Originally posted by: sonali.19281
In theory I wld not be replying to your post but i am compelled to as Its my thread.. coz unfortunately our convictions have NO CONNECT...đ I havent asked for anyone's reply infact I havent even read your post hence its understandable there is no connectionđon your point of mourning LOSS.. loss of what.. As I see it.. one-sided love which wasnt requited is hardly a LOSS.. that always remains.. V has lived with the impression that S never loved him.. hence you cant lose what you never had.. for SEPARATION there needs to be TOGETHERNESS.. the proposal of which was never reciprocated by Sabina.. blame the world. .but it was HER CHOICE.. Irrespective of S accepting or refusing his love its still a loss of VV's love when he sees no success in it.No one is Judging Sabina was staying in with VO.. its her utter stupidity to ask a married man.. and his equal stupidity to respond is being questioned.. people just abuse broad-mindedness.. Parimita's modern philosophy quoted.. modernism is advancement.. not abandonment of social norms.. Although the intent was good.. VO-S living situation is a breach of social conduct.. more so from VO domestic POV.. in Ramayan Ram may have trusted Sita.. but Ram the KING was answerable to his empire... for that very breach.. as much as you would want to one CANT ALIENATE SOCIETY.. even if you do.. would you want to alienate the trust of your own spouse and child.. and cause them misery..
I dont appreciate Ram for wht he did to Sita rest already commented they are responsible for their actionsWe live in a world where all humans are equal whether rich or poor, black or whiteextremely generic statement this.. as a scientist I can pretty much show that ALL HUMANS ARE NOT THE SAME.. Equal can mean equal rights if thats what you imply.. and Am all for tht.. But this idealist statement holds less water in reality.. Equal rights may or maynot translate into equal opinion.. I am in no means going to hold equal opinion of Amartya Sen and Kareena kapoor.. altho both are rich.. from the same race.. and meet your criteria cited..Equal rights dont translate into EQUAL value. I am obviously going to value my family more than I value ANY OUTSIDER.. as subjective as it may sound.. thats my CONVICTION and I stand for it..the sad part about idealism is it sounds good but hardly makes a stand.. much like the statement you just provided..
well as a doctor I can tell you all humans are the same and equal no rich man managed to die a different death, no rich man succeded to take a single penny with them when they die and IMV is no different.An finally let me just justify relating to IMV.. much as I love equal rights.. I can not suffer foolsđ.. I may empathize with them.. and take them as special needs.. but they wont get equal treatment.. obviously not..Case rested..
Kindly dont reply to this post coz as already clarified I dont await any ones reply. I make a general comment mostly as per my choice. I havent got that kind of time to indulge in such activity and I find it rude not to reply when some one replies to me.
Hope case is truly rested