Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
parents are more experienced and they consider the best for us. agree. but one should live a life by his own with his choices coz its their life to live with. and they have to learn the experiences of their life.
RB , I understand ur point about Baa . I am not doubting her love . But I do not agree with the stand she has taken over Sabina ...She shud have simply stayed out . It is between Vaibhav and that girl and Vaibhavs parents . Baa's sansar is done . Accepting Sabina as a bahu or not is strictly IMV and Charus prerogative .
Regarding ur above statement ...well , I have doubts about it aLL my life .😊 Children or youths r inexperienced and what seems wonderful to them turns sour later . The parents can often foresee this . Parents r emotionally involved with their kids and they CANNOT be detached and let them learn the hard way . They cannot say Ah well I told u my advise but now its upto u . Son may decide to take a break from studies to pursue a hobby and the parent may put his foot down and say No way , ur gonna complete ur studies FIRST or I will cut u out of my will without a dime . Coz He knows , Valuable years will be lost in that hobby pursuing thing and others will race ahead of his son . Same way A son or daughter may decide to marry a divovecee who is ten years elder to him etc and has children as he feels he is in 'love' . A parent may flip his lid and try to break it by hook or by crook ...he may not mind being the bad guy in sons eyes but he will try to save his son from falling in that messy situation coz he knows some lovely girls r out there for him ...this is love of a parent , it is not control Many. Indian parents especially have this attachment as our culture is different .
Sorry if the word horny offended u .😊 But They DO come across as desperate . V has squeezed Sabinas arm in passion , jumps to hold her at every point , blasts Vicky calling her a NAZUK CHEEZ that needs to be taken care of , stares and stares at her in a smitten way when she dresses up and climbs down stairs ...there is zilch control by keeping the fact that he is a married man in mind . He constantly hovers around her to hold her etc ,I do not like it . My POV strictly .
Sorry if the word horny offended u .😊 But They DO come across as desperate . V has squeezed Sabinas arm in passion , jumps to hold her at every point , blasts Vicky calling her a NAZUK CHEEZ that needs to be taken care of , stares and stares at her in a smitten way when she dresses up and climbs down stairs ...there is zilch control by keeping the fact that he is a married man in mind . He constantly hovers around her to hold her etc ,I do not like it . My POV strictly
i believe that desperate and horny both are two different terms. it does make difference when u call some one Desperate or horny.
and pls i am not getting myself here to prove V's actions are right or wrong. coz obviously its wrong when men go gaga over any married women.
but i never saw vaibav desperately wanting to make love with S or relli wanted bad to have her in bed or get naughty with her ever.
V has squeezed Sabinas arm in passion , jumps to hold her at every point , blasts Vicky calling her a NAZUK CHEEZ that needs to be taken care of
squeezing arms(the caravan scene where V pinned sabina and blocked her way ) jumps to her, blasts Vicky- from all this, i find him despo, obsessed and mad over S. and i hardly see any physical attraction over S in all the scenarios u said above.
agree.he is a despo and mad lover to get S love in his life. but does it made him horny in any day?
and i am not justifying his actions are right.I too donot like any married man goes desperate for parai woman. NOT LIKE IT too.
thing is i couldnt see V getting sexually attracted to S . coz they never shared passionate kiss, hug, nothing. then how can V's actions to be called horny over S?
i am least interested to analyze why VS lov eq lacks passion that almost every lovers has in their relationship.
may be coz, CVs showed VS as mahan lovers who believes in chand lamba and radha krishna. or wateva.
But JN are different from VS mahan lovers
Nirali and Jimmy. I agree Nirali shares a heavy physical attraction with Jimmy. When she hugged him I saw her enjoying her physical intimacy with J. she might turned horny while hugging him. But for V so far i havent seen any scenes lke that. may be i missed out any epi. don know.
i didn get offended .i was wondering how V's actions( that u mentioned above) named horny.
btw i am not good in analyzing things and expressing it. hope u get what i was trying to say.
Edited by R3b3l_Pr1nc3s5 - 14 years ago
