that down.. how can ROMANTIC ASPIRATIONS be so encompassing.. radha krishna is a nice analogy but Krishna was not only abt his leela.. and radha did not come in his way of his duties for which he took this avatar.. at the end.. D ended looking like meera.. but Sabina was anything but radha.. 😆

how can V live tht marriage knowing he was unfair to D.. in his blind chase.. knowing she loved him and did so much for him.. how selfish can he be.. and ppl have the galls to call IMV selfish..tht matrimony of VS in reality is doomed.. at some point the conscience will take over and marr the colorful glasses they wear now..

In all these shady convictions 2 conviction were inspiring one of IMV and the other of Parimita.. IMO.. and I will hold them close coz they were immensely well shaped and real.. and did not need lame words to prove any point like the idealists.. when their actions said otherwise..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i m happy for vs they ended together
only bacause of them i oved the show
there was a sweet happy ending
but sad mb abhi dekhne nahi milaga
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@kools i'd agreed 2 disagree. i was simply putting my opinions 4 not idolising IMV's ckt!! i agree that in literature best ckts may b r those who did crimes but still remain grey but taht doesn't mean those ckts & their authors r rite!! they were considered as not the ckts 2 b followed 2 learn from them & putting things as literary is quite difft than reality!!

and i m also not saying IMV is totally black but i don't consider him eitehr as only grey!!its not necessary 2 bcum a villain sum1 has 2 do "heehaa huu"" type of laughter. luk at abu salem or dawood !! will u call them grey but they never did "heeheehaahaa"!!😆😆and i agree wen sum1 has sum strong reason 2 bcum criminal like phoolan devi then they r called grey ckt but wen phoolan devi started killing innocent ppl then she was turning in2 a black ckt or villain!!
and mukesh didn't've rift bcoz of tina munim but bcoz sum business activities & sharing in sum business. i'd read all abt it. so i can't say its the reason. bcoz why 2 wait 4 DB ambani 2 die??.doesn't his mother alive??and yes tina munim did stop working in films so sabina was also shown stopped working!!
i agree that in presently reliance is making proud but wen history is 2 b written it"ll b at the bottom!!so all in all which matters is who impacted india in human way. india was known 4 not just its wealth but also 4 its huamnity & morlity. ref. is Magsthenes"s Indica where he'd mentioned that there r no slaves in india though there were servants but they were generally treated gud.
and 2nd is Lord Macauly's description of India b4 introducing british educn sytem 2 produce corrupt ppl whose main gain is money!!😊
but i really like discussing wid u!!😊😊and even liked sum of ur points regarding even IMV!!!😊😊


You did not understand the Hee Hee Haa Haa point . 😆 But lets leave that ...I will come straight to the Ambani Saga .

The split was OH SO NOT just for business reasons . The business reasons developed as a bitterness that set in due to Anil's choice that was objected to strongly by Mukesh Ambani particularly . He was the sedate brother of the two and disapproved strongly of his brother's attraction for glamour and films .

Dhirubhai and Kokilaben Too had DISAPPROVED and FROWNED at Anil's obstinacy to marry a film actress . Thy gave Prmission later , but it was known that Tina Munim was accptd due to Anil's obstinacy .

There was cold war btween Nita and Tina from the outset as Muksh disapproved heavily .

The sisters ...Dipti Salgaoncar and Nina Kothari Stayed OUT of this and tried to be as cordial to both brothers as possible by bing neutral .

When Dhirubhai died , the cold war had reached pak point . It affected even the business .

Many analysts commented on it that the underlying cause for this rift was personal bitterness .

That marraige shook the Ambani Empire . U see , no one wanted Tina , who had ben having a liv in relationship of sorts with an older actor ...Rajesh Khanna for quite some Time .

I read up on the Ambanis from time to time , and these were th facts I read in almost EVERY mag or paper . Some facts recur , and r repeated as they r often the truth . Rumors die out , but some facts R never blotted out . Its a FACT that journalists watch the reactions and expressions of Nita or Mukesh when Tina is near them . CLOSELY .😆

I totally disagree that Reliance will be at bottom when history is written . I do NOT see India being written in the anals of history as a humanatarian country when till recent there was rampant Sati and burning of women , allowed by SOCIETY as something deeply religious ...as early as the early nineteenth century . These kind of practices led the world to believe that we were rather barbaric .

Today we can be safely classified as a third world country that has the potential to become a super power in the future as we have the market for free enterprise , if more companies like Reliance contribute to our rise , We can make it . We r steeped in corruption and when we have nothing else to boast of , we fall back on our ancient spiritual glory and talk of our great culture ...without really practising it in real life . Do we really practise what our great ancestors advocated ? The answer is NO . We only use them to win arguments [I am not talking of u , in general } but the real fact is our society is steeped in ignorance and does MANY inhuman acts . WE have a long way to go before going down as a nation that stands for humanity ...We will have to clean ourselves up first .Anyways these r my personal perspectives about My country ...I love my country but I am not blind to its faults . It was good discussing with u .😊














Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 13 years ago

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